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I just got my hair cut only an inch and now my dad is like " I dont think you have the right to get it cut!" Its really cute too but what do you think I should do?

well obviously you have the right to get it cut... if you didn't it wouldn't be legal... after all it is on YOUR head... he sounds like a control freak... stand up to him and tell him that your old enough to make your own decisions... the longer you wait to stand up for yourself the harder it will be...

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Hey, I get bored at school super easy and my boyfirned isn't in anyone of my classes! Anything I could do to help the go by after my work is done? Thanks.

this may sound a little nerdy... but u cud always read a book... go to the library and find sum books that interest you...

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Well i got my girlfriend a really nice gift for her birthday...well not gift....more like gifts....they were pretty expensive all together....but its her first birthday since weve been going out....and weve been going out for about 4 months now....do u think really expensive is a bad or good thing?

Since you bought her things that she wanted... it's a good thing... but prices shouldn't really matter... it's the thought that counts... my bf does the same thing.. and spends a LOT of money on my bday presents... i do feel guilty that he spends so much on me... but i know he does so because he loves me and wants me to be happy...

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how is it possible to have your period while pregnant? is it even possible at all?

from what i was taught (biology) it is possible but highly unlikely...

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Can a passionate love-hate relationship work out?

they say there is a thin line between love in hate... so in my opinion most relationships contain an equivilant amount of love and hate... you have to spend A LOT of time with sum1 to fall in love with them... and when time is spent together arguments occur... and sumtimes you feel haterd towards the person.. on the other hand if you took the time to decide that you hate someone... they must be important to you... if they werent u wouldnt have the time or energy to hate them... so to answer your question yes a passionate love/hate relationship can work out... as long as both partners are willin to compromise...

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What are some good places to find some nice dress,not like to dressie.
But just a nice dress,at a good price.

Chameleon...Forever 21...charlotte russe...Level X...papaya...urban planet

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Can anyone tell me the code for putting your subscriptions in alphabetical order in your xanga?

Thanks!! =D

it's not a code... sign in to your xanga... & scroll down to where your subscriptions are listed... click on edit subscriptions... than click on edit your general settings... (you will find that in subscription manager on the left side) than in the first box change the order of subscriptions in module to alphabetical... than hit save changes... :)

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Okay so I saw a similar question about Retro day. Well my question is about Tacky day. Could someone tell me what would be classified as "Tacky" i've heard mixing gold and silver jewlery is tacky but thats it! Can anyone help?

wearing stripes with plaids... pattern over anoter pattern, clothes with lots of different colors patterns & textures

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(14/f)Well i know everyone ask how do you makeout and stuff... I know how but i was just wondering if there were any tips? Also I have what they call a seperator on the roof of my and its to bring my teeth together and stuff....(you put a key in a twist it and yeah) So is it possible to makeout with it? Should i tell the doode before we do makeout just so he knows... I dont wanna like freak him out!!

omg i had one of those too... i used to call it a wannabe retainer... & i think it's best if you dont kiss a guy with that in your mouth... you might accidently cut his tongue or your own... and the last thing you want is sum1 elses blood flowing in your mouth...

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hey im 13/m, i know this is a basic question... but whats sum good ideas for a halloween costume?

i rate 5's for good answers

female prostitue lol... pimp... MC hammer...

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for homecoming i cant decide whether to wear myhair down ( past my shoulders length and loose curls) or up in a fancy updo or down w/ just the tiny top pulled back. any ideas in what i cna do? also my dress is strapless and id like my shoulders covered.. should i straighten or curl it?

definitely curl it... it'll give you the sexy/romantic look... having your curls flow on your shoulders...

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what is ceramic iron.. i just only know it has to do with a hair straightener

ceramic irons have ceramic plates... & they are supposed to str8ten ur hair without damaging it... but from my experience they dont work as well as the hot tools str8 iron

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I a suffering from:
Chronic depression, social anxiety disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, panic attacks, an eating disorder, obsessive complusive disorder, and anger/low self worth problems. I don't see how I am still living. Could any illness occur from all these, I have heard you can deveop tumors and other various things from so many mental illnesses?

I have never heard that... a tumor is an abnormal cell growth... there probably is a slight chance that your bodys cell division can be harmed due to stress... but try not to worry about it... millions of people suffer from depression & other mental illnesses... just make sure you set up daily visits with your therapist... & take your medicine as directed... you should be fine... and if u ever need sum1 to talk to you can always hollah at me... so if you want just ask me to add your sn to my buddylist... cuz i keep my buddy list closed...

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My friend is having a birthday but its on New Year's Eve. What kind of party should she do! And she wants to invite like at least 15 so we cant go up to the mountains or something. Thanks for the help! Luv ya!

the mountains? Do you mean like renting a cabin for the weekend? lol well that sounds like a lotta funn... you cud do that... or every1 cud chip in & you could rent a limo and go clubbin... or a teen club... (depending on how old you are) or u cud rent a party hall and hire a DJ...

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How do you find your breast cup size???

You can go to almost any place that they sell bras & ask them to measure you...

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okay, I am 21 and still a virgin. I have done other stuff just not had sex yet. The thing is I was almost raped by one of my ex boyfriends and I am kind of scared of guys now, not all but some of them. I feel really pathetice because I am still a virgin and I am 21. Plus my uncle has aids and that is another reason why I am scared. I don't have a bf right now but am looking for one. When I do find one and we have sex how can I make myself less scared to have sex? Is there anything I can do to calm myself down?
any help will be great, guys and girls

The best thing to do is save it for marriage... that way you wont have to be worried about ne thing... you've waited this long because ur scared... u might as well wait till marriage

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ok i straighten my hair alotttt. anyone have any good conditioners or shampoos that help your hair from such damage

matrix sleek look...

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Whenever my boyfriend comes over we usually just sit and watch T.V or a movie. This is really boring after a while and I want him to feel like he's having fun when he's around me. Is there anything fun that we can do whenever he's over? Nothing sexual or physical; I just mean fun by enjoying one another's company.
Ex: Making a cake, going to the park, etc.

Thank You.

there is so much u can do, u can play video games or board games, go watch a movie or go out to eat, bowling, etc

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lol whats up choti bachi

lol choti bachi? & who is this?

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Just wondering if anyone thinks its possible to put twin turbo in a 4 cylinder

No that isn't a good idea... it'll make ur engine blow... & that is not worth the money

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