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Do Opposites Attract?


Question Posted Monday October 10 2005, 1:19 am

Can a passionate love-hate relationship work out?

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Br4It22Ta05Ny answered Monday October 10 2005, 1:21 pm:
Hey Hun!
I think it could me and my bf are total opposites and I love him more than anything in this world.... I do not hate him though. But it is never a dull relationship. We have been together for 6 months now... if that helps
Hope I Helped!
Britt

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ScratchesOnTheWall answered Monday October 10 2005, 1:10 pm:
Look at Elizabeth Bennet and Mr.Darcy.

Seriously, they can be a bloody nightmare and cause a whole lot of heartache but I'd say it's worth having at least one when you're a teenager. Feeling that much about one person is crazy and emotional-sometimes the highs are worth the lows.

Enjoy them but dont count on them too much.

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soccer_crazii answered Monday October 10 2005, 10:06 am:
ya, weirdly enough, they do.

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xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Monday October 10 2005, 9:31 am:
It depends on the people & how well they overcome their fights. If you're in love, and WANT it to work, anything can.
♥ Melissa

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sbloemeke answered Monday October 10 2005, 9:12 am:
Of course. Oddly enough, opposites do attract. And I have seen many love-hate relationships work out for no apparent reason. It's just that the two are so different that being around them is fun.
Yes, it can work out. But most of those relationships do go to marriage, and usually divorce after that. But, there's always the chance.

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Monday October 10 2005, 2:31 am:
they say there is a thin line between love in hate... so in my opinion most relationships contain an equivilant amount of love and hate... you have to spend A LOT of time with sum1 to fall in love with them... and when time is spent together arguments occur... and sumtimes you feel haterd towards the person.. on the other hand if you took the time to decide that you hate someone... they must be important to you... if they werent u wouldnt have the time or energy to hate them... so to answer your question yes a passionate love/hate relationship can work out... as long as both partners are willin to compromise...

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xiicarebareiix answered Monday October 10 2005, 1:47 am:
sometimes. it really depends on the people. every case is different. i was recently in a relationship like that, and it lasted for a while, but one day i got sick of the hate and told him it was over. however, many people have more patience than me, so once again, it really does depend on the two individual people and how hard they are willing to work to make the relationship work out. i know i wasnt really specific, but just as you cant define love, there's no little book that tells you what to do in times like these. that's what your intuition is for...

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HawttxParadise answered Monday October 10 2005, 1:38 am:
i really belive that it is personalaties that attract. Or the love for one anther. So not always do opposites atract but it sometimes does work that way.

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Jarhead11789 answered Monday October 10 2005, 1:37 am:
A love-hate relationship cannot work out in the long-term.
This is to say that you won't spend your life with somebody in a love-hate relationship.
That aside, this relationship could be the best short period relationship you could ever have. The passion in a love-hate relationship is intense, but very destructive. You'll likely have the time of your life, but it will soon crash and burn.
If you're unsatisfied with my answer, or you have further questions, feel free to ask more.

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starminder answered Monday October 10 2005, 1:32 am:
oppisites do atrack but not always.

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storageanddisposal answered Monday October 10 2005, 1:30 am:
Opposites do attract, but that's not to say that a love-hate relationship is healthy. Opposites attract in that a shy person might be attracted to an outgoing person, or vice versa.

When it comes to a love-hate relationship, it really depends. In a situation where a couple say they love each other but all they do is fight, I don't think there's not much hope. I think it usually doesn't have much to do with them being opposites, but more to do with them just getting tired of each other, but not wanting to change anything by breaking up.

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