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would you consider slow dancing with another girl cheating? (link)
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It really depends on what your girlfriend thinks and how strict she is in the relationship. If she does think it's cheating just explain to her that you didn't know. I personally don't think its that bad but some girls might.
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Why do guys like sticking their fingers up people's vaginas? And why do girls like guys sticking fingers up there? (link)
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Girls like it because it gives them physical pleasure.
Guys do it because they like to please their girls, they like to see them happy, and enjoying it.
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ok im apoligizing now for the legnth bc its gonna be like but like I REALLY need advice so if you gave me some ill love you for EVERRRR..
Little background:
alright so my school is clique like no joke ok so i have this one friend emily and the rest of my friends dont like her. like she just doesnt fit like shes a slut, she drinks. and the rest of us just like to hang out and have a good time and thats just not her she'd rather be drinking and doing shit with guys. and we always gett in fights with her. like all the guys and girls in my 'clique' dont like her, and we think as soon as we get in high school (which is where were going this year) shes just gonna ditch us. which wasnt really gonna bother us bc the all the upperclass man HATEEEE our freshman class. bc we have a bunch of sluts. and number one on girls to beat the crap out of is her. and people think because were friends wtih her were like her and were not.
Story:
ok so the other night at my other friends house i got in a fight with emily and i told her how nobody wanted to be friends with her bc of those reasons and shes like thats bull and crap and she said how we shouldnt care what other people think and to some ecstent shes right but its high schoool its been that way for howeverlong and were not gonna change it, so. and at first all my firends were like good i hate her now we dont have to be friends with her but now emilys calling like the two girls in my clique that she noes are easy like to get friends wtih her agian bc they havent been friends with her that long and mind you ive been friends with her since second grade. and is like I LOVE YOU THIS IS SUMMER WE SHOULDNT BE FIGHTING. and there like yeah thats true adn now there all buddie buddies with her and like i dont know it pisses me off bc there two faced. and when i say shes all we talk about like im not lieing. it terriable but i dont no
ok so like i no theres no really question in there its just more like what do you think offf the whole decision bc i dont really regret my decision of not being friends with her its just im i dont know. just tell me what you think of everyhting (link)
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People make stupid mistakes... but dont push them away, talk to her, nicely. And alone is best, so she doesn't feel pressured, and promise (and keep the promise) that what goes on between you two stays between you two.
We all make mistakes, but nobody like to be pushed away or insulted. Saying that no body likes her, and to go away is the worst possible thing you could have ever done, I would have lost all respect for you, and never have made an attempt to talk to you again.
Shes a person too, and needs friends, not to be an outsider. I think you guys shouldn't give a fuck about whats going to happen to her, you should be her good friends. She KNOWS what shes doing, and that it isn't right but thats her damn decision, and NOT you and your friends. Let her be herself, thats what made you guys friends in the first place.
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so i talk to this guy quite often (normally through txts and IMs) and recently we got onto the topic of drinking, and ive drank before, but ive never gotten drunk....well now he talks about how we should hang out and get drunk and stuff like that, mostly cuase he wants to do stuff with me. I wouldnt mind making out or minor sexual things, but i dont wanna go any further...so what should i do to let him know that i wouldnt go very far with him, without making him think i wont do anything...thanks in advance (link)
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Tell him you've drunk before, and it's just not your thing. I dont blame you, it taste horrible and I dont want to act like an idiot, just because people say it's cool. Be yourself, if you're not comfortable, let him. He probably cares more about how hese coming off than you are, he might just be trying to impress you.
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What is a good way to deal with stress? 15/F
A while back i "heard" my parents in their bedroom and can't get over it. I've talked to them about it but still can't. I'm ALWAYS afraid I'll hear them agian so I'm always stressed.
Also you know when there are love scenes in movies and they start doin it I get mad and think that because my mom and dad watched that they will later and it just bugs me SOOO much that my parents do it. Those scences make me feel really uncomfortable and makes me more stressed, sometimes even when people are makin out it makes me feel that way.
This will sound gross but when those scenes come on I get like a heart-beat or something down around my vigina and it doesn't stop unless I rub it...I get discusted with myself.
I don't know how to get over the fact that i think sex is discusting. I hate it when my parents even bring it up...or it comes on tv like i said. It gets me so mad. I feel stressed out all the time please help!
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I'm sorry, your not going to like my advice... but it's only as disguisting as you make it. Really, sex is only as imporant as you make, so acknowledge that everyone does it, at one point or another.
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Hi I am 16 and I am going to get both of my ears pierced in one day somewhere, I'm not sure where yet... I have been doing some research and I have heard that the piercing guns suck! and they screw up a lot... Do you think I should just get my ears pierced by a gun, or by hand at a professional piercing or tattoo shop? (link)
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i got mine done by a gun and it looks greaaat! i couldnt be happier with the results, plus it didn't hurt at all
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ok i have really big boobs (42 DD) and a few times a week underneath my boobs becomes REALLY sore and really red. Its like it feels almost sweaty under them, but if i dry it it feels even worse. it hurts alot. Why is this happening, how can i prevent it or make it stop hurting? (link)
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hey
your boobs are either growing, or your bra is too small. you should try massaging them to not make the breast muscles so cramped. when you first to go move them around, they will hurt, but it's better to loosen them up.
try sleeping without a bra on [even though it's embarrassing], or try a larger size bra, if one exists. if not, try loosening the back clips (you know how there are three holes & one hook? try putting it on the loosest one).
when they're sweaty, wipe the sweat if possible but don't put baby powder / DRY it. just moisten it less. i'm not sure why that would happen, but perhaps the bra is tight & the skin under your breasts are getting irritated. i get sweaty down there too, so make sure the material of your bra isn't irritating to your skin.
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okay, i have medium length think, brown hair, my hair has a hard time holdin curl. sometimes i can get it with lots of hair spar and gel. and i will end up with the beach curl look. but i want to get some big curl look in my hair, but i don't know how else to do it. is there any good hair products that can help me get this look, or just help me with the type of curl i want (link)
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hey
there's this stuff i use, john frieda's frizzease dream curls curl perfecter; it brings out the natural curl pattern in your hair.
although its like, $7 for a 7 oz bottle, it works magic. i have naturally thick, straight hair & it actually HOLDS the scrunch.
it's suggested that you use it to scrunch your hair, but it works JUST as well if you spray a lot & curl it [as soon as it dries haha].
1. wash your hair. shampoo. condition - keep it in for 2-3 minutes whether or not it says to on the directions. it makes it softer, smoother and shinier.
2. if possible, allow your hair to airdry. if you're in a rush, blowdry it.
3. (this step is optional). if your hair is naturally curly, i'd suggest straightening JUST A LITTLE on this step so the curls look more neat. - think of it as having to go down a floor to go up two floors.
4. spritz your hair with a lot of the spray. while it's still a little wet, scrunch it. no, it will not defeat the purpose of straightening it because the end result will be worth it. the curls will be neat & not a messy volumous freaky fro on your head :]
5. preheat your curling iron for 15 minutes [if you are doing your make-up too, i'd turn it on preheat, do my make-up and then do my hair]. & curl.
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hi i was wonder do girls usually rather guys shaved down "there" or not shaved?
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well, preferably shaved or trimmed, but if it makes you uncomfortable, don't do it for a girl you like. if she really likes you, she wouldn't make you shave down there JUST for her.
as long as you're hot, no girl would give a damn whether or not you're shaved, buddy.
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Okay, I heard part of this but I'm not sure if it's a song lyric or part of a poem but I'd like to know where it came from. The words sound so familiar.
I only know one line for sure but it's like this:
We wear our pain like a heavy coat...
and that's all I can remember. If you can help me out I would be infinitely grateful.
Thank you. (link)
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who you'd be today
http://www.lovelandia.com/archive/034914.html
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Well here is the story. Ok the other day My friend had sex for the first time and she said that when her boyfriend put his dick in her it hurt really bad. And I told her ( not knowing anything about this stuff beucase I am still a virgin.)that it was probley beucase it was her first time having sex! and she said that she was moaning just because it hurt her so bad..! she said she let her boyfriend do it for like 2 min's and had to stop him. So when girls moan is it beucase they hurt so bad or it fells good? idk?
Thanks In advance!
much lover XoXoXo (link)
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well normally when girls moan its moans of pleasureee, it shouldn't be because it hurts.
they should be moaning because it feels good
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I'm going to buy my daughter a car for her 16th birthday. I want to get her something quick, sporty, newer but used, that is 15,000 or under. What are your suggestions.
[no ford or dodge products] (link)
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Fiat 500. The new one. Check it out. Safe (6 out of 5 stars, no joke), reliable, small and cute, automatic, up to 100horses, 5000 cobinations of colour, leather etc. 5 year OR 500km guarentee.
I drive a Lexus and own sport bikes and this car got me excited.
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i'm 14, 15 in two months, and a female, and I sweat SO much under my arms, i've tried changing deodorants and everything, but it doesn't really work at all, like it goes through my shirt, and it's REALLY embarrassing.
any ways to get rid of it? (link)
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Well...my suggestion might seem a little weird but...you can try long distance running. You sweat a lot, your endurance increases and you sweat less when normal.
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when i masturbate i can't ever get to an orgasm. I try really hard and sometimes i'll do if for 5 min. straight and more. how do i get an orgasm off of it? is that normal not to get an orgasm? (link)
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Let me guess...you are a teenage girl huh?
Yes it is normal. Orgasm doesn t just happen mechanically, it goes mostly through your brain.
Wait till you have some real experiences with a boy and try to you use your brain more and less your fingers.
Also do it just cause you like the process...not because you want to come. Enjoy the fingering.
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i dont feel like i am pretty or anything bcuz no guys like tell me i am to my face and like no one does besides like my friends and i think they dont mean it.
www.myspace.com/i_like_to_rawr_00
is my myspace,please tell me the truth like i dont feel pretty what so ever,and is there anyway how i can change my feeling on that?
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It's a bad picture, but even so you look fine =) I don't know what you'r worrying about! Besides, if your not happy with how you look, your still going to mature over the next couple of years =D
You look great!
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http://s166.photobucket.com/albums/u90/snopesbinary/Magic/?action=view¤t=pullapart.flv
Watch that video
HOW ON EARTH DID HE DO THAT.
I know he is an illusionist but oh my god. holy crap.
How did she SURVIVE that?! Did he put her back together too? She just crawled away...!?
Please, can someone please tell me how he did that. (link)
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http://www.snopes.com/photos/people/pullapart.asp
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There is this girl who i know used to like me a lot. Im not sure if she still does. I never thought i had feelings for her before, but now i realize i do... a lot. i think i may have came off as immature/annoying when i talked to her yesterday, and now she wont pick up when i call her, so i dont really want to talk to her and be annoying.. Do you think i still have a chance with her or shld i give it up? (link)
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I see...from what you said being annoying gives the girl a bad message. Go over to her house if you can and talk to her. Call her and leave a message and tell her something like "I'm sorry I was annoying to you last time we talked on the phone. I hope you didn't get the wrong message that I don't like. Please call me back and I promise I won't be annoying! Thanks."
If you think it's cheesy...you can change it.
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http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y11/Zeilay/hoih.jpg
I've put on weight. And today two seperate people were like
"Oh,Jordann you've put on weight."
One even was like you were like this [ ], now you're like this [ ]" (with her hands)
I'm feleign really self-conscious, and insecure.
Should I try and drop a few?
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Your not fat! Unhealthy fat is when your obese. I understand your feeling really self-conscious but don't worry! If you want, you can loose a little weight if your feeling that bad. However, I'm warning you that this can lead to loosing weight too much.
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Can you take too many vitamins and what happens if your do? (link)
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Example is like potassium overload if you eat too much of it. There's a chance and an organ will go haywire.
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I'm 15 I wear a 32 B
I got my period when I was 13 or 14
My boobs are kind of cone shaped.. is that because of my development stage or just how they are going to be? My mom is a 34C and my grandma is a D... on my dad's side my grandma's a C.
What size do you think I'll be?
When do you think they will noticeably get bigger?
Are they coney because of development or just how they are going to be? (link)
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From your description, there's a chance that your still growing. It could Stage 4. Women sometimes skip this stage and go to Stage 5. If you don't understand the breast development (the stages), there are tons of sites that give you pictures and description. Look here!
Every women grows at a pace and it can be slow or fast. The age when it stops can be as old as 21! (I'm not saying 21 is an old age). You have a few more years until your development will be complete.
And don't worry, there are women how have that kind of 'pointy' shape. Every women desires nice regular breast shapes...but in this world, what's normal?
Hope you fell more comfortable!
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