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Does she still like me?


Question Posted Thursday July 5 2007, 9:50 pm

There is this girl who i know used to like me a lot. Im not sure if she still does. I never thought i had feelings for her before, but now i realize i do... a lot. i think i may have came off as immature/annoying when i talked to her yesterday, and now she wont pick up when i call her, so i dont really want to talk to her and be annoying.. Do you think i still have a chance with her or shld i give it up?

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orphans answered Sunday July 8 2007, 8:52 pm:
I see...from what you said being annoying gives the girl a bad message. Go over to her house if you can and talk to her. Call her and leave a message and tell her something like "I'm sorry I was annoying to you last time we talked on the phone. I hope you didn't get the wrong message that I don't like. Please call me back and I promise I won't be annoying! Thanks."

If you think it's cheesy...you can change it.

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dancer101 answered Friday July 6 2007, 4:32 pm:
allright, dont call her anymore for today or tomorrow.
i know you probably don't like that idea but girls SERIOUSLY need their space.
I ALWAYS want space, trust me dont talk to her for 3-5 days, (i do the same with guys)
then ease back into things like a friendly text like saying, "hey :) what's up?"
be SUPER nice, so she has no reason to be mad.
BUT, dont keep texting her if she doesn't reply.
then it's just annoying.
im SURe you have a chance:)
GOOD LUCK!

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sdcutie717 answered Thursday July 5 2007, 11:14 pm:
I agree that you need to lay low for a little bit. Don't give it too much time though, because then you are giving her the impression that you aren't interested. Give it one or two days and then call her. If she doesn't answer, leave her a message. Be very mature and diplomatic when you leave it. Just say that you need to talk to her about something. When you talk to her, you need to be straight up with her. Tell her that you got the distinct impression that you were acting really dumb. Say that the truth is, you were only acting like that because you really like her. But be cute about it, not too serious. I know that it's hard to do, and in a teenage boys mind, it's completely gay, but take it from a girl that has dated a lot of guys, it isn't. It really does show a lot of maturity when a guy owns up to acting dumb and apologizing. Thats why girls always go for older guys. Ask her if you can have a chance to redeem yourself by taking her out one night. She will probably be thrilled since she did like you.

Trust me on this one.
Good Luck!
Sarah

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xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx answered Thursday July 5 2007, 11:01 pm:
This girl probably still likes you alot and you could have said something that upset or offended her.

Don't call every hour to try and get her to answer because it will just annoy her and she'll end up getting mad at you.

Maybe wait a while like a day or two then call her and apoligise for how you acted. Its time you told her how you feel about her before you lose her.

If she refuses to answer your calls, then maybe you could do something sweet like leave a not and a rose at her doortstep saying that your sorry if you hurt her or annoyed or whatever and that you like her. Shes going to read the letter so theres one way you can get her attention.

Its not to late to give it another go so dont be afraid to.

Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx

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xsunkiszed3x answered Thursday July 5 2007, 10:18 pm:
If i was you, I would try to lay low for a couple of days, try not to IM her or call her or whatever and see what happens. There could be another reason as to why she's not picking up her phone or something else so don't be too quick to believe that it's because of something you did. Try to see if she talks to you first. Hope this helped somewhat.

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