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14/f im really mad right now because well my best friend [guy] and i were supposed to go to the movies tomorrow and all but my parents dont let me go out with guys even though we are only friends. so i lied and told them that i was gonna go with my friend [girl]. so i called girl and asked if she wanted to come with us and guy would hide so that my mom wouldnt see him. but in the end girl cant go so i cant go with guy. im not a bad person, i have really good grades and have never gotten into any trouble. why dont they trust me to go to the movies with my best friend? i havent seen him in like a month and i freakin miss him so much! and plus i do kinda like him even tho he doesnt like me back...i just wish my parnets woould trust me and not be all in my buisness all the time. umm help? thanx (link)
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I know what you mean but parents are just doing there job. You can sit them down and try to explain to them that your ONLY friends, NOTHING more. If they still say know there is nothing you can do. They are just looking out for you they don't want you to go and have sex with him or any thing else pertaining to that. Trust me when you get in HS things will be a little different just wait it out and talk to you parents that all you can do!
GOOD LUCK!!
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Okay so thanks for opening this up and wasting 5 mins. of your life on me. LoL. Anyways I just wanted to know what is going on in this dude's head. So I know this guy and he went out with this girl for like 3 years and really they seemed like they were in love. Okay so I saw them hanging out and he seemed like he really loved her but two weeks later he breaks up with her because he is bored with her and he wants to explore other people. I really didnt see how he could just break up with her and not say anything but that he's bored. I mean doesnt he miss her? He said he was in a depressive relationship with her. But then he tries to get hooked up with another girl that doesnt like him back and he gets all depressed yet he still doesnt run back to his old girlfriend! After he realizes that the girl that he liked didnt want anything to do with him he then again moves on to another girl that he is now going out with now. I just dont understand how he can just move on from a beautiful girl that he talked to all the time and hanged around everyday of his life almost! For three years. It just seems unreal to me. Does anyone understand? (link)
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Yes!
I definitely understand. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 11 months and I'm starting to feel bored and like I want to explore other people. I think it's because we are around each other too much it's like I'm around him so much that every little thing he does annoys me. People grow a part but we haven't exactly grown apart yet. Of course if you really love someone there is still going to be a part of you that missed him/her. It seems like after you break up with someone and you find someone knew you never really think about your ex unless the relationship sucks. If you break up with someone and tell them your bored then try to get back together with them because you can't find anything better is pretty low. I don't think that will happen but maybe you never know the girl would be kind of stupid if she got back with him though.
Hope I Helped You Understand!!!
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me:14/f/
BFF:14/f/
My BFF is acting like a girl player, kinnda. She will go out with any guy that asks and she does w/e they want. I mean she hasn't gotten as far as ACTUAL sex, but she has had guys finger her. She only did this cause i told her she was WAY TO YOUNG to have sex. Me and my other friend are REALLY scared that she will go all the way with a guy that she dosen't love! Plus she says that protection for sex is "over-rated and the pull out method is better". And she says that she will have sex when she wants and has stated that she probly will on her next date with her bf that is like a SENOIR!!! Shes only a freshman!Help me! i don't want her to get pregnant! Shes too young! (link)
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No offense but your friend is a whore. I know you care about your friend and everything but if that's what kind of person she wants to be you can't change that. She will soon relise that all the guys will have talk bad about her and everyone will think she's a slut. I think she is just doing it for the attention, which is pretty sad. If she is irresponsible like that and ends up getting pregnant maybe that will make her realize that you were right. I know a lot of people that lost there virginity at age 13 or 14, at my high school virgins are not real common. If she keeps up this act its going to give her nothing but a bad reputation. There is nothing you can do, she is going to do what she wants. You could tell her parents that she is planning to go around and have unprotected sex so they will put her on birth control but then you risk loosing your friendship by a great deal.
Good luck!
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me:14/f/
BFF:14/f/
My BFF is acting like a girl player, kinnda. She will go out with any guy that asks and she does w/e they want. I mean she hasn't gotten as far as ACTUAL sex, but she has had guys finger her. She only did this cause i told her she was WAY TO YOUNG to have sex. Me and my other friend are REALLY scared that she will go all the way with a guy that she dosen't love! Plus she says that protection for sex is "over-rated and the pull out method is better". And she says that she will have sex when she wants and has stated that she probly will on her next date with her bf that is like a SENOIR!!! Shes only a freshman!Help me! i don't want her to get pregnant! Shes too young! (link)
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hey
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pull out method = not good. PRECUM?
ANYWAY, sweetheart, i see where you are coming from. have you tried talking to her like ALONE without anyone around? just telling her, "look, i know we are best friends & we always will be, but i'm really worried about you. so many guys like you because of your gorgeous features & i'm afraid you will become pregnant when you have sex." just flat out TELL her. don't give her any HINTS or anything [not that she would understand them anyway if she says the pull out method is better than wearing a condom and / or using birth control]. just flat out tell her. i know it will be hard to muster up the courage, but don't involve your other friend quite yet. try by yourself & if she doesn't budge, let your other friend try talking to her.
DONT say things like, "YOU ARE HAVING SEX! YOU ARE GOING TO BECOME PREGNANT!" use "I' terms like, "I think we need to talk. it seems to ME that your gorgeous features are attracting many boys, and that's fine, except I'M worried you guys may go too far." try to avoid saying "you" as much as possible - replace "we" or "i". that way, it avoids many opportunities of saying the wrong thing & miscommunicating.
if she gets mad at you / doesn't want to listen, i'm afraid there really isn't much else you can do, unfortunately. if she isn't open to people wanting to help HER future, then she will end up with whatever choices she decides to make.
just know, in the end, you gave it your best shot. if she doesn't listen to you & your other friend, & one day comes up to you crying saying, "I'M PREGNANT" just let her know that you TRIED to help her. but maybe she'll learn that the pull out method against condoms & birth control is like paper against a gun shot... you can try it, but odds are you won't end up happy :]
i hope i helped, babe, & don't worry too much about her if she doesn't listen to you. she does what she wants with your life & you do what you want with yours as well.
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I asked a few weeks ago about losing 20 lbs in 2 months, and apparently it's too extreme. So I guess I'm lowering my goal to 15 lbs. (17f/145 lbs/163cm)
My diet so far includes:
breakfast - rye bread with jam / green tea (I have nothing else to drink)
lunch - rice with chicken breast or noodles in soup with lettuce
dinner - more rice with either eggs/chicken/fish/pork/beef etc. with various vegetables on the side
Snacks - baked pretzels, cheerios or seaweed
I exercise 3-4 days a week, 1 1/2 - 2 hr @ a gym, burning off anywhere in between 400 to 600 calories (depending on how much time I spend there). I do not do muscle training because it's always too crowded in the area.
I never feel sore or tired. And whenever I laze around at home I feel incredibly bored because time goes by so slowly, whereas at the gym time flies by. So would it be okay if I went for more than 4 days? And is my goal achievable, or should I drop it another 5 lbs.
thanks.
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hey
a few things. no more than 5 pounds a week. so in 8 weeks, you can lose up to 40 pounds. so uhm, no 20 pounds really isn't that extreme if you are overweight [i didn't bother checking your BMI i'll just take your word for it].
anyway, all your meals sound great except... as a snack, maybe instead of baked pretzels which can cause you to be more hungry, try nuts! they are rich in antioxidants & fill you up better.
hmmm... you never feel sore or tired? when you go to the gym, you should be breaking a sweat & feeling a little burn. if you NEVER feel "challenged" then what you're doing is too easy for you.
yes, it is okay to go to the gym for more than 4 days. you should be working out 3-5 times a week for at least 30 minutes. but don't get addicted. your body needs to rest. - i am not so sure if you would even WANT to go for more days after what i just said about how you're PROBABLY not working yourself hard enough. after you feel a little burn, you'll feel tired & not want to go back so much. also, it's better to break a sweat in 30 minutes, stop & feel the burn than just doing something that's too easy for your body for 1.5 - 2 hours. just try doing something a LITTLE more challenged. go up gradually.
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i`m 16 and i have been dating my boyfriend of 18 for over a year. we hang out constantly, every day. we decided to take a break this weekend and make it a friends weekend. we both decided on this and were happy with it. then he asks me if i want to be single for this weekend - like pretend he doesn't exist and hookup with other guys. why would he ask this?! i said NO right away, and he was like i don't either i was just asking. why would he ask that randomly?! (link)
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it sounds like he wants to hook up with other girls.
and asking you first was good to see what your reaction is because then he wont be like i want to if thats ok, because he probably knew that you would say no.
or he could have been testing you to see what you say, but its most likely that he wants to be single for the weekend
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first things first--15/m.
ok so like i said, im 15 and theres this girl(lets just call her bonqueesha lol) who is basically all over me, and shes really cute and all.. but shes only 13. see in my opinion i think it would be wrong/weird for us to hook up or go out or whatever, so what do all you advicenators think? (link)
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you know theyres like age differences. like theres a big difference between say 14, 17. but not like 29 and 32. even though theyre both only 3 years, its more drastic
I'd wait until she's 14, because then youll either be 15 or 16, depending on the birthdays, which is better
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Well i am called fat at school. I am not sure if i am or not. Can you tell me? Idk about BMI stuff but i am not sure. ok:
I am 5'8" and weigh like 130-135.
I don't think i am but can you tell me?
PLEASE (link)
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No your just average. Your not skinny, but your average
tell the people to eff off =]
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I just got what's called the "smiley" piercing.
Here's a link below to show you what it looks like, it's very unusual. (It's the upper piercing, if you didn't know.)
http://tattoo.about.com/library/graphics/lindasmiley2.jpg
It's my ONLY piercing and my teeth are perfectly, movie-star white and straight. I have a bar in it instead of a ring right now so you can't see it.
What does everyone think, is it tacky or just strange?
Would I look trashy even though it's my only piercing?
I don't dress trashy at all, I have a sort of "preppy/classy" look- I keep myself looking sharp and clean.
So.. Opinions? (link)
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I do think it is very strange, but I like that sort of thing. It may mess up your teeth in the long run, I'm not sure though. It's unique and even if someone does think it's trashy or whatever, don't worry about it if you like it. =)
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OK this is the situation i broke up with my bf we hadn't been going out long. This girl in my class had liked him all the time we had been going out and about 2 days after we broke up she asked him out (which is really lame!)He said yes and they are going out now should i be angry that it had been only 2 days since we had broken up or should i get over it?
Please help!!!
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No you shouldn't be angry. He probably said yes to her to make you jealous or to try to get over you. Don't worry about it, forget about him. =)
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Can you get pregnet on your period? (link)
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Ever heard of the show Talk Sex With Sue Johanson? The show with the elderly lady giving sex advice/info?
I remember someone asked this question and according to her you can. She added that your chances are lessened but it is still possible. That chick that said that "this is the time to get pregnant" is incorrect.
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um this is a sort of personal question but i have to have an opinion on this.my boyfriend has been like my bestfriend since i we started really talking.we were friends before we got together and i was going out with other guys.when i wasnt talking to them or my bff/sister,i was talking to him.and i had one really bad break up & i cherished him for truely being there for me.it took a while for him to ask me but i ended up dating my bestfriend.we did have some times where things were sketchy but we never argued,since we were friends we had no problem telling eachother what was up.now we have been together for seven months.im going to a different school and im may be moving too.i told him and he almost cried and i did.(very girl-like of me,i know) so if i do have to leave him i wanted give him something important and precious to me.and this would be of my own will.we have talked about sex and he said it was entirely up to me.i just want to know how to make sure this is something i won't regret one day.i know he respects and loves me but how can i be sure this is the right thing? (link)
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You don't seem confidant about, which is a sign you aren't ready. If you feel that you can emotionally handle it, and if you two really love and care for each other it's fine. he seems like a very sweet boy. if you know you'll be able to see him and visit him, don't do it just yet. there's loads of other special things you can do.
i'm dating my best friend. i did have sex with him, it wasn't planned but i don't regret it being with him, he's such a sweet and gentle guy. i only regret the age i did this. I was 15 [still am]. You really ought to wait but in your heart if you believe this is the boy you want to lose your virginity to, go for it [if you are SURE about it].
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i know masturbation is healthy and all, but how much is too much? i masturate 2-3 times a day, mostly right before i go to bed at night, but sometimes during the day when noones home. (link)
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Oh that is perfectly normal. If it doesn't affect your social life, school life, etc than it isn't too much. Masturbation is healthy, don't worry about it. =)
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i`m 16 and i have been dating my boyfriend of 18 for over a year. we hang out constantly, every day. we decided to take a break this weekend and make it a friends weekend. we both decided on this and were happy with it. then he asks me if i want to be single for this weekend - like pretend he doesn't exist and hookup with other guys. why would he ask this?! i said NO right away, and he was like i don't either i was just asking. why would he ask that randomly?! (link)
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It sounds to me like he wanted to be single this weekend. I suppose he figured if you pretended to be so can he. He probably wants to hook up with some other girls and just have something different for a change. I'm not saying that is true, but that's just what I'm getting from it. I'd ask him about it though.
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Well i was having sex [with a condom]
and he tookit off a few times and then put it back on,but it wasnt broken
finally ,i heard it snap and the second i heard that he took it out
he didnt cum,im 100% positive
and then i gave him head and he came in my mouth
Are the chances of me being pregnant low? (link)
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First I am going to give you very important advice.
Once he takes a condom off, he needs to use a brand new one. You can't re-use one. I don't care if he didn't cum in that one. Always put on a new one, the more you mess with an open condom, the more likely it will tear.
Anywayyy.
If you are positive he didn't cum you are most likely not pregnant, unless he pre-came. The chances are low but if you want to know for sure...take a pregnancy test. =)
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my friend, ok yeah so she sent all these pictures of her body, like her boobs, and vagina, to all these guys. and yeah i know its slutty, but ive kinda always been the type, that i give my opionon, and say its wrong, but i believe everyone can do whatever they want, & if its what they choose, then fine. but anyways, her sister saw one picture, that a guy sent her. so they got in a fight, and her sister told her mom. well now her moms taking the phone to the store or whatever, and like going to see all of her txts and everything. soo, any advice for my friend on how to get herself out of this mess? (link)
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Well if your friend had the chance she could delete all of the texts now. It won't show up on the bill or at the store. She needs to delete anything revealing herself on the phone as well. If she doesn't have the chance to do that she needs to own up to her mother and tell her. "Mom it was a stupid thing to do and I'm really sorry..." etccc.
It really wasn't your place but if she's underage that is wrong [so i agree] and she doesn't need to be doing that.
I've done that before, [to my boyfriend not random guys] my mom found out..blahh blahh. so i deleted everything off of my photobucket account like she told me to [i thought no one else could see my pictures ..i was wrong]
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the other day me and my boyfriend were fooling around on my bed. i gave him a blow job and afterwards he told me he wanted to eat me out but he was afraid he could get a std. neither of us have ever been sexually active with any one. could either of us pass a std to another or was he just saying that so he didnt have to? (link)
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He can't get an STD from you unless you were born with one since you have never been sexually active. Also, it does sound like he was just saying that so he didn't have to. Maybe performing that on a woman grosses him out or he just wasn't sure what to do so he made an excuse. Idk you ought to ask him about that though.
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i always read on websites that a woman's nipples are supposed to be really sensitive especially when they're aroused but mine are never sensitive. when my boyfriend touches them i act like i like it but he mind as well be touching my shoulders because its pretty much the same feeling...is this weird? can i make my nipples more sensitive?...i told ya this one was weird. (link)
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Mine aren't very sensitive either. Supposedly the larger you breasts are, the less sensitive your nipples are. So basically, if you have big breasts, that's probably why. Also, don't fake that you like it to your boyfriend, just tell him, it's no big deal. =)
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i am a 16 year old girl and i gave my boyfriend a blow job and we were both naked he cummed near my vagina he tried wiping it up with a sheet we were under is it possible for me to be pregnant?
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It is possible that you can be, however it's very unlikely. But to make sure, just take a pregnancy test. =)
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This is Pretty nasty i know but i have a question..I was making out with my boyfriend and i got on his and i dont know what it was but i was kind of grinding on it and i felt this huge rush through me it felt amazing..well after that i was holding a pillow which was long and it was against my front part also and it gave me that same rush after a little bit because i kind of did the same thing i did with my boyfriend but with it..What was that rush? and is it like masturbation?
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You were just horny. I suppose it is like masturbation. Someone said it was a orgasm, but they are wrong. You can orgasm from just touching a pillow, you'd have to stimulate the clitoris or g-spot to orgasm.
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