Okay so thanks for opening this up and wasting 5 mins. of your life on me. LoL. Anyways I just wanted to know what is going on in this dude's head. So I know this guy and he went out with this girl for like 3 years and really they seemed like they were in love. Okay so I saw them hanging out and he seemed like he really loved her but two weeks later he breaks up with her because he is bored with her and he wants to explore other people. I really didnt see how he could just break up with her and not say anything but that he's bored. I mean doesnt he miss her? He said he was in a depressive relationship with her. But then he tries to get hooked up with another girl that doesnt like him back and he gets all depressed yet he still doesnt run back to his old girlfriend! After he realizes that the girl that he liked didnt want anything to do with him he then again moves on to another girl that he is now going out with now. I just dont understand how he can just move on from a beautiful girl that he talked to all the time and hanged around everyday of his life almost! For three years. It just seems unreal to me. Does anyone understand?
orphans answered Friday July 13 2007, 12:42 pm: Yes!
I definitely understand. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 11 months and I'm starting to feel bored and like I want to explore other people. I think it's because we are around each other too much it's like I'm around him so much that every little thing he does annoys me. People grow a part but we haven't exactly grown apart yet. Of course if you really love someone there is still going to be a part of you that missed him/her. It seems like after you break up with someone and you find someone knew you never really think about your ex unless the relationship sucks. If you break up with someone and tell them your bored then try to get back together with them because you can't find anything better is pretty low. I don't think that will happen but maybe you never know the girl would be kind of stupid if she got back with him though.
iwantthetruth answered Sunday July 8 2007, 6:21 pm: yea i understand. its what he said exactly. i know because in middle school i "went out" with this guy for a long time like 2 years. then after a while i felt like i was changing, i was becoming a different person. my bf was going in a different direction than me. i doesnt mean that he was a bad person or that i was. it just wasnt the same anymore. so i ened it more or less for the same reason that i was bored in the relationship. it doesnt mean that he doesnt care about her, he simiply lost interest as time went by. sometimes things dont work out but im sure they can still be friends. hope i helped a little
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