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14/f im really mad right now because well my best friend [guy] and i were supposed to go to the movies tomorrow and all but my parents dont let me go out with guys even though we are only friends. so i lied and told them that i was gonna go with my friend [girl]. so i called girl and asked if she wanted to come with us and guy would hide so that my mom wouldnt see him. but in the end girl cant go so i cant go with guy. im not a bad person, i have really good grades and have never gotten into any trouble. why dont they trust me to go to the movies with my best friend? i havent seen him in like a month and i freakin miss him so much! and plus i do kinda like him even tho he doesnt like me back...i just wish my parnets woould trust me and not be all in my buisness all the time. umm help? thanx
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I know what you mean but parents are just doing there job. You can sit them down and try to explain to them that your ONLY friends, NOTHING more. If they still say know there is nothing you can do. They are just looking out for you they don't want you to go and have sex with him or any thing else pertaining to that. Trust me when you get in HS things will be a little different just wait it out and talk to you parents that all you can do!
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Well, you need to realize that you aren't likely the one they mistrust. I'm sure the one they mistrust is the teenage boy with raging hormones. Not saying that he is going to put the moves on you, but THEY don't know that for fact- get it?
I don't agree with And1UCS. The worst mistake you can make is to tell your parents to butt out. How far are would they trust you then? Doubtfully as far as they can throw you.
And so long as I'm talking matters of trust, if they catch you in the act of hiding him so you can go hang out with him, then they won't trust either one of you, and then where will you be?
I'm not being cruel and unusual, here. I'm being realistic. :)
Have you thought to ask your parents to invite him over to sit down to dinner and a movie some evening at your home?
Maybe if they'll go for something like that, they can get a chance to get to know the lad. That might help leaps and bounds the next time they have to make a decision about you going to the movie theater to catch the latest flick with him.
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