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um this is a sort of personal question but i have to have an opinion on this.my boyfriend has been like my bestfriend since i we started really talking.we were friends before we got together and i was going out with other guys.when i wasnt talking to them or my bff/sister,i was talking to him.and i had one really bad break up & i cherished him for truely being there for me.it took a while for him to ask me but i ended up dating my bestfriend.we did have some times where things were sketchy but we never argued,since we were friends we had no problem telling eachother what was up.now we have been together for seven months.im going to a different school and im may be moving too.i told him and he almost cried and i did.(very girl-like of me,i know) so if i do have to leave him i wanted give him something important and precious to me.and this would be of my own will.we have talked about sex and he said it was entirely up to me.i just want to know how to make sure this is something i won't regret one day.i know he respects and loves me but how can i be sure this is the right thing?
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for starters is he a really great guy who is someone you will stick with and give you love, he seems great as he said its up to you this should have a big influnce on you i want to ask you is he right? if the answers yes go ahead and make love!!! come on this is sex if hes right enjoy it darl!!!
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You don't seem confidant about, which is a sign you aren't ready. If you feel that you can emotionally handle it, and if you two really love and care for each other it's fine. he seems like a very sweet boy. if you know you'll be able to see him and visit him, don't do it just yet. there's loads of other special things you can do.
i'm dating my best friend. i did have sex with him, it wasn't planned but i don't regret it being with him, he's such a sweet and gentle guy. i only regret the age i did this. I was 15 [still am]. You really ought to wait but in your heart if you believe this is the boy you want to lose your virginity to, go for it [if you are SURE about it].
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Well, I don't think there is a way you can be sure its right. Its entirely up to you. If its what you want to give him then do it. But I think the only way to tell is to see if it feels right. you should sit back and think about how you feel about it, think of the consequences, just be sure its what you want to do.
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you didnt mention your age. but yes if you really do love him, not saying hes the one your gonna marrry, but if you love him and he really does mean somethign to you then go for it.
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If you're EVER questioning if you should do it, you probably shouldn't. You're not 100% confident in this idea, and I can tell, since you're taking time to ask this question. My advice is to not just have sex with him because you're leaving. I'm sure you'll be able to see him again soon, whether you're moving or not. I've heard most people who have lost their virginity at a young age like you have regretted it tremendously, and others haven't. It's ultimately your decision, but again, you're having doubts.. and that is a red flag in my book.
Maybe make a scrapbook of pictures of you two together. That would be just as special!
--Jack
(15/m)
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