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why do I feel so weird?
Ok I had sex with my boyfriend the first time, he wasnt a virgin, but afterwards it didn't really bother me, why do people make such a big deal out of your first time? It wasn't all it was cracked up to be, am I thinking normal?
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i feel the same.
its just different opinions that people have.
i was ready. and you were also.
you are thinking normal. dont worry
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yes being a virgin has no shame it just means your waiting for the right time instead of having flings with every one so you are thinking normal.
AgonyK
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I don't think it's so much of the innocence aspect. People make a big deal out of their first time because it is an action of real love. People save it for marriage because they know that they're truly and completely in love and it would mean so much to the companion that you saved yourself for them because you have waited for them your entire life. So then they know that they truly are perfect for you.
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It's peoples opinion on the subject. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and yours is that it wasn't a big deal. For some, like the columnist below me said, is like loosing their innocence, an to others this is not a big deal. Some people like to rush and get the first time over with. Others like to wait to share this experience with someone they truly care about.
Hope I helped
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Some people feel like they`re loosing their innocence when they loose their virginity, its a big emotional thing for some, and for others its just not a big thing..everyone has their own view on it :)
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