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Okay. So, how do I get links on my myspace?
& I don't just mean the URL address in blue & underlined.

I mean like, have a different word there besides the address.

I am gonna put links to my "top" friends instead of having a top 8 & i wanna list their names like this:
Sarah.
Pamela.
John.
Maria.
Kerry.
Jara.

like that, but I want them to be links.
does that makes sense?

so if you can give me the code that would be uberly awesome.
thanks =]

Hey!!! you will find all of the codes you could ever possibly need on this site:


http://www.whateverlife.com/myspacebasics2.php


:)

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i aint to good at math, and i would like to know how do you find the percentage of a number.



Well, what's the number? :) (that you have to find the percenatage of?) ie 80

100% = 80
50 % = 40
25% = 20
12.5% = 10
blah blah, so yeah, and way to do it is by halving the percentage each time. :)

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I usually ever get headaches. Actually i havent head one in years.

But i have had one the last two days. I have taken advil and excedrine migrane (sp?) but nothing will get rid of this headache. Im pretty sure its not a migrane because ive had one before and it doesnt hurt likeone. Should i make an appointment with my doctor. Or wait it out?

Im gettting kind of worried as what is causing this.
thank you.














Hey, erm make sure you are drinking plenty of water. If you are already doing that then you know it's not from dehydration. However, it's always better to be safe than sorry, so go and see your doctor .You aren't wasting their time if you go because that is what they are there for :)

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what exercises could i do to lose the most weight [[to make it show]] in 4 weeks? thats when im going to be meeting my crush *&& to be honest...im overweight. i dont just want to do this because of him, i want to do this to be healthier and more self-confident. i have a treadmill, so how about "speed-walking" for an hour maybe every other daii? i know all about the precautions [[staii hydrated,etc/]] thank you so much!

Hey. The treadmill would be good for your fitness level and weight yes. Just don't do too much. However, don't put a show on for a guy. Just be yourself. If he likes you then he will like you for who you are. :)

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Does anyone have any tips they can lend me on using a British accent. Or if anything, some random words with the phonetic spelling. I'm in need of the help because I'm trying out for a musical version of Peter Pan, so the accent should be very light and innocent, not full on. Thank you!!

Hahaha i'm English, i'll help ya. Erm,,,,,,, just gimme some examples of what you have to say and i will tell you how to pronounce stuff.

For example with Peter, with an English accent you need more emphasis on the the e's and t.
ie peeter because Americans soften the t and put more emphasis on the -er ending.
lv vicky


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This is for girls...

I'm 13 && female. I have hair between my breasts. Its not too bad, but I was wondering if its normal. Like, you can see it if you're right next to me and I have a low shirt on, but if you're more than a foot away you can't see it at all. I was wondering if I should shave/dye this??

Another question while I'm at it... I have a thin strip of hair on my belly, and it gets thicker and goes beneath my navel, spreading from side to side. I don't think its pubic hair, because it goes too high. I'm very self-conscious about this, and am careful about shirts rising above my jeans/shorts. Is this normal, and should I shave/dye it?

Thanks

NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! Don't shave it or it will come back thicker and darker and that's the last thing that you want to happen.
Quite a few girls have those hairs goin down from their belly button, don't worry about it.

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I'm totally lost in the types of Christianity there are. I know I believe in God, and the fact that Jesus died for us to get into Heaven. But what I do not understand, is what exactly God did, and what exactly Jesus did to get crucified in the first place.

Also, I was wondering if someone could explain the differences in denominations for me, or give me a link to a site that can do so. Thanks so much.

Jesus was crucified because he claimed he was the son of God which sounded outrageous especially in a Jewish society.
So he died on the cross as payment to God to clear the debt of human sins but he apparently wasn't afraid because he knew he was going to God for "life after death".

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Well I know I'm putting them in wrong. I can't even get all of it in, I get like half of it in. It's my first time doing this and I don't get why it won't go in all the way!!Please help!!!

Just go for it! relax and do it, then it's over cos it will be really easy to do after that. :)

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is it true if you put tooth paste on ur pimple before bed it will make it go away?




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I swear my mother is really hurtful I can't take her anymore. I feel so offended by what she does. WHy can't she just leave me alone. I hate her. I just feel really annoyed by her and I don't even have anyone to talk to

trust me. the feeling soon passes. If you manage to stay mad at your parents for 2 days or more then there are serious problems. I can only stay mad at my folks for like a few hours, as usually i need to speak to them. What does your mum do? :)

lv Vicky x

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Sorry, didn't know who to ask about this- can masturbating keep you from getting your period? Mine usually comes on the 24th/25th of the month and it hasn't. I got cramps and all of that but my period never came. Help. Thanks.

I disagree with the girls below because when i do it i usully find that it delays my period but not really by far. :)

lv Vicky x

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Okay, so I'm best friends with this named Alex. We've been best friends for like 3 years. The problem is, ever since school ended we haven't been as close..it's not that I don't see her over the summer because I do, alot. We just have other people with us and we don't talk and be like ourselfs like we were in school. I don't think she's mad at me or anything because we rarely ever have fights and she's not the kind of person that just gets mad at people, their has to be a really good reason. Has anybody been in a situation kind of like this and know what to do and how to get closer to their best friend?

i have been best friends with someone my whole life. Suddenly within a year they had a change of heart and decided that they didn't want anything else to do with me and it broke my heart.
We naturally grew apart as she started hanging around with certain people.
So all i can say is just think yourself lucky that this person still has anything to do with you sweetheart, cherish that and if one day they turn there back on you and abandon you just remeber that you can survive and get through without them. They are not worth it and it is their loss not yours.If at the end of the day they don't want anything to do with you then there isn't really much you can do about it.
People change, sometimes for the worse, it's sad but true and it is a fact of life. :)

lv vick x

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Hey. well i am 13, and last night i was at my boyrfriends house, with all his friends. my bf is 18, and all his friends were about 17-19. There were 10 of his friends. we were all drinking, and doing drugs, etc. we all got a little too drunk, and i ended up having sex with my b/f, and all 10 of his friends. it was really fun, and stress relieving. but anyways, now my bf is mad because i had sex with 11 guys that night. how can i explain to him i couldnt help it?
oh by the way.. i am 13. and a female...

HELP

This is both shocking and disgusting. I can't believe that you actually think that it is ok to act like that, especially at your age.
Plus your boyfriend and his "friends" are not only too old for you but they have all comitted an illegal act. It is shameful.
And taking drugs!?! you had better sort yourself out for your own benefit young lady because i pity you.
I'm sorry in advance is i sound harsh but what you are doing is NOT ok!!!!

Good luck :)

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Iam an 18/f and i've been dating this guys for a couple of months and he asked me if I was a virgin and I said yes and he said he loved doing it with girls who wasn't experinced and I told him I would do it with him becouse I figured that was what he wanted.why would he want a girl who is unexperienced with sex?

Your virginity is a precious thing. You can only give it away once. Is he really the right person?
Or is he just after one thing in particular?
He sounds like a bit of a player.
Think casrefully before you give this special thing away or else you might regret it.

Plus, i say well done for keeping your virginity up to 18 years old cos there's young kids on this site who are getting upto all kinds of things. It's unbelievable!!

Good Luck :)

lv Vick x

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lately ive just been so FED UP with my appearance i hate looking in the mirror because its not what i want to see =( everyone else is so much prettier than me or thats what i think. my hair bugs me it never stays right i wish i was tanner i wish i was everything else..

i know im not DEPRESSED or i dont think so but maybe just jealous of every other girl. and i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend and it kills me everytime i hear her name because i know that i cant have him

also my parents have been telling me that i need to go do other things rather than come home go on the computer go to my cousins (my best friends house) and then when i get home get back on the computer! they are telling me i need to get out of the house and go with my other friends but the only problem is i dont have many OTHER close friends i can hangout with..

my life just seems to be going completely wrong.

ahh! what do i do? i cant live like this anymore..

Hola. I feel like this a lot too or at least i did until i realised what i had to do.

Find something that you enjoy doing and that you can socalise whilst doing it. i.e i joined the gym the other day and i have met new people and it makes me feel loads better working out, i love it. Plus, if you join a gym you can use the sauna yayyyyyyyyyy!!....it makes your skin loads softer.

Secondly, look after yourself well. Use new cosmetics and buy new clothes...things that you feel sexy in and you will feel loads more confident :)

Lv vick x

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ok. well i was wondering if it's true that you miss chances to grow if you wear a bra at night. like a bra with an underwire and such as you would wear during the daytime. answers are very much appreciated, and thanks ahead of time!

That is a myth. But it is apparently good to waer a bra at night because i think your boobs can become saggy over time if you don't. But lots of people don't wear bras at night for the purpose of good circulation :)

Vick x

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Iam 17 years old and my breasts are still growning is this normal?

Yes. Some people don't stop developing properly until they are like 20 years old. Everyone develops in their own time. There is not a certain age at which we are supposed to stop developing. Everyone is different. Just don't waste time worrying about it. :)

Vick x

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Hey iam 17 and my breasts are a 38 b and since my breasts probally don't stop growing until iam 18-20 are my breasts going to be real big?Iam nervous becouse my mom is a triple d and my sister is a d and my other sister is a 36 c somewhere around there.

Just think yourself lucky that you aren't flat chested. I'm a 36e and i've always moaned about them. But i am learning to accept them. However they don't look that big because i am tall.

Somebody once said to me
"You might aswell love and accept your body because you only have one. There aren't any spares. So take care of it the best you can"
.........and they were totally right.
Plus i very very very much doubt that your boobs will get any bigger and besides, even if they do, it's not the end of the world.
Just learn to accept them or you will be miserable :)

Vick x

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does being a virgin mean you've never had sex? what about fingering/blowjobs etc does that count, and if youve done one, are u not a virgin anymore? someone please explain..

If you are a virgin, this means that a penis has not entered your vagina.
Handjobs, oral and anal sex, masturbating etc still make you a virgin.
But don't worry because i think almost everyone wonders about this :)

Vick x

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do you think getting fingered or giving a handjob is to slutty for a 13 yr old? thanks♥

Your not a slut for doing that, but if you can help it, try and wait until you are a bit older because if you do things like that now then it will lead to you doing more serious things.
Plus you will probably regret it if you lose your virginity this early on. :)
Vick x

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