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HELP
Hey. well i am 13, and last night i was at my boyrfriends house, with all his friends. my bf is 18, and all his friends were about 17-19. There were 10 of his friends. we were all drinking, and doing drugs, etc. we all got a little too drunk, and i ended up having sex with my b/f, and all 10 of his friends. it was really fun, and stress relieving. but anyways, now my bf is mad because i had sex with 11 guys that night. how can i explain to him i couldnt help it?
oh by the way.. i am 13. and a female...
HELP
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Your probably not going to like most of of what I have to say.But I could careless if you rate me low.Im just telling it how it is.
What in your little mind drove you to do something like this?? Drinking?? Doing Drugs?? I mean its totally your fault that you were doing stuff like that in the first place.You were practically asking for it :.You COULD have helped it by not even have done that in the first place.When I go to a party and drink.I stick with my b/f at all times.I would be mad too if i knew my b/f went and had sex with 11 other girls.How do you even know if those guys had some kind of std's.You should have thought before you even done this.13...wow.Thats pretty harsh.Like I understand what you mean when you couldnt have helped it.I mean if you were doing drugs and drinking as much as you said that could fuck up your judgement. I just wish you thought a little bit more responsiblity about the whole situation.
If I were you i'd go to your doctor right away and make sure everythings ok.But thats kind of heartbreaking just knowing that some drunk 13 yr was having sex with guys that were 17-19 years old.Im sorry but thats sickening.They could go straight to jail.Wow honestly...I wouldnt blame your b/f being mad at you...id be absolutely be hurt.How would you feel if he did the same to you with a bunch of your girl friends??Well I hope everything goes well for you.
xoxox <3
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This is just not true. A 13-year-old who would have sex with 11 guys in a single night and then just shrug it off like it was no big deal? There is no way that you've had enough experience at that age that sex eleven times in a row wouldn't be terribly painful.
If this is actually true, then you're not likely to live long. You'll be dead of an STD by the time you've reached the age of legal consent.
However, I think it's a lie, and you really should be ashamed of yourself for trivializing the serious matter of statutory rape.
(Furthermore, I don't care that you rated me a "1". I stand by my answer and I will not delete it.)
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Umm, wow. What made you decide to drink and do drugs that night anyways? It was a really bad decision to do that. It bothered me that you stated the fact that you were 13 twice. It kind of seemed like you were proud of the fact that you did that. Do me a favor, and don't make such dumb decisions next time you are out with his friends. You're 13 and your boyfriend is 18. You shouldn't be having sex with him to begin with, let alone 10 of his friends. I'm not trying to judge you. But it's a little hard not to. Just so you know drugs are illegal, drinking under age is illegal, having your boyfriend give you drugs & alchohol is illegal, and having sex with him is illegal. Are you aware that you could be putting your boyfriend and his friends in jail just by saying all this? Keep in mind i'm usually not one to judge, but this is just ridiculous. Give me a one for all I care. I know I won't be given a five. Simply because i'm telling you the truth.
Anyways, I don't blame your boyfriend for being mad at you. There isn't anything you can do to change his mind about being pissed, except telling him you weren't in your right mind that night, and you promise nothing like that will ever happen again. [meaning no more getting high, no more getting drunk, and no more having sex] doesn't sound to east now that you've already done it, now does it?
Seriously, you need to straighten up before you get into serious trouble.
Go ahead and give me a 1 for giving you honest advice, what can I say? You needed to hear it.
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Dude you fucking need help. That's fucking disgusting. You're the reason guys objectify women and shit. For evolutionary purposes, please stop having sex forever.
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You shouldn't have to explain anything to him. Tell him that you had just as much control of the situation as he did. He was there, if he cared so much he would have stopped you before it happened. I wouldn't be worring about your bf being mad at you... I would worry about wether or not your pregnant. If they did wear a condom, still be aware that they CAN rip. In the long run, try not to have a bf thats way older than you at this point. He's 18, you shouldn't be having sex at this age. At his age it is ok- but your younger. You'll get a rep in highschool for being the druggy-slut. We had one of those and she got expelled for using bringing a very strong drug to school. Do you think an 18 year old really, truly loves you? That would be similiar for you loving a 10 year old. If you need any more help, just ask, Im always here :).
Ex's and Oh's
-brittany
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This is both shocking and disgusting. I can't believe that you actually think that it is ok to act like that, especially at your age.
Plus your boyfriend and his "friends" are not only too old for you but they have all comitted an illegal act. It is shameful.
And taking drugs!?! you had better sort yourself out for your own benefit young lady because i pity you.
I'm sorry in advance is i sound harsh but what you are doing is NOT ok!!!!
Good luck :)
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If this is true then he is a criminal and so are all his friends. They contributed to the delinquency of a minor. They all committed statutory rape.
He does not care what you did or who with. Sounds like you were the lone female at a party
for a bunch of thugs enjoyment. Some boyfriend he is.
What you should do is tell your parents and have all their butts thrown in jail. At they very least stay away from them in the future. You don't need to explain anything. Your pimp boyfriend should be explaining to the local police
department and your parents lawyer. :)
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