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My best friend doesn't like me anymore?
Okay, so I'm best friends with this named Alex. We've been best friends for like 3 years. The problem is, ever since school ended we haven't been as close..it's not that I don't see her over the summer because I do, alot. We just have other people with us and we don't talk and be like ourselfs like we were in school. I don't think she's mad at me or anything because we rarely ever have fights and she's not the kind of person that just gets mad at people, their has to be a really good reason. Has anybody been in a situation kind of like this and know what to do and how to get closer to their best friend?
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Dear,disconnected Funny thing you should ask this it's happened to me loads of times..the best advice i can give is there is no shame in being yourself outside of school go up to her and talk to her maybe invite her over even talking about small things will help trust me ^^..Maybe she's scared of what her friends will think of you too..you should talk to her about it ..take it slow find out how to bring it into one of your conversations, lotsa luck to ya. Your friend Violet
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omg i can totalllllllllllllllly relate to you...email me so we can talkk more about this privately. My emailll is mallqueen6591@aol.com
excitedd to talk to u!
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i have been best friends with someone my whole life. Suddenly within a year they had a change of heart and decided that they didn't want anything else to do with me and it broke my heart.
We naturally grew apart as she started hanging around with certain people.
So all i can say is just think yourself lucky that this person still has anything to do with you sweetheart, cherish that and if one day they turn there back on you and abandon you just remeber that you can survive and get through without them. They are not worth it and it is their loss not yours.If at the end of the day they don't want anything to do with you then there isn't really much you can do about it.
People change, sometimes for the worse, it's sad but true and it is a fact of life. :)
lv vick x
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Yes, me and my best friend were slipping away last year. We had already been best friends since 3rd grade. So one night, I was moving to a different house (in the same city, just a block away) and there was hardley anything in my room. So instead of staying in my room, we went into the kitchen and sat on the floor and talked for almost the whole night. We shared secrets, things we thought about other people, what she REALLY thought when something happened between us, and things like that. We probably wouldn't be best friends if it wasn't for that night. So, point is, talk to her and share some things that you would never think about sharing.
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Yes, This has happened to me before. You guys are growing up and as you grow older you become friends with a different group of people. I had a best friend since kindergarden and once 5th grade was over we became friends with different groups. It doesnt mean she hates you or anything. Its okay, this happens to the most of us. xoxo
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