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Last Update: July 9, 2006
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its in the middle of summer and im starting to get lonely. like i want a boyfriend so bad! i want that special someone to talk to and i want to have just someone to hold on to. i really want one badly. all my friends have boyfriends and i dont! ive never had a boyfriend or a real close guy friend. idk what to do. i really want a boyfriend. i asked this kid out but he said "no"! now i feel rejected and stupid. (link)
hey, you sound a lot like me, i was like crazy trying to find a boyfriend. when i found him, he oved to NY. so now im single again. firstly dont feel stupid or rejected just because a guy said no. keep on trying, there are many guys out there looking for a girl. he is not the only one. try meeting new people. that really helps. you will find the one soon. well, best of luck finding "him". dont give up!

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im worred about my friend shes in my grade 7th but shes only 11 im 13 so sometimes i think of her as a lil sister and im a little worred about her because she has a new boyfriend whos 16 in the 10th grade and she hangs out with him alone and im worred that somthing might happen how can i covinces her that this just isent right and dont say tell her mom because her mom dont care about her and i would like it if i didnt have to tell an adult because she wont listen to them (link)
well, really there is no age for love, but also he is way older than her, & maybe he really does love her but maybe he is just using her. you should talk to her alone & make her understand that she is too young & that hes older than her. & we dont want her to end up with a broken heart and/or end up with different problems like being sexually abused or something. maybe im thinking too far, but you never know.maybe he really likes her but she is too young to suffer anything like that. so talk to her alone & give her time to think about it. she might let him go but if she is deeply in love with him, then it might take more time to make her understand this. whatever happens you can always message me, i went through the same she is going through, & i ended up al f*** up. i dont want her to make the same mistake. so i hope i helped & im always here to give you advice, help her understand. so good luck & write me back.

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Yesterday my friend wanted me to sleep over her house another day but I cou ldn't because I had a bbq to go to and she wanted to come. So I called my parents asking if they could ask my aunt so they did but she said no. Then she got pissed at me because I wanted to go even if she couldn't go. I think it is really dumb but I don't know what to do. Last week she got mad because she couldn't sleep over my house. What should I do? How should I talk to her because I want her to stop getting mad at me over stupid things. (link)
well..first of all she didn't need to get mad over things like that. she has to understand that if your parents say no, then you cant change the answer. talk to her & ask her why does she get mad over things that are not your fault. maybe she thinks that you are the one that doesn't want to sleepova at her house. but still she has no right to get mad at something like that. she has to respect you parents destions & your desitons matter as well. talk to her and hope you guys can solve your problems. best of luck!

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Why is it always me that ends up with the no girlfriend at the end of the year I am 14/m and I am in a wheelchair and not sure if that is the problem or what but it has always seemed I end up not with the girlfriend and don't get me wrong I have had them but the last one I had was going on for 6 monthes but she just left me for one of my best friends and it was like a shocker to me and I just went into a deep depression (link)
i understand..im 14 yrs old too & all of my friends have boyfriends but me. i had 1 but we lasted for 2 weeks. which really suxs. dont pay attention to some girls, there are many girls with shallow minds, but some care more about personality. im sure you are a great guy, just give it some time & and "she" will come. well..best of luck!! enjoy life!

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone who you have only met once? :) (link)
YES! it is possible! that happenes to everybody. if you only saw him once then it is love at first sight! or it can just be that you are crushing on him. if you see him again, you should ask for his email or phone number. & maybe this can be the beggining to a new relationship! but also be careful because personality also counts! you woldnt want to be with a guy thats super hot but hes super mean too. if you cant see him again, then just think of him as a friend. well..good luck!

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so what is a good (healthy & natural) way to lose about 7 pounds? (link)
well hi there.. i know what you mean. like a month i wanted to loose a few pounds (10 pounds) & well..i did loose 5 pounds. not what i expected but at least it is something. first eat healthy. what i mean by that is eat the right servings of each group food...

dairy products... 3 servings a day
meat & conservatives... 2 sevings a day
fruits & vegetables... 5-6 servings a day
grains...3-4 servings a day

(a serving is like the size of your fist)

also dont forget to exercise! thats the fastest way to loose weight.

&& most important.. drink lots of water each day!
if you get hungry just drink lots of water & it will help you maintain your stomach full. water cleans all the fat out when you go to the bathroom!

well..hope i helped you out & good luck! ;)

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Hey. I'm 14/f African American in Maryland (if that's any help). I was wondering if ladies with outies (that aren't big) look good in bikinis and 2-pieces. Thanks a lot. (link)
well..personally i dont like showing too much when it comes to swimwear. afican american girls tend to have great bodies. try on different kinds of bikinis & 2-pieces and choose the one you are most confortable in. personally, i would go for 2-pieces because they cover up a bit more.. but if you like showing off your body, then bikinis do it better. lol. well..hope i helped out a bit. good luck!!!

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Im 13 yrs old. and still havent got my first kiss =. i feel like eberyone else has & its really bothering me.& i want to get a boyfriend. (link)
hey.. dont worry you're only 13 yrs old, i'm only a year older than you, but its no biggie. i though the same & still do. i still havent got my 1st kiss either even though i had a boyfriend, but beleive me, love can be really painful. and more if we are talking about boys.*sight*.. we are still young & we should enjoy & have fun. just give some time. you will find "the one" sooner or later. but personally..love is really hard, im telling you this from my experience, it changes the way you think about some things, & it can be painful wen it comes to fights & break ups. so why not enjoy the beauties of life & have fun. remember "the one" will come sooner or later. so..hope i helped u out a bit & good luck!!

=] ...day




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