Gender: Female
Location: U.S
Age: 15
Member Since: June 20, 2006
Answers: 13
Last Update: July 4, 2006
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well, i registered as a user to a penpal website, where you can meet people from other countries. it has been great so far! i have more penpals than i wanted, all from different places. i just started worrying today about one of my penpals... his name is emmanuel, and he is from ghana, africa. i have been talking to him over email for maybe 2-3 weeks. i sent him some pictures of america, like places i've visited and sometimes pictures of me and my friends. i do that with my other penpals and they usually send some pictures themselves.
anyway, the most recent email he sent me (today) asked about a lot of personal information -- like what school i go to, he asked for a picture of my family, what my friends name is, he told me that he desperately wants me to visit him, and he even asked for my postal address. doesn't that sound a little fishy? i mean, i've asked some things about ghana and his culture, but not things like that. he told me in scattered emails that not many people in ghana speak english or even go to school, and i noticed that his english was rather good. i didn't ask him where he learned it from, assuming his mom/dad taught him.
then today, for the heck of it, i typed his full name in on the internet and a few links came up. i went to this one site and it said that he was a 23 year old that stole 2-point-something million cedis (african $) in rice and in 1997. it also said that he was in prison for 3 years. i started worrying over this because of past experiences with meeting people over the internet.
im not sure if i should email him anymore. what should i say to him if i do? what if his name is common in africa, like smith is a common last name in america?
i havent responded to that email he sent me regarding those questions. what should i do? (link)
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Stop emailing him!!!!! Thats the best thing you can do is block his email. He might try to rape or kill you if you give him any personal info that can link you to him. Hes probably involved in some bad things in Africa so don't get involved with him. Best thing would be to avoid him at all costs. You don't want to get into deep trouble.
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What does it mean when someone is hacking into your computer? What do they do? (not that i have any ideas...) :) (link)
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When someone hacks into your computer it means they get into your account and trys to take personal information such as credit card numbers or your address or social security number if you typed or saved it into your computer. Thats what they typically do so I would strongly perfer a firewall protection so it blocks hackers out.
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okay i went cyber bowling with my bro at the anacortes bowling place and i ran into my friend jon who has liked me for like a really long ass time. So he was like hanging all over me and stuff and he even gave me a peck on the lips, i'm not saying that i didn't like it but then when i was talking to my friend malisha the next day i found out that she was going out with him and so i told her wat had happened because they had been going out for like 2 weeks and i thought she should know but today when i talked to her she asked if she could have his phone number because she lost her cell phone which it was in so i did then she said she was done talking to me what should i do i'm soo scared of losing her we've been best friend since 2nd grade!!!! (link)
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Okay this is a tough situation but you have to tell her that you had no clue that she was going out with him! You also have to tell her that he gave the peck on the lips to you first. Obviously he isn't into malisha or he is a player. Friends sometimes don't realize that so she might be mad for the time that they are going out. Try finding him messing around with other girls when you go out. Then you can prove to malisha that it wasn't only you if he is a player. Nonetheless you need to talk to her about it. Call her up even if she doesn't want to talk to you she will at least listen and tell her that you will always be there for her no matter what happens with jon.
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Hi, guys. I'm 15, and my weight is somewhere between 180-190. (I haven't been weighed in awhile) Last time I went to the doctor was last September, and I had been doing good. I was gradually losing weight & had lost 15 pounds to make me 173. But now I know I've gained weight, and I am so dissapointed in myself. I know not eating is bad, but what are some tips that will help me shed weight fast? I walk/sometimes jog everyday for 30 mins - 1 hour. But what should I limit my calories to per day, please please help. I have my next appt. on the 29th, and my mother is going to be very dissapointed in me, she is stick thin. :/ I'm only 5'2 so the weight definitely shows on me, but I'm also big boned. My doctor says my ideal weight should be around 145-150. Any tips? I've started drinking water, but what would maybe be a good diet plan for me? (link)
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Ok well I think a good calorie limit would be around 1200-1500. I used that and it worked wonders for me. Please do not go under 1000 that is just unhealthy. Use your calories wisley. Eat fruits and veggies you love and try buying organic cereals, organic foods, etc. Do not drink soda or even diet. Diet has some ingridients in it that can slow down your metabolism and make you gain weight. Drink WATER WATER WATER!!! Plenty of it! They are a lot healthier for you and they have some protein and fiber to help you stay healthy while you lose. Try putting some cardio into your work out like kick boxing or something. You can't loose a lot weight in 4 days hun sorry to say but you can loose a lot over a corse of a few months. Go back to the doctor in a few months when you start seeing major results. Don't worry about what your weight is now. Just know that you are taking steps to being a healthier you!good luck!
xxSummer
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HEY! :) 16/f
well my best friend has a boyfriend.but you see there is this one kid that is soo adorable! he is so nice and everything and we always use to flirt but whenever me and my best friend (katie) and this guy hangout my friend always flirts with this guy and i get soo pissed because she has a boyfriend and everything! i think my best friend is gorgeous and so this guy flirts back and i guess i get kind of jealous when they flirt because whenever shes not around he always flirts with me!! i try talking to her about it and saying ooooh you guys were flirting! im gonna tell kevin (her boyfriend) and shes like not uh!! no we werent i was just trying to get somethin back from him or makes up some excuse. i dont like this kid but i like flirting and just talking with him! i dont know what to do?? i get so jealous when he flirts with other girls especially my BEST FRIEND..when she has a boyfriend :( and me and her boyfriend dont get along either..at ALL...
what do you think i should do? whenever they flirt i just sit back and keep to myself just watch tv or somethin..theres nothing really i can do!
thanks so much for taking your time
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Ok, I hate it when this happens. I feel like whenever one of my best friends, who is gorgeous by the way, is around I have a lot of competition. What I would do is try to step it up a notch and not let him have a chance to flirt with her. Also try to come up w/ excuses. For example if your hanging out at his house or something ask him where the bathroom is or do you have anything to drink? Then if he gives you directions say oh I think it would be better if you come with me. That will get you some alonetime so you can make a move. Your friend shouldn't be flirting but I think she loves the attention. Take her aside once again and tell her she has to stop because you want a chance at this guy. This might not work but keep trying to step it up don't be afraid!
xxSummer
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ok soo i want to get highlights really bad. my hair is like, meduim brown and boring i want to get like, a lighter brown or a chestnut/red color. thing is, my mom wont let me. she does, so i dont know what the big deal is. i guess its because they're too expensive? so i was wondering if there were any kinds you can buy that are inexpensive and easy to do and come out good not all crappy and gross? also, how can i convince my mom to let me? thanks (link)
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There are plenty of hair dyes that have nice outcomes when you do highlights. You should never go 3 shades lighter than your natural hair color so i think a lighter brown and or a chesnut color would be nice. I use garnier and it stays in for a long time! It does fade over time but if you keep re doing it it should be fine. Its only like 7 or 8 dollars so try it! Tell your mom that you'll pay for it or if she hears the price she might say ooh thats cheap enough! Tell her you want to do something different with your hair even if you have to do it yourself. I did and it came out fine! Its really easy just read the instructions on the box. good luck
xxSummer
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Okay my birthday is in like 2 months. Aug 14. I don't know what i want to do. I want to be with my friends but I have plans for that night. I wouldnt mind having a party, but it cost money. what should i do but i dont want to spend a lot of money (link)
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Ok, I would totally do this if i were you. You don't have to have a big bash. I would do a summer theme. If you have a pool have a pool party and have grilled food or pizza and some drinks. I would also get some summer themed accesories like beach balls, towels, and summer colored streamers like orange, yellow, hot pink etc. Then you can have a sleep over or something and that would be a great sweet sixteen party! If you have any other ideas you can add to it then do so! Remember its your day and make it as special as you want it, and its low budget too! Just have fun with your friends!
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my friend is really crazy and whenever she comes over to my house i have to hide everything that she does crap with like puts in peoples hair or has fights with like whip cream chocolate fudge umm and even my cell phone. shes made mose of my friends cry and bleed. how can i tell her enoughs enough without her getting mad at me (link)
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Well, there is no real easy way to solve this but you have to tell her somehow. Just sit down with her and say hey you know lets try doing something else for a change like taking a walk or something. You also have to tell her that your friends don't like it when she does those things and don't take it personally or anything but it has to be stopped. Then just say they like her but they don't like the things she does to them. She will totally not get mad but if she does tell her its not your fault. She shouldn't get mad your just stating the truth and helping her in the long run because more people will like her that way.
Good luck!
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Hey guys! It's summer for me right now and I've been going to the pool a lot lately. All the girls my age like run around and flirt with guys and stuff, and believe me, I'm all for that but I always feel so uncomfertable in a bathing suit. I mean, I don't think I'm fat or anything, but like my stomach is really hairy and I have to shave it (Is that normal?) and like the back of my neck is really harry, too. I can never run around in my bathing suit because it like rides up and then like half of my vagina is showing (I'm exaggerating a bit there.) But what should I do?! Please don't tell me to get a wax because i already wax my eyebrows and upper lip and i haatteee it! (link)
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Ok, yes it is totally normal to have hair on your stomach and back. I have it but its not a lot, but some people have hair grow in more than others. What you should do is either buy a one piece, or put on a cute shirt or tank! You can also put a towel around you but I don't know if you want that. Waxing would be a great way to get rid of the hair but there are other alternatives to that. You can use a razor, or that nair stuff or veet. Personally I would use either veet or nair because it is painless. Good luck and remember have fun this summer
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what would you guys reccomend, the ipod nano or the ipod mini? what is the difference between the two? and more facts. please no websites. thanks (link)
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I would definitely get the Nano. They don't make minis anymore and the nanos are a lot sleeker and more portable (its pencil thin!). Its also in color and you can put pictures on it. Prices depend on how many songs your intrested in putting on it starting from $150 for a 1 GB (250 songs) all the way up to 4GB (1000 songs). Its really a lot better than the mini. Maybe later on you would be intrested in the ipod video. I have it and its absolutely great! I love it.
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ok well i dont think i have a problem but like i have become obseded about my stomach. i dont care about weight or anything but i just want my stomach to be so flat and stuff. i have heard that it really can get out of control and i am scared it will. i dont personally know anyone that has gone through this and i dont know if its normal. plz give ur opinion! (link)
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Okay, well yes all people are body consious and its perfectly normal! But it can get to a point where it is a little out of hand where all you think about is your stomach and then you start skipping meals and what not. If you want to tone your stomach do crunches on the floor for 10 minutes a day and eat a healthy diet consisting of many fruits, and veggies. Protein and fiber are also equally important. Remember to eat whole grains and wheat as often as you can. Its a lot better than white flour. You'll see results in a matter of weeks!
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My best friend is so gorgeous she can get any guy she wants. But she always says how ugly she is. I can't help but get jelous. How can I stop from being jelous or at least hide it better? I'll rate. (link)
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Ugh!! I hate it when this happens. My friend is really thin and she always says shes so fat. Its basically the same thing with your friend, she is gorgeous but says shes ugly. Hun, shes just trying to get complements. It sounds pathetic but its true. You can't really stop being jealous until you realize how beautiful you are. Wear some make up or style your hair or go out shopping and get a whole new wardrob might make you feel better. Once you realize your just as beautiful then you will not be as jealous anymore! You can also talk to her about it but I know that is easier said than done. So try what I said and see how it works! I did it and I feel so much better!
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I haven't been really close to a someone [as a friend] in about 5-6 years. I was afraid to. [When I was younger, I had a best friend of 5 years and she left me a year before middle school] But now I'm trying to get friends. I'm talking to people now and making plans. Is it supposed to feel weird? I get nervous and everything.. And some of them are going through some emotional problems.. is it normal to feel bad about it? It just feels weird.. usually i dont think or feel like that about people. (link)
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Hey, I was in the same situation as you! I was so used to being neglected by friends I couldn't get close to one. I used to feel weird about making plans and sometimes would feel the need to cancel. But once I followed through with them I had a great time! You sorta need to train yourself to learn that people who are you true friends will not leave you and it is hard. I'm still trying to work through it. Keep making plans and talking to the people you are friends with and it will make you feel more comfortable around them and you will start to feel less weird about doing so. If you have nothing to talk about start with school, or plans over the summer or classes next year things like that. It will sure spark up a convo.
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