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Age: 14
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hey its kendra and i have these weird things around my privet area. it might sound werid but, theres this thing its darker like purpleish brown sometimes and its a longg line bump thing. and sometimes it bleeds weird like gooey pinkish red blood
and then theres this other one thats this red bump that is like big and werid. its not near my vaginal hole either.
help please,ill rate high
could it be like hemroids or something? (link)
I'd suggest that you call your doctor and fast. What ever it is, you might want to get it checked out. Don't worry about being embarassed or anything like that, just go soon and get it checked. Period.
heart yazz,
beachybabe


Ok so I have rough dark skin on my knees and I've had them for as long as I remember. They're kind of grey and my mum says it's because of all the dry skin when I used to crawl on my knees. Anyway, is there anyway I can get rid of this? They look so weird when I'm wearing a bathing suit. (link)
Lotion. End of story.
&hearts yazz,
beachy babe


My "best" friend carrie went out with mark, who is one of my other best friends. They broke up after three days because Carrie thought Mark liked me instead and ever since then she has changed a lot. Slowly, she can began being obsessed with being popular, lying, attention, cheating, cussing, and she gradually pushed away all of her friends. After she had lost four best friends, she came to me. I heard Carrie talking talking to one of my friends about me and I confronted her CALMLY about it on IM that day.
Carrie: hey
Me: hi
Me: how come you said I was fat?
Carrie: what the hell? i never said that.
Me: I heard you say it
Carrie: I DIDNT SAY THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me: I heard you and so did about three other people so don't lie. I just want to know why u said it.
Carrie: MY FUCKING GOD!!
Me: can you stop cussing?
Carrie: what the fuck?
Me: okayyyy im going to take that as a no
Carrie: you know what? fuck you
Me: I never even did anything to you.
Carrie: WHO GIVES A FUCK IF I CALLED YOU FAT!? GET THE FUCK OVER IT! FUCK YOU
Then she signed off.
An hour later she called me and said "Look, I'm sorry. I never even said that. I would not ever talk about you behind your back."
I didn't even want to listen to her try and lie again so I just said "ok I'm going. bye" and hung up.
A few minutes later, my friend, Samantha, signed on and said that carrie had said something else about me.
Carrie signed on.
Me: wow. you said ANOTHER thing about me? how do I copy you? Normally I could care less if you said it to my face..but you just told me that you never talk about me behind my back.
Carrie: so?
Me: so, you lied AGAIN.
Carrie: w.e.
Me: can you please just go back to normal..everyone wants the old you. you haven't been normal since you and mark broke up.
Carrie: i dont give a fuck
Me: please stop cussing
Me: ok look i was going to invite you to my party but i cant
Carrie: w.e.
Me: i dont want someone cussing in every sentence at my party and i've asked u nicely to stop
Carrie: I DONT GIVE A FUCK!!
Carrie: SHUT-THE-FUCK-UP!!!!! FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Then she signs off and calls me and says, "LOOK I'M SORRY AND YOU CAN'T ACCEPT THAT, THEN SCREW YOU!" and hung up.
Well, what the heck? What kind of apology is that?!?! She's apologized two more times but I don't really think that's enough after what she did..do you?
Should I ever forgive her or just stop being her friend?

This is long, so I'll give 5's to anyone who at least tries. (link)
You were really nice in asking her to stop cussing. You even approached her calmly when she talked about. It sounds to me like she needs to chill out and accept that what she did was wrong. You can either:
1)Give her time to say sorry and just try to be your nicest to her whenever you see her.
2)Let her go.

A really hard decision. Just make sure, whatever you do, not to EVER talk about her behind her back. She would probably find out. Oh yeah, and instead of chatting with her on IM, talk calmly with her in person. Don't try to completely accuse her of everything, just say that you guys need to talk and that you do not want to lose her as a friend. Tell her that if she apologizes you will too (even if you didn't do anything). FORGIVE AND FORGET!!!

I have had friend problems for the past year and they are still going on now. I really hope this helps you out! It helped me!
Heart yazz,
beachybabe


does anyone know any stomach exercises that will make your stomach skinnier? i need it to be by friday if possible. do curl-ups work? or what besides cur-ups? thanks. (link)
I don't know any excersizes(sp?) besides curl-ups! but i just wanted say DONT TRY TO GET ABS...did you know that almost all women on earth do not have the muscle mass to get abs. only men do.


He is only an 8 year old Boxer and healthy. But all day he hasn't drank any water or ate any food. I have noticed this stuff all afternoon and night. I can hear his stomache growl whenever he coils up his body. He doesn't like to just stand, he has to walk or lay down. He seemed dizzy when walking down the stairs. He has been throwing up a lot today, and once yesterday. (boxers are proned to stomache problems so that wasn't too abnormal). He has been burping a lot. Me and my mom had a lot of trouble trying to get him to drink water. He wouldn't drink from his bowl with tap water, so I filled a glass with fresh water. He drank from that. Then me and my mom poured the fresh water in his bowl and he wouldn't drink it. What I think the cause of his stomache pain is either:
-hes dehydrated and hungry.
-he has a stomache ulcer (we just got back from vacation last monday (a week ago) so he might be stressed out whenever we go out to dinner or something.)
-he just refuses to drink from the bowl.
-he just refuses to drink tap water.

Anything would do. Sorry it was so long. I rate 5s. (link)
no offense, but i think this is a better question to ask a vet. not many people will know what is wrong with your dog because they cannot see him themselves. i suggest taking him to a vet immediately. this could be serious, or maybe he just has the flu!:)better to be safe than sorry! i hope he gets well soon!
heart yazz,
beachybabe


does anyone know any easy appetizing treats to make? (link)
one of my personal favs is saltine crackers with some melted butter on them:-)! its healthy, quick, and it really fills you up. and its
dee-lish!
heart yazz,
beachybabe


okay i have recently asked a question to see if i was depressed. i told you how i felt and everyone who answered said that i was definetly depressed and that i should get help. but my question is, if your going through depression can you feel fine somedays but most of the time empty. so i guess what im trying to say is when going through depression do you still have some good days? (link)
yes. you may have a few fine days (not great, just fine) but you will still feel as if there is a huge space left in your heart. go to the doctor, or tell someone close to you soon.




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