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crazy friend
my friend is really crazy and whenever she comes over to my house i have to hide everything that she does crap with like puts in peoples hair or has fights with like whip cream chocolate fudge umm and even my cell phone. shes made mose of my friends cry and bleed. how can i tell her enoughs enough without her getting mad at me
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Hi its Britt,
Every one has had a crazy freind at one point you just have to set there limits. For example my freind jenny (used to be nutts) came over one day and i was real fed up with her making a mess and being crazy so when she started to start up i told her " Jenny im not alowed to make a mess today". And when she started to get violent i said " Jenny chill want to go whach a movie?" It really comed her down. Try to do some thing like a more segualed or quit activety with her.
I hope i helped, Britt
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There isn't really a way that can go over perfectly. Everbody will react differently. Just tell her that those things kind of annoy you and bother you and that they bother other people too. Make sure to tell her that you still want to be her friend (if you do) and that you thihnkk shes great and everything but these things kind of irritate you and you don't like having to take extra precautions so that she doesn't cause chaos.
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Well, there is no real easy way to solve this but you have to tell her somehow. Just sit down with her and say hey you know lets try doing something else for a change like taking a walk or something. You also have to tell her that your friends don't like it when she does those things and don't take it personally or anything but it has to be stopped. Then just say they like her but they don't like the things she does to them. She will totally not get mad but if she does tell her its not your fault. She shouldn't get mad your just stating the truth and helping her in the long run because more people will like her that way.
Good luck!
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welljust tell her straight up 2 be respectful and stop disrespecting all your friends
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Well, just sit her down and tell her enough is enough. Tell her people are getting sick of her hurting people. Tell her that she can be funny but it stops being funny when people are being hurt and start to cry. If she's your friend, she should understand.
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