I have a math teacher and theres a bunch of girls that likes him. So I found out that they call him on his cell phone and they talk to him on the internet. I find this very strange
because he is like 25 and he lives with his parents and he's single. Half the girls that has his number is between 12-13. I have a bad feeling about this teacher because he goes to ball games and sits with those girls. Does anyone have any idea's on what to do?
I don't think there's anything too wrong with most of what he did, it sounds like he's a fun-loving guy and just wants to have a good relationship with his students, plus he's younger so he can relate to them more. I have a teacher, Mrs. Niffeneger, that we just call "Niff", so not too much harm on just the last name thing. However, if something like the leopard thong incident happens again, I think you should tell someone. It could have just been a joke that he didn't really mean to let slip, but it was nonetheless innapropriate, and if something like it happens again, then I would go to the principal. For now though, I'd just keep an eye on things.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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I'm a junior in highschool. I've taken Biology and Chemistry. I passed Bio with an 89 and I passed Chem with a 96. So next year I have to decide to take physics or bio 2. The physics teacher says there is a lot of math involved. And I'm a strong math student. But I talked to my sister and she said it was really hard(but she's not a strong math student). The physics teacher doesn't have tests in her class and hardly any homework. Then the bio teacher says that her class will better prepare you for college. She says that she helps us with studying and everything. But she said you will have to work your butt off for an A. The bio teacher said that we will have to take bio in college no matter what we want to major in(which I have no clue what I want to do) so I don't know if I should take bio and be more prepared or physics. Any advice?
Physics. Absolutely. Whatever your bio teacher says, it really depends on the college you're going into. You NEED physics more than any other science subject besides maybe chemistry. If you have a strong math background it's not that hard, the most they get up to in regular physics is some geometry and trig, just sine, cosine, tangent and all that stuff. In higher physics courses you start to use differential calculus and analytical geometry, but for high school level you don't have to worry about it. But I guarantee colleges will want physics on your application, it's a basis for all other natural sciences.
Otherwise, someone else made the comment that you could take them simultaneously. Being a nerd, that's what I'd do ;). But it depends on how much of your day you want devoted to science classes.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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Ok, so I'm 16. My boyfriend is 17. It's getting increasingly harder to be anywhere alone with him without parents getting paranoid and feeling they have to "check on us". We're both responsible people who make responsible decisions and although both sets of parents know that I feel quite sure there's nothing that will make them feel differently...so that's not what I'm asking. I'm beyond trying to change them.
What I want to know is how to get around it...
I just need some sneaky ideas =P
lol, "sneaky ideas." I have this problem as well. Try to find a time when your parents or his parents aren't home, and then you can go to eachother's houses. Just be sure you have a pretty definite time that they're going to be back and/or an excuse ready for if they get back early. Otherwise, tell your parents you're going shopping, to a movie, to a park, etc, and then go somewhere where you actually want to go. I know both of these involve lying a little bit, but as long as you guys aren't doing anything dangerous or delinquent (and it sounds like you're both responsible people) I don't really see a major problem with it. Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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what does the song "konstantine" by something corporate mean?
I used to listen to this song about a hundred times a day, let me conjure up my memory. It's about two people in love going through some pretty tough times, they're separated not by distance but by differences in their own lives, and about trying to get through that. It's about keeping the connection of an initial love going even when it feels like it's not there. ("It's to Jimmy eat world and those nights in my car, but this time I'm alone, and I can't see those stars, I'm not your star. Isn't that what you said, what you thought this song meant?") I think it's kind of a confusing song, too, because Andy kind of just rambles on about all the times he's screwed up and his gf won't take him, but it kind of resolves itself at that part "I always catch the clock at 11:11, and now you want to talk. It's not hard to dream, you'll always be my Konstantine." Anyways, kind of a long answer but I love that song.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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Okay I have like line marks on my breats. And like, they are like dark pinkish and stuff and I don't know what they are. I mean I am in shape so i don't knw why they would be stretch marks and I only have a Size A borderline B cup. So i dunno what it is. And I really want it to go AWAY. Please please help me I really want it gone
Those are definitely stretch marks, it doesn't really matter if you're physically fit or not. Stretch marks are caused because your breasts are growing and changing. Sometimes cocoa butter can help them fade, but they should fade to a white, almost unnoticable, in a little while. Mine did that after about 5 months.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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does anyone know any good songs for a lyrical dance solo? thanks!
Try "Listen to Your Heart" (words and music by Per Gessele and Mats Persson)
"I'm Not That Girl" (from the musical Wicked)
"For Good" (from the musical Wicked)
These are all really flowing, expressive songs that I could see a dance solo being done to.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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Hey everyone, I'm 14/Female in eighth grade...
Anyways, at my middle school we have a Valentines' Day Carnation Sale, and with every carnation you send sort of this "note" type thing with a message on it for the person you want to receive the flower. A really nerdy guy sent me a carnation today! Like, your typical violin-playing, huge glasses-wearing geeky dude. Even worse: on the note he asked me out! I don't know how to say "thanks but no thanks" nicely. I really don't want to break the kids' heart, because with his social status it must have been really hard to work up the courage to do something like that. I admit, it was really, really sweet of him! I just don't like him in that way. For one thing, I barely even know the kid...and I guess I would be kind of embarrassed to be even SEEN with him. Wow, I sure do sound stuck up =[. I just don't know of any nice ways to say "no". Anyone have any ideas? Thank you so much.
**RATES 5's!!**
Sounds like this guy is a hopeless romantic :). Seriously, though, sometimes "nerds" can be the sweetest, most caring guys ever, because they're not all that worried about their social status, looking cool in front of their friends, or 'getting' the hottest girls. And they're generally smarter than the average jock who's gotten tackled one too many times. (I don't mean to come down hard on jocks, there's a lot of nice ones too.)
But my advice is, before you say no, go on one date with him. It doesn't have to be anywhere majorly public, you could just get together at yours or his house and just have pizza, talk, play board games, w/e. It sounds so cliche, but you might find out that you really do like him if you just talk to him. And in that case, you shouldn't worry about what your friends at school will think.
On the other hand, if you don't like him after that, just tell him that you don't think things really clicked and you don't really have similar interests. Then you'd have a reason for saying no besides the fact that he's a 'nerd.'
If you don't want to spend any kind of time with him, just talk to him, and say that you think it's really sweet that he gave you the flower and you think he's a nice guy, but you just don't like him the same way. As harsh as it sounds, and I know how hard it is to do, you just have to tell him. It'll hurt more if you just ignore him.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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Okay this may come off as a very stupid question, but since I was adopted, my birth my mom was really young when she had me.. well 20. And she wasnt married, gah I'm worried that if she had an STD or like ahh something, would I have it? Theres no way I can know, beacuse we dont even have any information about them.. and I'm kinda freaking out now.
I'm pretty sure that before you're adopted, you undergo some pretty extensive medical tests where they check for just about every disease you could have gotten. Go back to your medical records from the adoption, your parents should have those, and see what kind of tests were done. If you're still worried, you can always go to a clinic and get tested. (I think PlannedParenthood usually does those at free or reduced costs for teens.) Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
Oh, yeah. Generally even if your birthmother had something it wouldn't be transmitted to you, unless it was something like AIDS. I wouldn't worry too much, there's a very slim chance.
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do you guys think lockin arms with a guy would be considered as cheating on your boyfriend. when the guy you are locking arms with is only a friend?
Depends on the feeling behind the action. Do you like your friend? Then it's cheating. If you don't, and it was just a lighthearted action between friends, don't worry about it. It's not cheating.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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ok so my boyfriend always asks me what i like about him and why i like him. but come to think of it i can't really put it into works like hes always there for me hes caring.. but i cant put it into words its actually really hard. i know this probably sounds corney but do u have any reasons why u like your bf or whatever just to sum it up?
I love my boyfriend because he's my best friend, my companion, the person I can talk to about anything, the person who knows exactly how to cheer me up when I'm upset and how to calm me down when I'm angry. I love him for his sense of humor and the times we've laughed together, the crazy, random things we've done together and how much closer we've become over time. He's always there when I need him and he's the person that I want to be close to and love with all of my heart.
If your boyfriend asks you, say what you just said. Just tell him what's in your heart. Tell him that he's caring, thoughtful, and he's always there for you. Tell him he's your best friend. Just say whatever you feel and it's not going to sound corny, because he obviously cares about what you think and feel. Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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i cannt stand my mother any more, she is fucking crazy. she randomly get all mad at me and screams and will fight with me, and im no person to just sit there and take it. a few examples, this morning i went to sit and watch tv in her room and she was flipping our sayin i dont want you in here get out! telling me to "go FU** my self" and if im in the bathroom, doing my makeup or either going to the bathroom she comes in like shes allowed when im in there! and she`ll yell at me and stuff and if i tell her to get out and like eggs me on and gets in my face saying like " you think your tough??" i hate her shes crazy.. and ya ive known shes been on drugs forever but shes never done anything, like last night at like 3:45 am she was friggen in the bathroom blowing her nose out like it was her friggen job. then after she yelled at me to get out of the bathroom this morning she was fine! she askked me to go away with her this weekend but now tonight shes being crazy
i hate her ,i cant even stand being here? what can i do she doesnt listen.. any ideas what drugs shes using ( im 15)
If you're positive she's using drugs, that's a situation you need to remove yourself from until she can get help. Do you have a relative (i.e. aunts and uncles, grandparents) that you could stay with for a while? If not, I'd see if you could stay with a friend nearby. Is your dad around or does he know about the problem? He may be able to help.
A lot of things can cause such irrationality in a person, including alcohol and some painkillers, anti-depressents, and oxycontin, but my best guess would be it's cocaine, with what you mentioned about her blowing her nose.
You could call an anonymous hotline or talk to someone in social services near you to get more help, I'm not exactly sure what the laws are in regards to your state or what they can do about your situation without knowing a little more about it.
If you need more help, feel free to drop one in my inbox, or you can email me at Nevaeh314@gmail.com. I hope this helps, and I hope your situation gets better.
Love,
Nevaeh
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so at my movie theater i go to ever since a week after the movie munich cam out they have not had it....did some theaters ban it?
It was banned in some places, and was only showing in select theaters to begin with, due to its controversial nature. I had the same problem, I wanted to see it and couldn't find a theater nearby where it was playing. Hope this helps.
Love,
Nevaeh
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19/Male...I finally got up the nerve to talk to this girl in a lunch line. She seemed decent and smiled at me while we talked and introduced ourselves. But it was very short (maybe 2 minutes). I didn't get her number or anything but I see her everyday, and I still want to pursue her. It's hard to me to think of what to say and I really want to avoid that awkward silence that sometime happens. Any advice?
Are you in college? See if you can get into the lunchline behind her, and just say hi, ask her how she's doing, what classes she's taking, what she's interested in, etc. See if she wants to eat lunch with you. If it goes well through that time, see if you can have her number or see if she wants to go on a date with you, maybe a date pertaining to some of the things she's interested in? I'm sure, just meeting someone, that you'll have plenty to talk about, and you can avoid most of those awkward silences. Good luck, hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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alright, firs tof all im prude lol
alright then, well i dont really know what this is, its just a "problem" im having..... All the guys in my school are like obsessed with gurls and getting sex and smokin weed and shit and im not in to that. I am into true love shit and i dont drink or smoke. I never have had like the feeling of wanting a girl like these guys do, i dunno what wrong with me.... i dotn knwo if its caus eim like super prude, like when i think about having sex with a girl i feel like its would "mess up" our friend ship or something, i really dont know. I think it would be wierd to ahve sex with someone your such good friends with, i dunno why i ahve that "idea" in ym head about sex...... can you help me figure out whats wrong with me :-D
Thanks
There's nothing wrong with you. If you're not ready for sex or just don't want it, that's your decision, and don't let anyone at your school bother you or tell you differently. In a relationship, love, trust, friendship, and companionship are the most important things, and that's what most of the guys at your school are missing when they're just trying to get sex.
If you get into a good relationship with someone that you have a real connection with, you may start feeling that sex isn't such a bad thing for the relationship. But really, it's up to you at that point. Sex is an expression of love and it requires a high level of trust, but so does staying committed to a relationship, and there's no need to have sex if you don't want it.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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so my boyfriend and i just had sex for the first time together...he was a virgin i was not...and we both love eachother and so we both decided we didnt want to have "kinky", "horney" sex...we wanted loving, passionate sex..so when we were having sex i expected it to be amazing...but i was kinda dissapointed cus i thought he would look at me , or telll me he loved me while we were doing it...but he dditn..he did not look at my face the whole time...and he didnt say he loved me once....was he just using me for sex..?
I doubt he was using you, I'm sure that he really loves you if you were ready for sex and talked it over before hand. Plus, if it's his first time, he was probably both excited and nervous, and possibly a little afraid of talking or looking you in the face, because you'd be able to read what he was thinking.
I'm going to agree with TheOldOne here. If you're ready for sex, you should be able to have completely open, honest communication with eachother. Bring it up with him and talk to him about it. Just tell him that you want to be able to see his face and his emotions when you're that close, and that sometimes you feel like he's using you if he's just focusing on your body or not telling you that he loves you. Be sure to tell him that he can be completely comfortable around you, and doesn't have to be nervous talking about sex or having it with you.
All that said, a lot of 'first times' aren't nearly as amazing as one's fantasies might make them out to be. It takes time to get to know eachother physically as well as emotionally. If you're willing to keep an open line of communication, it will get better.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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I have been with my boyfriend with my boyfriend since, but I broke up with him like 2 days ago. I still love him! He cheated on me, but
I think that was my fault. I really miss him, but friends told me to just ignore him. I don't want to! I want to go out with him....what should i do?
Hold up for a second. First, you need to realize that him cheating on you is never your fault. I went through that with someone who (I thought) was very close to me after a year and a half of dating, and for a while I was putting myself down with the "I'm a bad girlfriend" attitude. You have to realize that that's simply not true. This guy chose to cheat on you, when he could have either broken up with you if he wanted to be with someone else or tried to fix things with you if he still liked you and felt he wasn't getting enough out of the relationship.
Either way, before you decide you want to go out with him again, you need to assess whether you think he will cheat again and whether he really likes you or is just playing you.
Then, you have to talk with him and see how he feels about you. If you find that he probably wouldn't cheat on you again and that you can change whatever wasn't right in your relationship, then go for it. But if you think he's just going to keep up the same behavior, I wouldn't go out with him again.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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help! my girlfirned thinks i'm bi. why is it that she can hug and grope her same-sex frineds, but i can't do the same? It's totally unfair, its a double standard. How can i keep on groping my same-sex friends without my girlfriend getting mad, or thinking that i'm gaelic?
(PS: She also keeps on holding secrets from me, and goes around my back talking about me, what should i do?)
Practicing polygamy isn't good for most relationships, hate to say it but it's the truth. Even if both people swear they won't get jealous, jealousy is, essentially, a part of human nature.
Tell your girlfriend that when she gropes her same-sex friends, it makes you feel left-out and unnoticed. If you want to grope your same-sex friends and enjoy it even while keeping your girlfriend, I hate to say it but you're most definitely bilingual :).
If you are, tell your girlfriend, and tell her that the double-standards on her part aren't fair. If she still doesn't understand, I'd say go for someone who can be more understanding of your needs and her/his own :)
~Sprinkles
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My girlfriend is extremely picky. I never know what to get her for girfts, cuz shes never satisfied with what i get her. Do you have any ideas of what i could get her for valentine's? Something that she wouldn't just complain about or get mad at me about?
If your gf isn't appreciative of what you get her, that symbolizes some deeper problem in the relationship. If my boyfriend gave me something I absolutely hated for Valentine's day, I would still love it just because he put in the time and effort. (Hopefully not /too/ much time and effort, because it's not a major holiday ;)). Still, you should talk to her about why she's so picky and complains about everything. Does she feel that you're not putting in enough time and effort, or is she just too high-maintenance?
For the h-m girl, I'd get her jewelry. Diamonds. And platinum. (Going off my h-m sister ;).)
~Sprinkles
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i have this really small bumb on the right side of my toung. i don't think it's very serious because i've had it before. anyway it hurts when food touchs it and when i touch it. do you think im allergic to somthing or do you think it's somthing serious or do you think it's nothing. let me know!
thanks
It's probably a kainker (sp?) sore or a cold sore. If you've ever kissed or shared a drink with someone who gets cold sores it's probably that. Just so you know, if you have a cold sore, that's the Herpes virus, and it might recurr a couple of times a year, but I wouldn't stress over it too much.
Otherwise, if you've been eating a lot of sweet things lately, then it's most likely a sugar pimple.
Either way, it should go away within a few days.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Neveah
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what happens when you run outta answers, and you dont know what to do anymore? what happens when your not happy with yourself and your lost and confused? what happens when you think your fat and everyone else tells you your wrong? what happens when you lose your bestfriend because shes just not the same anymore? what happens when you life falls apart?
You pick yourself up and start living for your goals, find a best friend that you can have some commonality with, and create your life over. It sounds like you can't, but I've been there. Truly. Make a list of the things you're not happy about and then work to change them.
As far as the weight issue goes, I can't judge. Your friends might be right, or you might, but it all goes back to whatever you're happy with. If you're not happy with yourself, then work to get healthy. You were a little vague with your questions, but if you want to share a little more I'd be glad to help. Drop a question in my inbox or email me at Nevaeh314@gmail.com. My messenger adress is either elithraniel26@hotmail.com or elithraniel268@aol.com, feel free to add me. I hope this helps, and that things start improving for you!
Love,
Nevaeh
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