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Parents in the way
Ok, so I'm 16. My boyfriend is 17. It's getting increasingly harder to be anywhere alone with him without parents getting paranoid and feeling they have to "check on us". We're both responsible people who make responsible decisions and although both sets of parents know that I feel quite sure there's nothing that will make them feel differently...so that's not what I'm asking. I'm beyond trying to change them.
What I want to know is how to get around it...
I just need some sneaky ideas =P
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sneaky....plan a "sleepover" at one of your friends house (girl) and ask them to cover for you if your parents call there. instead, you can go hang out with your boyfriend.
kathryn
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lol, "sneaky ideas." I have this problem as well. Try to find a time when your parents or his parents aren't home, and then you can go to eachother's houses. Just be sure you have a pretty definite time that they're going to be back and/or an excuse ready for if they get back early. Otherwise, tell your parents you're going shopping, to a movie, to a park, etc, and then go somewhere where you actually want to go. I know both of these involve lying a little bit, but as long as you guys aren't doing anything dangerous or delinquent (and it sounds like you're both responsible people) I don't really see a major problem with it. Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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if you`re allowed to drive with him, tell your parents you`re going to the mall or somewhere you normally go. then maybe go somewhere else, park somewhere or go somewhere romantic. i`m not sure what you want to do but thats the easiest thing.
or when one of you has the house to yourself for a few hours have the other one come over. even if it is only for an hour or 2 some alone time is better than none, but be sure to get out of the house before any parents get home.
i don`t know how rebelious you want to go but you could ditch a day of school or something. a few detentions aren`t gonna hurt anything.
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