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I have been with my boyfriend with my boyfriend since, but I broke up with him like 2 days ago. I still love him! He cheated on me, but
I think that was my fault. I really miss him, but friends told me to just ignore him. I don't want to! I want to go out with him....what should i do?
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Hold up for a second. First, you need to realize that him cheating on you is never your fault. I went through that with someone who (I thought) was very close to me after a year and a half of dating, and for a while I was putting myself down with the "I'm a bad girlfriend" attitude. You have to realize that that's simply not true. This guy chose to cheat on you, when he could have either broken up with you if he wanted to be with someone else or tried to fix things with you if he still liked you and felt he wasn't getting enough out of the relationship.
Either way, before you decide you want to go out with him again, you need to assess whether you think he will cheat again and whether he really likes you or is just playing you.
Then, you have to talk with him and see how he feels about you. If you find that he probably wouldn't cheat on you again and that you can change whatever wasn't right in your relationship, then go for it. But if you think he's just going to keep up the same behavior, I wouldn't go out with him again.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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No circumstance condones cheating! Why are you taking the blame for it?
You made the right decision to break up with him. He has to know that what he did was wrong, and that he cant get away with it. Keep him close, but not too close.
You need to find out during this breakup if his heart is truly with you. Give it some time, and dont jump back into it too fast or he'll know that you be there to pick him up if he ever does it again!
If he cheated once on you, he might just do it again.
Dont keep crawling back to him, or you'll lose his respect.
You first need to be true to yourself.
Good Luck!!
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NOBODY deserves 2 be cheated on.....& it is NOT yer fault...dont blame yerself 4 something like that......if u feel up 2 getting cheated on again.....then get back w/ him.....but if not....then just let him go....i know it will be hard....but u r WAY WAY WAY better than gettin cheated on.....hope it helps
*~*~*~*Emmy*~*~*~*
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first off hun if a guy cheats on you it is NOT your fault.. and if you go back to him that is just saying to him he can do it agin! I would really hate to see you get hurt because of a guy! I really think you should greatly concider finding a better guy that will not cheat on you. TRY HARD because Ive been there and I always just went to a guy that was WORSE!
good luck hun
<3maddie
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Does he tell you that he still likes you?
Does he treat you better than the rest of the girls?
Has he apologized more than once?
Is he treating you better than before?
If you answered no to most of these questions then he isn't trying to get back with you. So just move on. Because if you don't then he is going to think he has you wrapped around his finger. I'm a guy trust me it's best to move on.
If you answered yes to most of these questions then he is trying to get back with you. Let him know that you want to give it another try. And just see how things go from there.
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If you really want to go back out with him,then just tell him that you still love him and that you're willing to give him another chance.Personaly,I would just forget about him since he cheated on you.
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