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my girlfriend thinks i'm bi....
help! my girlfirned thinks i'm bi. why is it that she can hug and grope her same-sex frineds, but i can't do the same? It's totally unfair, its a double standard. How can i keep on groping my same-sex friends without my girlfriend getting mad, or thinking that i'm gaelic?
(PS: She also keeps on holding secrets from me, and goes around my back talking about me, what should i do?)
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Practicing polygamy isn't good for most relationships, hate to say it but it's the truth. Even if both people swear they won't get jealous, jealousy is, essentially, a part of human nature.
Tell your girlfriend that when she gropes her same-sex friends, it makes you feel left-out and unnoticed. If you want to grope your same-sex friends and enjoy it even while keeping your girlfriend, I hate to say it but you're most definitely bilingual :).
If you are, tell your girlfriend, and tell her that the double-standards on her part aren't fair. If she still doesn't understand, I'd say go for someone who can be more understanding of your needs and her/his own :)
~Sprinkles
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