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Clone
Well me and my friend Chrissy are fighting because she thinks I am acting really fake and acting like a clone because I have a new friend Krisina. I dont see how I am but she sent me this email. Here.
Tiff,
Your already turning into one of their clones. You always talk about how your original but your not !! You shop where they do-you act and talk and dress and do your hair like them too !! Don't try to deny it cuzz eveyone sees it !!
This morning,you completetly ignored me for kristina. i dont even thinks she likes you-when you said that comment thats the closest she'll ever get to an ipod she gave you a really dirt look !! You walked away from me while i was talking to you as we wree goiing down the hall..just to go to emily and kristina and walked like down the whole 6th grade hallway and came back and said all nice "Oh no, i lost you guys !!" no you didtn !! You LEFT us !! What really made me madd is this..everyone knows that we can all understand dani perfectly with her retainer..and just cuzz she was talking and kristina didnt understand her you wereall "Omg i can't like understand you at all" and said something else really rude and acted likle she was abnormal because she had one !! And now that your hanging around them your completely fake !! Your laugh, your smile, you attidtude--your friendship !! EVERYTHING !! You are just sitting there denying it all arent you ?? Well thats not what i sent this letter for..i sent it so that you would relise that your not perfect...as much as you might think you are !!
Okay i dont care what your excuse is-dont try to suck up to my mom !!
You know im madd at you !! I've been holding this in for a while and i guess just likle you said...i just blew up on you--i didn't mean to....sure!!
.:Christine:.
Well I dont think i am perfect I could point out a thousand things that arent perfect about me. My hair I am really short, my nose is large. See I am not and I know that. I have done my hair the same way for a long time now and I dont get to shop at Aeropostale often but when I do I buy alot of clothes. Yeah I was walking with Kristina an talking then I thought Chrissy was behind me and she wasnt so I was like Oh I lost you and went behind with them I didnt go to there halway. I really think she is mad because I am friends with somone that is not her. She is really mad because I think I have mad a new friend and replaced her and I havent ! I could never replace her. How do I get her to realize I could never replace her and that I am not a clone, I am not going to change the way I dress for her to think I am not a clone. PLEASE HELP !
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you basically answered your whole question haha =) send an email back saying what you juss wrote-
"Well I dont think i am perfect I could point out a thousand things that arent perfect about me. My hair I am really short, my nose is large. See I am not and I know that. I have done my hair the same way for a long time now and I dont get to shop at Aeropostale often but when I do I buy alot of clothes. Yeah I was walking with Kristina an talking then I thought Chrissy was behind me and she wasnt so I was like Oh I lost you and went behind with them I didnt go to there halway. I really think she is mad because I am friends with somone that is not her. She is really mad because I think I have mad a new friend and replaced her and I havent ! I could never replace her. How do I get her to realize I could never replace her and that I am not a clone, I am not going to change the way I dress for her to think I am not a clone."
that should work!
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It sounds like she may be a little jealous that you are hanging out with other people. But don't go up to her and say something like "YOU'RE JUST JEALOUS BECUASE I HAVE NEW FRIENDS!" or anything similar becuase it will only piss her off more. Just explain to her that you really value the friendship that you have with her, and that even if you do have other friends you will always be there for her. And you don't need to change who you are ever for someone else. Just explain that you aren't copying anyone elses style. You buy the clothes you like and feel comfortable in.
Kate
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