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Question Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 8:09 pm

i cannt stand my mother any more, she is fucking crazy. she randomly get all mad at me and screams and will fight with me, and im no person to just sit there and take it. a few examples, this morning i went to sit and watch tv in her room and she was flipping our sayin i dont want you in here get out! telling me to "go FU** my self" and if im in the bathroom, doing my makeup or either going to the bathroom she comes in like shes allowed when im in there! and she`ll yell at me and stuff and if i tell her to get out and like eggs me on and gets in my face saying like " you think your tough??" i hate her shes crazy.. and ya ive known shes been on drugs forever but shes never done anything, like last night at like 3:45 am she was friggen in the bathroom blowing her nose out like it was her friggen job. then after she yelled at me to get out of the bathroom this morning she was fine! she askked me to go away with her this weekend but now tonight shes being crazy


i hate her ,i cant even stand being here? what can i do she doesnt listen.. any ideas what drugs shes using ( im 15)


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honu22 answered Thursday February 16 2006, 8:35 pm:
That sounds serious- I can't tell you much but your family needs help. I don't know what drugs she's using but if she has been a regular user, it's going to be very hard to quit. I strongly suggest talking so someone about this like another family member. If you have no one to help you, try talking to your school counselor (they should always be available). I think that your school also has information about hotlines that you can call to get help also. But for the time being, you should just avoid her, give her some space, don't talk to her/anger her when she is like this. I also suggest posting this on advicenators publicly, because people will give you more recources for help.

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Nevaeh314 answered Thursday February 16 2006, 8:11 pm:
If you're positive she's using drugs, that's a situation you need to remove yourself from until she can get help. Do you have a relative (i.e. aunts and uncles, grandparents) that you could stay with for a while? If not, I'd see if you could stay with a friend nearby. Is your dad around or does he know about the problem? He may be able to help.
A lot of things can cause such irrationality in a person, including alcohol and some painkillers, anti-depressents, and oxycontin, but my best guess would be it's cocaine, with what you mentioned about her blowing her nose.
You could call an anonymous hotline or talk to someone in social services near you to get more help, I'm not exactly sure what the laws are in regards to your state or what they can do about your situation without knowing a little more about it.
If you need more help, feel free to drop one in my inbox, or you can email me at Nevaeh314@gmail.com. I hope this helps, and I hope your situation gets better.
Love,
Nevaeh

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