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i cannt stand my mother any more, she is fucking crazy. she randomly get all mad at me and screams and will fight with me, and im no person to just sit there and take it. a few examples, this morning i went to sit and watch tv in her room and she was flipping our sayin i dont want you in here get out! telling me to "go FU** my self" and if im in the bathroom, doing my makeup or either going to the bathroom she comes in like shes allowed when im in there! and she`ll yell at me and stuff and if i tell her to get out and like eggs me on and gets in my face saying like " you think your tough??" i hate her shes crazy.. and ya ive known shes been on drugs forever but shes never done anything, like last night at like 3:45 am she was friggen in the bathroom blowing her nose out like it was her friggen job. then after she yelled at me to get out of the bathroom this morning she was fine! she askked me to go away with her this weekend but now tonight shes being crazy
i hate her ,i cant even stand being here? what can i do she doesnt listen.. any ideas what drugs shes using
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Just guessing that the drug she is using could be some sort of stimulant such as meth, crank, crack or coke. This causes the highs and lows and extreme irritability when the user is coming down (withdrawing from the drug). In addition the "nose blowing" could be a hint that she is snorting the drug.
I am not sure how old you are, but no matter your age, life is too short to be treated badly. If you are dependent upon your Mom for all your basic needs this makes the situation even harder. Just remember in spite of your Mother's problem, you can be a good person. Don't blame yourself! Don't fight with her--and lose control of your own emotions. Arguing with her will not help the situation because she cannot think or react logically. Most users deny that there is ever a problem and if they do admit it, they pass the blame or turn the tables.
Since you posted on this board it is in a way asking for help which is good, but you need more than what any advice givers here can help with.
The first step you can take is to join ala-teen, even if your Mom is not using alcohol, those people will know what you are going through and teach you ways to cope.
Search for a meeting in your area. If you don't have transportation they may be able to help you with that too. If you don't believe alateen is an option, call a drug rehab program and ask to speak with a counselor, they can help with an intervention to get your Mom into treatment. Don't be ashamed to speak up and ask for help, you do not have to suffer alone!
Best of luck to you and please let me know how things are going.
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I don't know. I'd try to get either her or another family member to let you move out with forementioned family member.
Or tell any sane sdult you trust about her drug use and see if they can get you out.
I'm sure you love her very deep down.
Mabye she needs to go to rehab?
Hope it all works out...
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ok honey. here we go. first of all if she is using drugs anything can happen. maybe you or another family member should speak to her about her problem and get her some help. Don't worry about you being the one who's at fault because it's not you. You don't make her do the drugs that make her do the things she does. maybe you could talk to another adult family member or even one of the family's close friends and convince them to convince her that she needs help. and remember that you can't help someone that doesn't want to help themselves. keep in touch and let me know if i can help out with anything else or just let me know if things get better. Good Luck Sweetie!!!!!
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