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My name is Danielle and I love to help people. Ask my anything and I will try my best to answer as accurately as I can with personal advice from my expierince or knowledge.. Good luck and God Bless all!
*Keosha*

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: The three players are Elaine, her sister and her mother. Elaine was always skinny. Elaine's mother told Elaine; I am really worried when we go to the birthday party this Saturday that if someone told you that you are so thin, that you would read into it and think that they never thought you were thin; Elaine says; Well doesn't it mean that? And her mother said; No, you would just hear it that way.You were always thin; Elaines sister said: Elaine you were always the thin one I was always the heavy one. Elaine told her friends the story and they said; what your mom is saying is that you were always thin, and everyone who knows you from past and present knows you are thin but you would not take their comment at face value, you would read into it thinking they never thought you were thin and all they are saying is you are still thin. MY QUESTION: DO YOU AGREE WITH ELAINES FRIENDS (what your mom is saying is that you were always thin, and everyone who knows you from past and present knows you are thin but you would not take their comment at face value, you would read into it thinking they never thought you were thin and all they are saying is you are still thin.)

Elaine?
Being thin is perfectly okay. If you ave always been thin, thank god! God made you how you are supposed to be. Just be glad your not heavy or obese like 1/2 of america.

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What is a good swimsuit bottom for a girl with big hips, thighs, and butt?

I like to get a cute bikini with the mini shorts bottoms. They seem to conceal the size of the thighs but bring out the shape of the butt and all.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.
*Keosha*

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its SUPER embarrassing for people to see your sweaty armpits, its disgusting. but i dont know what to use to get rid of it. i've tried that Certain-dri stuff i got at Walgreens, and it doesn't work for me. any other suggesstions?

Dove Ultimate Clear. Degree. (if your a female then Degree for women)

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My boyfriend doesn't know how to kiss!! It's slobery, he actually licked my face!!! It's so weird!! I don't want to kiss him! I don't want to kiss my own boyfriend! I've tried giving him hints on that he uses too much tounge (i couldn't breathe once!!) But I have never told him directly. I don't want to hurt his feelings, he loves kissing, he even said so the otherday. And I hate it, it's so wet and slobery! How do tell him without hurting his feelings?

Okay. You can just tell him you want to try something different. And tell him to follow your lead. It worked for me!
Good luck.
Hope that I helped
*Keosha*

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I used to be great at writing everything from essays to poetry to stories,but I lost my flare somewhere along the way.It used to come so naturally and everything that I wrote was good,but I took a break from it and now I just can't do it any more.Most of what I can come up with is mediocre at best,and when I do get on to something great it takes so much effort that it doesn't even matter to me.

Are there any exercises or anything that I can do to get my writing skills back up?

I know that this sounds crazy
but I am the same way
Just wait until you find something
that irks you everyday
Then pour out every word of hurt
or happiness you get
Then let all your feelings go
through some paper and a pen
lol.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.
*Keosha*

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Hi, I'll try to be detailed yet succinct so you know all the facts. Ruth, is the girl that I am in love with, I started to fall in love with her in December and it developed into full blown love. We got together on December 8th '07, only 3 weeks after she split up with a guy she was and still is in love with. Obviously this would be a problem and throughout our relationship it has been. We split up a week ago, and in no uncertain terms she broke my heart. To say i have issues is an understatement, and in having personal issues that affected me i pushed her away until she couldn't be with me, i hate myself for that. Now i've been trying to show her that i can cope with those issues, and i've already started getting help. I'm in love with her and what to be back with her. However, ive found out that since sunday she's been texting her ex and theyr'e talking about "taking things slow" and seeing if they can get back together. I don't want that to happen becuase he cheated on her once before, is at university while we're at school and is 4 years older than her. He's a bastard basically and i know he'll ruin her again. What do I do? She knows i love her, and she's told me she loves me, but she loves him. I confronted her and asked her to tell me there was no chance for us ever being together again, but she couldn't because i think she wants to be together, but at the same time doesn't. Help? I love her, i really really do. More than 'he' could, and i would'nt do anything to hurt her. Thanks for any help.

You may not be open enough to her and there may be things that her ex did for her that you do dont or a way he made her feel that she just doesnt feel with you. Trust me, I kind of feel the same way as her just different circumstances. I'm really sorry. All I can say is if things dont start to look up soon, then force yourself to move on. It is something that sounds bad but may be necessary. You do not want to put your life on hold for anyone else. And you obviously deserve someone better than to leave you for an ex let alone get with you in the first place. She got with you to get over him but she couldnt. Now she doesnt want you but she doesnt want to hurt you because it hurts her seeing you hurt. I know this sounds brutal and honey I am sorry. But I am in her same position and im a woman, and my womanly instincts are telling me she is doing the same thing i thought about doing last week. If you need someone to talk to you can email me. Keosha15@aol.com
Good luck.
I hope that I helped.
*Keosha*

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Kwame Obiajulu Yobachi Aliaune

That is one person's african names. How the hell would you pronounce that?

K-wah-mi Oby-ah-joo-loo Yo-bak-i All-i-ah-oo-ney

Hope that I helped.
Keosha

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Okay, so I have curly hair. At night I shower, and I put it in a ponytail with two ponytail holders, one at the bottom and one at the top.
My hair is a bit wavy when I wake up, but still a bit damp. What can I put through the curls to have them hold and stay defined the whole day instead of getting frizzy and poofy? And how do I do it?

Okay. I have the exact same problem. I choose to shower in the morning but it doesnt really matter. Get a spray bottle that you can spray water through really well and damp your hair if not already damp. Then put La Bella Hair gel in it. Any kind will work. It will stiffen your hair a little bit if you dont comb it when your done putting in the gel. It will make your hair less frizzy and let the curls come out. I love it! Its worked for me for years! Oh and if you have really dry hair...dont use all of those little fancy expensive shampoos..they never really seem to work that well. Just stick with v05 or suave and PLENTY of conditioner. Like dont rinse the conditioner out of your hair completely. It keeps the frizz down. And if you dont have gel..use conditioner, it works just as well.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped
*Keosha*
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.

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i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years now and i am really in love with him. but the thing is that i got offered a modeling job in california. and i dont know what willhappen to us. he doesnt want me to go but i really want to. i dont want to give it up and i dont know if he is just tesing me or what i dont want to lose him or this oppertunity what should i do he is also going to college on the east coast next year and i will only be a junior

Honey,
I hate to break it to you this way but if he really loves you then he would want you to take this wonderful opportunity. I know it's sad and I know it sucks leaving a loved one but boyfriends dont always stick around. You need someone to support you and NOT hold you back from your dreams.
Good luck hun.
Hope that I helped.
*Keosha*

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this weekend i was with my brother and some of his friends and we were all driving around in my new car a 2007 escalade. I was driving adn it was raining and late at night and i have only had my license for about 3 months. we were coming around the corner and hit another car totaling mine and theirs. right away my brother took the blame for it and told me not to worry about it since he has been driving for a few eyars now and wouldnt get in as much trouble as i would. since the other car didnt see i was driving it worked out fine but now i feel awful that he took the blame for this but i know that if i came forward my parents would kill me. what should i do?

I think that you should be honest with yourself and talk to your brother about it, see how he feels about you coming forward. If it is not a good idea, then maybe you should consider sucking up to your brother big time and keeping it a secret. I am sorry about your car. It must be a nice one. I hope that everything works out for you. If you feel even more guilt or anything try praying about it. Prayer changes things and when you dont have anyone else, God is always there.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.
*Keosha*

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can you please name the shampoo and conditioner that you use (or that you know of) and makes your hair shiny and silky and strong??

currently i use fructis sleek and shine... it works ok for me but I was planning on switching to something else.

i've heard that Pantine Pro-V, Herbal Essences, Bed head, and Tres'emme work good

any helpful ideas? thanks bunches

Honestly, VO5 works really well for me but I am mixed and also have course hair.
Or try suave, it works wonders.
Or dove. Really nice on any kind of hair.

Good luck
Hope that I helped.
*keosha*

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(14.f.) so i have the sweetest boyfriend ever.when we are together hes really affectionate and everything.and so am I, but when we chat on aim or something i dont really seem to show him that i really do love him..does anyone have any tips on how i can express how i feel when i talk to him online?I need ways to show that i really do love him..help anyone please?thanks in advance.
tommyleehottie

You dont need to express how you feel about him 24/7. As long as he knows how you feel and you show it at least one point in time everyday then you shouldnt worry about it. Just send him cute things or lots of smilies. :)
Hope that I helped.
*Keosha*

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Alright, so I really want to get to 120 by next month. I weighed myself in the morning and I was 124. So then I ran & walked for about 4 hours, and when I got back I still weighed 124.

Does it take a while for the pounds to go away? Or did that just do nothing?

Oh & what should I do to lose lovehandles/lower back fat? I've ran at least a mile all this week & done crunches & basic stuff & and yeah, the pounds are shedding, but they seem to just stay there.. :[ I really don't want to go below 120 just so they can be gone.

Exercise builds muscle if you do it properly and muscle weighs more than fat. Still exercise butits mainly about your diet. Eating a salad instead of chips or fruit instead of sugar sweets can reallt put off the pounds. Also...PLENT OF WATER. Stay true to this and trust me...you'll be 120 in no time. I lost 3 pounds in just a couple days by doing this.
Good luck.
Hope that i helped.
*Keosha*

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ok i'm 13/f (recently turned 13) ok i havn't gotten my period yet, but i have everything like pucic hair, under arm hair, and a little developement of boobs. well lately my voice has been acting weird like when i'm talking to my friends or family my voice is fine but when i talkin front of teachers or in front of class, then my voice goes weird like a need to clear it. also since i live with my dad i dont shave anywhere, and all my other friends do- and they even ask me why i dont shave, and it puts me in a bad position. cause its really weird to talk to him about AND I CAN'T TALK TO ANYONE ELSE! and i need details about period things, any web sites or links will be great as well but please tell me as much as possible. please a.s.a.p. thank u

http://www.beinggirl.com/

Its a wonderful website that can answer any and all of your questions.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.
*Keosha*

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I have a red dress for prom, but i have no idea what kind of eye shawdow, I have brown eyes. And i tryed red and i just look sick. So any suggestions, would be apprecited.
Thank you!

Go with something natural. God i have the same problem, i usually do a gold with black liner on the top. Its really pretty.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.
*Keosha*

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i'm 14 years old and i'm a female and i have had sex. how do i tell my boyfriend who i lost my virginity to that i don't want to have sex with him anymore.

Just tell him that you are not comepletly ready to keep doing it and that it makes you kind of uncomfortable. He should understand. :)
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.
*keosha*

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so ive been going out with ym boyfriend for a year and were really close. but his brother kinda sayas really perverted thinggs to me when hes not around and one time he didnt rape me but he sat on me and fingered me and i was biting him but he wouldnt get off. and he got inside me but i dont think it was rape. its really uncomfortable going over his house but he always asks me too. i dont wanna tell him but idk what to do help please.

Tell your boyfriend when you are ready. If it makes you feel uncomfortable then he should understand. If you are scared then you need to write it down in a journal or something and let him mistakenly read it (if you can be slick enough) Listen, its not a cool thing and you need to tell someone. I know what it's like and Im sorry. And if you said no and he forced anything into your vagina or anus..then it is considered 'rape'. I had to learn through therapy so trust my answer.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.
*Keosha*

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What are good foods and drinks to have during your period? What are bad foods and drinks?

Water water water!!! Drink plenty of water and stay away from junk food and salty foods. Try to eat healthy and take vitamins. Bad foods are like chips and cake and all that crap. Now being a female i can make an exception for chocolate but not too much. Try to buy one candy barand use it all week. Eat wholesome foods. Whole grain. And STAY AWAY from greasy foods!
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.
*Keosha*

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13/f i get me and my best friends into everything. but mainly me and either joe or lisa i just try anything i can as in sports of camps or even hairstyles. i usually end up messing up or breaking something or some bone. i just have fun. i like trying new things anything new. lately lisa makes excuses when i ask if she wants to sign up for a sport or anything. i tell her she doesnt have to. but shed rather lie to me. shes not really my partner in crime anymore lol she doesnt do anything with me at all really. we do go to the mall thats pretty much all. she cries saying she has no friends. and that i never do anything with her.
too much drama. now i guess i have a new bestfriend and her to but im in a group of really close friends. my other bestfriend joe is a guy he will do anything with me hes been one of my bestfriends for years. lisa doesnt like him. she always tries to pick my friends i Hate when she does that! so i just go with who i want. am i wrong for doing that. she doesnt think guys and girls should be bestfriends or even in a group. she doesnt like my group of bestfriends all 8 of us are extremely close5 girls 3 guys and then theres her. she tries to pick my friends and she hates all my friends. i am not hers she doesnt own me. i do what i want when i want. im pretty much her only friend. i invite her to everything with my other friends but she just hates them. no wonder why she doesnt have friends she tries to pick for other people.
what do i do? is it bad i love to try anything i can? ive tried almost every sport or thing i may not be the best but i have the most fun. am i too extreme? whats wrong with me? how do i get her to stop lieing to me? is she a best friend? why does she try to pick my friends? i ignore it and be friends with whoever i want. can guys and girls be bestfriends in a group or just one and one? how do i help her? anything else pleaseeee.

OKay, you have been a good person and friend and have done all that you can do. Hear this quote
"Please all and you will please none."
You cannot please everyone so pick and choose your battles. Dont let this get the best of you. You are doing the right thing by not holding back but listen...a friend is a friend, someone who will be by your side and accept things and move on...NOT depend on your every breath to keep her alive. Chica, i know this sounds wrong but you need to tell her how you feel and if she cant accept it and isnt willing to change you should try to break away from her...only for the better b/c you have a life of your own and she cannot hold you back from it.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.
*Keosha*

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I really want to use a tampon but I am scared. I'm scared it will hurt when I am putting it in. How can I get over being scared?

Always relax, and use a Playtex gentle glide. They are easy for the first time. Or tampax compact. Both are simple and compact clicks when its in and you can just push it up a little bit inside of you afterwards and then pull out the applicator. Its that easy.
Good luck.
Hope that i helped. ;p

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