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Bad Kisser!
My boyfriend doesn't know how to kiss!! It's slobery, he actually licked my face!!! It's so weird!! I don't want to kiss him! I don't want to kiss my own boyfriend! I've tried giving him hints on that he uses too much tounge (i couldn't breathe once!!) But I have never told him directly. I don't want to hurt his feelings, he loves kissing, he even said so the otherday. And I hate it, it's so wet and slobery! How do tell him without hurting his feelings?
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Okay you need to be direct but subtle too. I know, it sounds hard right?
Before you tell him what NOT to do, compliment him on something that you like him to do.
For example, if you like how he kisses along your jaw or strokes your face, say something like, 'I really like how you trail kisses along my cheek, but I think the kiss would be a little bit better if there wasn't so much tongue.'
This way, he hears what he's doing wrong, but the compliment softens the blow.
I hope it works out for you!
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Okay. You can just tell him you want to try something different. And tell him to follow your lead. It worked for me!
Good luck.
Hope that I helped
*Keosha*
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I think you should just confront him about it. Just say "you use too much tongue when we kiss." But then say "i wanna show you how I want to be kissed." and then tell him you wanna practice a lot right now. Initially, he might feel bad or embarassed, but once you tell him you want to practice, it'll turn into a good time. Plus, he's never gonna change if you dont tell him
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find a good website that says "how to kiss" (just google search it, you'll find tons). Then print it and leave it somewhere where he'll see it. Make sure it says something about "gentleness" or "don't eat my face", lol, so if he decides to read it, he gets the message. Maybe in his locker? I dont know. Wherever isnt an obvious place that YOU did it. Hope this helps <3
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just be like--- "oh baby i love it when i feel the tenderness of your lips" or be like "this feels really good when you do it.... here let me show u what turns me on".... he'll fall right for it:)
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