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Question Posted Saturday May 5 2007, 9:21 pm

i'm 14 years old and i'm a female and i have had sex. how do i tell my boyfriend who i lost my virginity to that i don't want to have sex with him anymore.

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Keosha answered Sunday May 6 2007, 8:17 pm:
Just tell him that you are not comepletly ready to keep doing it and that it makes you kind of uncomfortable. He should understand. :)
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.
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lil_t_14 answered Saturday May 5 2007, 10:15 pm:
i just wanna make this point sorry but you should know this. you are to young to be having sex! you should just talk to him and tell that you dont want to do it nomore and if he gets mad break up with him because if he really likes you he will understand

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hollister_lover09 answered Saturday May 5 2007, 9:58 pm:
when you two are kissing or anything and hes like getting in the mood, say no. tell him your not ready and you thought you were the first time, but you want to wait to do it again. hope i helped<3

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Sabine answered Saturday May 5 2007, 9:54 pm:
Depends on your reasons for not wanting to have sex. You just have to be honest with him whether it's because the relationship is not what you think it should be or whether it's because you're not emotionally ready and you only realize that now or because you are having physical problems with it. If you write more, you might get more specific advice. But you just need to reassure him that you still care for him, if that's the case, and tell him that for at least a while, you're not going to have sex with him. Tell him specifically what you will do (is touching okay?) and what you won't. If he's a good boyfriend, he will take it gracefully and respect your wishes.

Sabine

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