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boyfriends brother.
so ive been going out with ym boyfriend for a year and were really close. but his brother kinda sayas really perverted thinggs to me when hes not around and one time he didnt rape me but he sat on me and fingered me and i was biting him but he wouldnt get off. and he got inside me but i dont think it was rape. its really uncomfortable going over his house but he always asks me too. i dont wanna tell him but idk what to do help please.
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Tell your boyfriend when you are ready. If it makes you feel uncomfortable then he should understand. If you are scared then you need to write it down in a journal or something and let him mistakenly read it (if you can be slick enough) Listen, its not a cool thing and you need to tell someone. I know what it's like and Im sorry. And if you said no and he forced anything into your vagina or anus..then it is considered 'rape'. I had to learn through therapy so trust my answer.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.
*Keosha*
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Hey!
If something makes you uncomfortable, as that did, then you can't let yourself be endangered. I would tell your boyfriend what happened and tell him that you still want to go out with him and stuff, but you cant go and put yourself in danger any more. And I read the other persons comment, and I think she's right. You probably should talk to someone about this, like your parents, because shes right it was sexual abuse and it was against your will, but thats up to you. I think the most important thing to do though is tell your boyfriend. You don't want him to think that you dont want to go over there because of him when really it's his brother.
I hope I helped, and remember that not all guys are like that, and your boyfriend is probably a much better guy.
Love ya,
angie91
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I'm sorry hun, but you've been sexually assaulted...Which is as bad as rape...You can lodge a complaint against this to the police! Hey you've mentioned that you and your bf are really close. If you want to continue with your bf, you have to let him know... Dont make things difficult for yourself. Why dont you just talk about this to your bf when your bf's brother is there. Do not submit to that cheap dog... Stand up against this.
Best Of Luck Hun, xxxxx DaRkSiDe89 xxxxx
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