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Hi my name is Katie i'm 15 and i live in baltimore county I'm super nice sooo don't be afraid to ask me ok well i'm into goth/punk stuff I love all kinds of music rap/rock/pop/hiphop♥ I have a kitten her name is Patches well my fave food is pizza,and my fave icecream is french vanilla and I will alwayz find time to answer your questions♥

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my boyfriend i havent seen for a week and a day and i havent talked to in three days! im constantly talking and thinking about him! i miss him like CRAZY!!!!! ive been calling his house for the past 2 days but hes not answering! his friend said he was in new york but doesnt know when hes going to be back. why wouldnt he tell me that? and i just miss him sooooooooooo bad! i love him and i want to see or at least talk to him! how can i get over this since i dont know when ill be able to talk/see him again!?

I say just do somthing to keep your mind off him like maybe call your friends and hang out or somthin or do u know his cell phone# or somthin like that if you do i would call his cell and see whats up i know your worried but i think he is fine ok hope i helped bye send me feed back thnx bye:-)

hey umm i no this sounds wrong, but i think i really like my cousin. i dont know what to do, i mean hes family and all and he lives like 6 hours away and i dont no if he would ever like me but what can i do?

Girl what are you thinking do you want to end up on Jerry springer or dr.Phil its ok to LIKE him just don't ask him out cuz thats just wrong (no affense) but there are other guyz out there who willask you out and maybe be your bf but not your couisin ok hope i hepled you can ask him out but you might get your feelings hurt Good luck Bye:-)

My dad died when I was ten and I acted wierd. I didn't cry very much at all. I only cried once or twice. Now I'm 13 and I don't cry about it still. It makes me feel guilty, and I don't know why I can't cry. It also makes me mad because everybody thinks I'm over it, but I'm really not. The last time I cryed about it was last night. But the wierd thing is, is about a month ago I whent to these family riunons, and just started crying for no reason. So here is my question: Am I a freak because I don't cry, and how can I make it so that I don't have the sudden outbursts? Can you help?

its perfectly normal i do the same thing only my grandfather died when i was like seven and i'm 14 and i still not over it.It's hard loseing someone you love but sometimes you just got to let go. and no your not a freak it just happens you can't control it (sorry 2 say) i hope i helped and sorry for your loss good luck:-)

we've been out of school for a long time and i didnt do one thing with a friend. if one person is doind something with someone already they wont let you do anything with them =( they wont get a big group of girls to hang with or anything. EVERYBODY has something to do and they wont let me come i mean i thought i had real friends but... and my so called "best friend" doesnt talk to me online and in her shout outs she is puttin' me at the bottom of her list i mean i cant stand it with these girls they dont talk to me or call me i call them n they always say i cant do anything n then i look at thier a/m and its hanging with my girls or something like that. HOW DO I GET "REAL" FRIENDS??? PLEASE HELP I WILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERES.

Sound to me you have some crappy friends i mean they are sooooo rude :( do yu know any other classmates phone #'s or actually call your friend like the day before and make plans or yuo could stay inside and watch T.V and eat junk food or maybe you could draw pics or Read!!! a BOOK!!! it won't hurt ya or you could go out by your self and casually run into them you know what i mean:-P

Hope i helped good luck send me feed back Bye :-)

hey i have this friend, lets say her name is allie, well me n "allie" are supposed to be good friends, but now that we've grown older, i've matured just a bit more, im not into the stuff she likes any more, like she's more of a tom boy, and i like sports n stuff, but like at the movies and the mall, she HATES goin into stores like claires and forever 21, and anything wit too much "girl" stuff, but i go into stuff i dont like as in spencers and K B toys, she refuses to go where i wanna go, but i go where she wants to just to be a good fair friend,we've kind of split up when it cumz to interest, and i dont wanna be her friend, cuz we agree on almost nuttin, the problem is i live rite behind her in a manner of speaking me n "allie" "share" backyards, and when we start high skool next year, all of our church groups will be help at her house, and if im not her friend, i'd feel awkward, what should i do
also im a soon to be 14 yr old, and her n my sis and her n my bro are GOOD friends, and i just dont want her to get upset because she considers me her Best Friend

sry i've written so much, and if its confusin lemme kno and ill try to edit it!

Confused in Concord

well dont end the friend ship over that i mean maybe you guyz have to have at least one thing in common i have the same prob only im the tomboy and my friend is the girly girl we both love to shop til we drop and stuff like that you guyz like to shop together right?well when you want to go somplace she dont want to go just tell her you will just go in you no tell her you guyz dont have anything in common and you two can sit down a figure out what u do have in common its your choice if you want to end the friend ship hope i helped bye good luck send me feed back bye:-)

my friend is anorexic and i need to persuade her to tell and adult, before i do. what should i say?

thx

U tell an adult right away and tell her she is hurtin herself you know she can die from that im really sorry to say what she is doing is stupid if you don't act now she will get soooo skinny her bones will show and they will have to insert a feeding tube so she can live i know you don't want that to happen and i know you don't want her to go in to an early grave don't wait until she tells tell someone now so they can get her better ok:-) Good uck hope i helped send me feed back Bye Good luck again:-)

im 15 years old.. and my best friend is a guy named mike.. and me and him have always had something for eachother and been together hooking up off and on for about 2 years.. and he has been the BIGGEST part of my life and my heart for longer than that.. and just recently he started dating this girl that i absolutly do not get along with and never have.. and the first day they staretd going out i got into a fight with him over something i said to her. and he chose to defend her and be on her side over me. and that hurt me more than imaginable. but hes hurt me in similar ways to this and made me hysterical to many times to count.. and every time he does we fight and i try so hard to walk away from him but i never can.. and i always end up going bak to him as soon as he tells me he loves me and hes sorry. and i just dont know how to be without him anymore and that i need him and am not whole without him.. can you please tell me what to do because ireally cant take this pain anymore my hearts in so many pieces it just hurts to even breathe..

I feel so sorry for you just let it out and tell him how you feel if he loves you that much maybe he will date you again who knows all i can say is tell him how you feel as for the other girl she sound like a witch im so sorry your hurtin right now Good luck hope i helped :-)

sorry this is soo sappy Good luck :-)

WARNING: This is one of those gross girly questions about tampons. If you can't handle it, stop reading now.

Ok, so. I just started using tampons, and I'm a little concerned that I'm doing something wrong. I've noticed that when I take it out, one side of the tampon tends to have "stuff" on it, and the other doesn't. And it seems like I heard somewhere that this was a bad thing. Can anyone tell me if I'm doing something wrong? Or is this normal?

Thanks a ton. Sorry about the embarrassing question, but I had to ask.

That is perfectly normal it will do that sometimes it depends is it white and sticky if its that thats the bodys way of cleaning it self if its not that then if your that worried ask your doctor or a TRUSTED adult hope i helped send me feed back bye:-)

I'm never gonna like my room ever. All i can do is reorganize that's all I'm allowed to do.
I'm trying to go for a girly type theme
I have a twin bed, small dresser that barely fits anything in it, a desk and a bookshelf that's attached to my wall. My wall color is offwhite. Where do you put all your jewelry and makeup and crap like that and I know this sounds dumb but what do you put in your closet and on your bookshelf should I throw my little house in the praire type books away or what.Please help
I rate really high!!!!!!!!!!!

Well what u can do is you can get cute little baskets and put your makeup in it as for your jewlry put that in a jewlry box and put them on your dresser put your clothes like dresses and some t-shirts what ever doesn't fit in your dresser u can in your closet hope i helped good luck send me feed back thnx bye:-)

This is gonna be long but I need help..

So me and my boyfriend were totally in love.. But then he cheated on me with another girl, he made out with her for like an hour. AND he was the one that came onto her. I broke up with him, and was totally heartbroken because I still love him... So then I saw him, and he apoligized, saying, "I`m so sorry, You are perfect, I only want you, that kiss from her meant nothing, I love you so much and I`m so sorry.." And so now I`m going back out with him.. But the thing is, I`m not sure. I still love him, but I can`t trust him.. And things are just kind of awkward now. I have no idea what to do.. Please help, I rate high !!

Ok i would give him another chance but i would watch him like a hawk and i wouldn't trust him either but do what you think is right good luck send me feed back thnx bye :-):-)

ok..when i was little i had cancer and so i had like 6 operations in the same spot. the scar is really really deep about like 2/3 of a cm. and thats deep for a scar! how do i get rid of it???? please help!!!!

theres no way to GET rid of it but as you get older it will start to fade and become less visable also you can ask your doctor for this cream that will help it fade much faster ok good luck send me feed back thnx bye :-)

I'm 12 and a female and i really need a strapless bra but i'm only in an A.Where can I get a cheap,good strapless bra?
CD

well i would try walmart or kmart they usually have alot to choose from and for a fraction of the cost ok good luck send me feed back bye :-)

well i shaved my 'lower area' for the first time the other day and i got this big rash there. i asked my friend what to do and she said to put unscented lotion on it and make sure i wash it. so i did both and nothing is helping. i still have a rash there and the skin is kind of dry. please help..

well i would recamend you talk to your doctor she might have a medacation that will get rid of it or ask your mom to go to the drug store to get you somthing ok good luck (Seriously):-)

Ok,i have this "friend"...Sarah. I dont like Sarah...and i dont want her to be friends with my friends...cause if she is i know she is going to soak up all the attension,they'll like her,she'll turn them against me, and leave me out of everything. I hate her..shes so mean to me. How can i stop thinking about her,not care about her,and just make it so im not her friend..but not her enemy? Please dont be mean in you answers...i want to let go of her..but not be an enemy. Please help i'll rate high.

One thing i can tell you is to avoid her i have the same prob but what i do is i talk to her now and then be a little friendly but the whole i dont want her to be with my friends thing for one thing she sounds rude and what i can tell you is not to go where she is forexample if she is headin twards you just turn around and walk the other way hope i helped good luck send me feed back pleze thnx:-)

hi/ i am 16 years old girl and never had a bofriend, is that a bad thing, first there was a boy and he said that he like me, but the very week we met he move out of my school, so we became talking on the phone, and he said that i was his girlfriend, but we never wet on a date or kiss, that very week he ask me out to watch movie, but my dad didnt allowed me to go, i lied to him that i have to babysit my brother, he said ok another time we could go, but he never ask me out again and we were talking, but we never saw eachother. one night he told me that we should be friends that his ex want him back, from then he never called me, he just disappear, since then no boy has ask me out or something like that, i have never been kiss or do anything sexuall in my life, am just asking is that normal or am i gay or maybe i havnt find the right person. Please i need ur help
thanks

Girl you probly havent found the right guy yet
it takes time for one thing you are not gay so don't worry bout it you will find the right guy before your 80 just playin you will find the right guy soon ok send me feed back if you like my advice thnx good luck :-)

i was goin out with a guy that i liked but when i met his friend i got atrackted and he was to but my ex-boy friend would always beat up his friend if he hit on me and my ex was to cudly for me. so i broke up with him but now i like his friend. should i go for his friend becouse im afraid he'll get beat up

bh

man girl i wouldnt worry about it if your that worried try to avoid himm if this is bad advice let me know Ok:-)

good luck

Alright so there is this guy. And I went out with him once already but it ended after a short time. It was probably the best few days of my life, though. He was so sweet and funny and we had everything in common. I couldn't have asked for anything else. When we broke up i was super sad. And this was like a while ago! I still can't stop thinking about him. It makes me crazy.

I still talk to him, but barely. I knew, even when I went out with him, that he's the kinna guy why goes from girl to girl to girl after only weeks. And even though he's like that, I feel like we're perfect for eachother but he doesn't know it. I don't think I would feel this way if I didn't think we should be together.

The thing is, right now he likes my friend, and i don't even know if he thinks of me at all. It really hurts. I know I shouldn't be so crazy about a guy like this... but I guess i'm "stuck" over him. It's like he's the only thing that would make me truly happy. And I feel like if i try to tell him i'll look like a complete idiot. We already broke up once, I mean, he'd think I was crazy. I just... need him. Man...

I'm sooo stuck on this one. Please help.

Thank you.

well girl i have the same problem i like this boy josh he is so hot i went through every thing you went through its hard to face the facts but you never know he might still like you he might be hangin out with your friend to find out more about you ask him if you guyz can hang out more
Good luck

Send me feed back bout what happend bye:-)

Okay , this girl moved from another part of the town to the part i live in around last year . I was quite popular in school. I became friends with her because i thought she was sweet and friendly. But since last month ( or maybe even before that ,who knows?) she started backstabbing me , but still acted nice and sweet and oh-so-innocent in front of me .I have been busy for some time because of some commitments i have , so i didn't realise this until last week . None of my old friends talk to me as much as before , and now even when i sms my best guy friend , he'll talk about her smsing him at the same time .And it seems as though all of them like her more than they like me , and my best guy friend ( former ? ) he'll say stuff like :" oh , me and her and ___ and ___ and ___ are real close man " Without even including ME ! And if he wants to go somewhere he'll say :"if she goes , i'll go . " It turns out she's been saying stuff behind my back , and now , SHE'S where i used to be , with MY friends , and MY popularity .Even my crush seems to sorta like her , and pay attention to her like how he used to do with me . WHAT SHOULD I DO ?

Man you are in a tough situation shes acting like a b**** sounds to me that shes like taking the life you had man that sucks break the friend ship and try to hang out with your other friends more who cares about the crush hes probly missing out on a great girl and tell her you know whats going on and if she spreds rumors just ignor them it will blow over soon give me feed back bout what happend

Good luck :-)

Okay- so my boyfriend is going to Florida for 14 days and he's flying. He's really scared and I wanted to write him a letter for the airplane ride up there. I don't know what to put in it! Please give me just a few ideas. Thanks --- I rate HIGH! And give feedback if you want it!

tell him how much you miss him amd that you cant wait to see him tell him stuff to make him laugh so he doesnt feel scared stuff like that and can you please leave feedback thnx :-)

Good luck :-)

how do u know if ur in love? is there a differece between being in love and loving someone? i need to know b/c i think that i love this one guy but im not so sure anymore... could anyone give me some advice on love and dating? thanx... ill rate high!!!!

the way you can tell if your in love is whenever your around this person you sweat and get butterflies in your stomach and you feel lightheaded and when it comes to dating just be yourself dont move in to quick ok !

gOOD LUCK HOPE I HELPED and if you need any more advice my column is Kate05 so just inbox me if you need help "k"

bye :-)

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