how do u know if ur in love? is there a differece between being in love and loving someone? i need to know b/c i think that i love this one guy but im not so sure anymore... could anyone give me some advice on love and dating? thanx... ill rate high!!!!
LongLostHeart answered Saturday June 25 2005, 10:25 pm: Hm...this is tough...
From my point of view,love is an indescribable feeling...but I suppose its when you feel warm and safe when your near them.When your actually interested in what they say and do.You feel like you can easily talk to them or look into their eyes.It can feel like everything will be all right.
...I hope that made sense. [ LongLostHeart's advice column | Ask LongLostHeart A Question ]
xxspillmyheartforyouxx answered Saturday June 25 2005, 8:53 pm: when you're with the person you're IN LOVE with, you might get little butterflies whenever you're getting ready to see them..or whenever you hear a song you get butterflies and think of them..you can tell you're in love. If you can't even IMAGINE your life without that person in it..you're in love =D
your heart will tell you if you're in love or not. ♥ [ xxspillmyheartforyouxx's advice column | Ask xxspillmyheartforyouxx A Question ]
Ghelp answered Saturday June 25 2005, 8:32 pm: You know if your in love...if you feel a total connection with the person you are involved with, physically, mentally, and emotionally. Don
't go on the thought of a relationship or sexual involvement just because of the fact of physicalities. If you both are really good friends then and you cannot stop thinking about this person...if during the day you think of them and during the night you dream of them then you are in love. Just remember one thing if you are seriously thinking about getting involved...friendship is the basis for all the the best relationships. [ Ghelp's advice column | Ask Ghelp A Question ]
SmileLikeYouMeanIt answered Saturday June 25 2005, 7:31 pm: This is a good question for me to answer, because I have experienced this recently. People would always tell me, "Oh, you'll know when you're in love." And I would ask how and they would say, "You just know." Now, I always thought that was a bunch of bs until I fell in love myself. You say that you're not sure that you love this guy... well love is such a sure thing and when you are in love you KNOW that you are in love. Being in love is loving the person for who they are and not just obsessing over them because they are hot or something. You appreciate every little thing that person does and you would do anything for them. Now, love is different for everyone... this is just judging from my experience. If you love this guy, you'll know for sure. Love is such a difficult topic... I hope that my advice helps. [ SmileLikeYouMeanIt's advice column | Ask SmileLikeYouMeanIt A Question ]
HyperactiveMiss answered Saturday June 25 2005, 7:14 pm: First of all, anyone that answers this question is answering from opinion. Yes, I am also answering from opinion. I say this because "love" has so many meanings to it, and it depends on how strong you believe in the word.
Loving someone is quite different. Loving someone can mean ANYTHING. You can love someone romantically, or you can love someone as a friend, or role model, or family member, etc. When you're "in love" it does depend on how you're using it. If you say you love your mom, or family members of course you're "in love". But most commonly, "in love" is only used for a "lover" or someone you're having a "relationship" with.
This is all <b>opinion</b>, so you don't have to agree with me, but I'll just give you a piece of my mind. Love is when you love that person no matter what. You can't suddenly "fall out of love" with that person. You shouldn't just like this person just because of their looks or something treated as an object. This person does NOT make you insecure or self-conscious, they should make you LESS insecure and self-conscious. They should make you feel GOOD about yourself. Not only this, but you should do the SAME for them as well. It's a you get and you give relationship. Think about WHY you love this person. Are they good reasons? It helps to look into the future. Is this guy HUSBAND material? If the answer is no, don't bother wasting your time on someone you can't see yourself with.
Dating is about experiencing new things, trying things out, bonding with someone, and finding what you need and want. You don't have to be confined to one person forever, you are free to date people to find your soul mate. [ HyperactiveMiss's advice column | Ask HyperactiveMiss A Question ]
ALEXandADRIANA answered Saturday June 25 2005, 6:47 pm: There is a difference on loving someone and being IN love with someone. Think about it this way...you love your friends and family and you would be IN love with your future husband. When you are IN love with someone you want to spend all of your time with them and you are sexually attracted to them. There is also a thing known as "puppy love". That is when you THINK you are IN love with someone but really you come to find out that you just loved them because you cared for them a whole lot. You might love that one guy because you care for him a whole lot, like you care for your friends and family. You will one day be IN love with someone and that person will make you SO happy that it will be impossible for you to not know that you are IN love with him. This is hard to explain but we hope we have helped at least a little bit. [ ALEXandADRIANA's advice column | Ask ALEXandADRIANA A Question ]
Kate05 answered Saturday June 25 2005, 6:44 pm: the way you can tell if your in love is whenever your around this person you sweat and get butterflies in your stomach and you feel lightheaded and when it comes to dating just be yourself dont move in to quick ok !
gOOD LUCK HOPE I HELPED and if you need any more advice my column is Kate05 so just inbox me if you need help "k"
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