hi/ i am 16 years old girl and never had a bofriend, is that a bad thing, first there was a boy and he said that he like me, but the very week we met he move out of my school, so we became talking on the phone, and he said that i was his girlfriend, but we never wet on a date or kiss, that very week he ask me out to watch movie, but my dad didnt allowed me to go, i lied to him that i have to babysit my brother, he said ok another time we could go, but he never ask me out again and we were talking, but we never saw eachother. one night he told me that we should be friends that his ex want him back, from then he never called me, he just disappear, since then no boy has ask me out or something like that, i have never been kiss or do anything sexuall in my life, am just asking is that normal or am i gay or maybe i havnt find the right person. Please i need ur help
thanks
SmileLikeYouMeanIt answered Sunday June 26 2005, 12:03 am: That is completely normal. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 16, and we've been going out for a year now. It's different for everyone. Just wait, I will assure you that you will find the right person. Now, I can't tell you if you are gay or not, but I know that you will find someone and this someone will be a good one, because you aren't one of those girls who is constantly dating around. I consider that a good thing. I know it's hard and you've probably heard this a million times, but try to have patience and the right person will just show up... sometimes when you least expect it. [ SmileLikeYouMeanIt's advice column | Ask SmileLikeYouMeanIt A Question ]
iSLAND_x_KiiSS answered Friday June 24 2005, 2:54 pm: This is totally normal.. Beleive it or not, tons of people your age have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend or anything. This doesn't mean that you are gay, just that you're waiting for the right person, and that's very admirable of you. You will find the right person in time.
-Taylor [ iSLAND_x_KiiSS's advice column | Ask iSLAND_x_KiiSS A Question ]
ItSmYtRadEmaRk15 answered Friday June 24 2005, 1:58 pm: This is completely normal. As much as it doesnt seem true, more than half of all high schoolers have never been on a date or been kissed. It just means that the right guy hasn't come around yet. When he does, you'll know. Don't think that this is a bad thing. Hopefully the first guy was worth the wait. Just follow your heart! Hope i helped! [ ItSmYtRadEmaRk15's advice column | Ask ItSmYtRadEmaRk15 A Question ]
AnonymousAdviceGiver answered Friday June 24 2005, 1:29 pm: The only thing that makes one gay is if they are attracted to the same gender. A gay female could have 1,000 boyfriends and she would still be gay. It isn't something you can change.
It isn't a bad thing that you have never had a boyfriend. Don't worry about it. A lot of people your age and older have not had a boyfriend, just nobody brags about it, and so those who haven't think something is wrong with them. [ AnonymousAdviceGiver's advice column | Ask AnonymousAdviceGiver A Question ]
Julie174 answered Friday June 24 2005, 12:51 pm: your not gay. it's not abnormal and it is normal to not have had a kiss or gone on a date. Technically, he still was your boyfriend. So you've had at least 1. Instead of waiting around for boys to ask you out, ask them out. Girls are just as strong as boys. Then you'll know what to do from there...if not, leave a message in my inbox. Hope I Helped and Good Luck!
IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Friday June 24 2005, 12:36 pm: Why would there be anything wrong with you? Just because maybe your friends have done some of these things it doesnt mean you have to! Nothing is wrong with you. Your actually lucky you havnt done any of these things, i havnt either!! The right guy will eventually come along, and youll be the lucky winner!!
♥ Michelle [ IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug's advice column | Ask IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug A Question ]
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