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help m please
i lost a big part of my life...the person i loved more than life itself...he told me i was annoying and a bad girlfriend...it tore me up...i want him back and now hes talkin to my friend...i just want to die...how do i get over him? someone help me please before i do somethin stupid
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Think of it this way this guy is a jerk and he just isn't worth it. He isn't the right guy for you and that person that you are meant to be with is somewhere out there but you just haven't met him yet. So just forget about him and don't let that one guy ruin your life. There are plenty of other guys that are way better than him. You should go out and have fun and do something that you enjoy the most. Or if you don't wanna go out or you can't watch some t.v.,listen to music or write out all of your feelings in a journal to let it all out and you may feel better. Remember this, mostly 90 percent of guys are jerks and only 10 percent of guys are sweet. ♥ Peachgirly
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Ok, This sorta thing happened with one of my guy best friends. Don't worry about it! There IS someone out there that is just right for you! If you really loved him then you have to except the fact that you weren't the perfect person for him and you should get over it! Just live life single for a while and see what happens! Good Luck! Please rate!
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well i dont know if this one is a joke or not but ill answer it. well first off dont kill yourself over it its just a guy and you know what..youll find another one who is better then him and as for your friend if she is really your friend and you tell her how you fell she will not go out with him. if she does you need to find some new friends too.
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i was in the exact situation about two months ago.
i was told that i was a burden...but...that's me. this question is about you.
at first you will want him back. he will be all that you think about, talk about. everything that you see will remind you of him. it is hard the first couple of weeks, but then you realize that even though you loved him, and he was a big part of your life...life without him may be better. you'll still be mad at him when you see him, you still may secretly want him back for a long time, but over time...that desire will fade.
and myabe if you're lucky, and the guy that you were dating is somewhat decent, he will come back and say he was sorry for what he said and he'll want to be friends.
i know what i am saying seems like a lot of bullshit right now, but after a while...you'll understand exactly what i am saying.
i hope that you get over him, he had no right to say that to you, and remember that despite what he did to you there are other fish in the sea.
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OK GET A HOLD OF YOUR SELF GIRL!
think in other perspective.
do you REALLY want him or do you feel you need him because you dont have other guy yet?
if he treats you like that you DONT need him.
its called a SELF RESPECT!
Trust me, if you have fun in your life, you dont need a guy like that.
so think about it. and its good that you guys are not going out, because if you are free, then other guy who CARES FOR YOU AND HAVE RESPECT! will like you and you will be happier then ever!
so please think about in that way.
and if you want to make him jealous? but PLEASE dont try to get him back.
then have fun around him. i mean go out with new guys BUT ! dont use a guy to make him jealous on purpose. well i am not making much sense but
what i mean is... you dont have to be obvious about that you are having fun. just dont mind that your ex is around. if you are having fun, he will notice it and feel like a biggest loser
but dont go out with a guy you dont like and stuff. that is major turn off and that rumor will go around the guys...
so i hope i helpd you and hope things works out =)
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He actually told you that?? How rude...Well, honestly I know it must be so hard, but trust me you will get over him. Just look beyond him. He clearly isn't good for you! You sound like a caring sweet person and he isn't ready to handle that. Just try to find other people because there is someone out there perfect for you and he is not that person.
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aww honey =(
I know this can be REALLY tough.
and I know you don't want to hear "just move on" because I know it def. is easier said than done. But he sounds like a huge asshole so maybe you should try to make him jealous by talking to HIS friend ;) and acting like you're interested. sometimes playing hard to get will get him crawling back to you fast. And if that doesn't work you can go out and try to meet new guys =D there is alot of guys out there sweetie!
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Haha. Annoying and a bad girlfriend? That totally sucks.
I recommend a frim kick in the nuts will talk some sense into him.
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I was in this situation recently. He was the guy that i would have done anything to be wtih and thought that he was the one. However, he told me that i was no longer what he wanted. and i was crushed. Not to bring you down, but it took me around 5 months to fully get over him. I found that it helps alot to coninue to know that it is his loss. And if he would act this way towards you, he obviously doesn't diserve to be wtih you. Listen to encouraging songs and talk to your friends. They help so much and mine pretty much got me through the whole thing. Also, don't be afraid to date otehr guys. Be open minded about this and look at it as a way to improve life. If it is meant to be, he will realize what he lost and come back. I hope i helped!
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Aww. That was a pretty harsh thing for someone to say, but don't let it get to you! You may love him, or have loved him, but a guy like that doesn't deserve the love you want to give him. Guys can be so heartless to us sometimes. But those are the times we really have to stay on our feet and show them that they can't ruin our lives like that. You should never let a guy talk to you like that. There are so many more fish in the sea. The small one you catch may be cute, but its not enough to feed you. (sorry for the extremly cheesey metaphore, its the only one i could think of!) You gotta hang in there and wait for your 'perfect' guy to come and sweep you off your feet. You should never underestimate the power of love. You can find it anywhere, and everywhere. And I believe that everyone finds love. The people who don't are the ones who don't put in the effort to find it.
Hope I helped you a bit. So sorry if I didn't!
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heyy .. okay DO NOT kill yourself or hurt yourself 1st it solves nothing a perfect example is this quote i found for youur problem : -->>
&& as the blood ran from her veins
she realized he wasnât worth the
. xX p a i n Xx .
okay just think about it after he called you all those hurtful things you really want him back? tehre are better people out tehre for ou and your dont deserve him or his shit he is putting you through read this quote -->>
" yeah,there will be people in your lives that will play games with your head, they will say one thing & then do something completely different that makes you change your mind on everything you ever thought of them. Sometimes you feel so alone even when your surrounded by people, deep inside you feel hurt but can't describe the pain.. the ones who really do care about you will show it. Don't assume they care, if they do things to show it then they proved they do. Don't tollerate things people do or say to you that you know you don't deserve. Lifes too short to put up with peoples bullshit basically"
that is so truew for you and everyone so just basically dont put up with him and just find a better man then him have a guy friend indrouce you to some new boys
hope i helped
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This will take time, for one. You need to keep yourself busy. And keep friends around. Talk to people you trust.
Also, My AIM is c0lorlessgreen. If you want, you can IM me.
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Hey,
unfortunatly, there isnt much you can do to get over a guy :( except for loving them until another guy comes along. The most you can do is take your mind off him, listen to music, watch t.v., go out with friends, and ect. Your friends shouldnt remind you of him otherwise they arent really good friends.
♥ Michelle
good luck <33
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