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Alright so there is this guy. And I went out with him once already but it ended after a short time. It was probably the best few days of my life, though. He was so sweet and funny and we had everything in common. I couldn't have asked for anything else. When we broke up i was super sad. And this was like a while ago! I still can't stop thinking about him. It makes me crazy.
I still talk to him, but barely. I knew, even when I went out with him, that he's the kinna guy why goes from girl to girl to girl after only weeks. And even though he's like that, I feel like we're perfect for eachother but he doesn't know it. I don't think I would feel this way if I didn't think we should be together.
The thing is, right now he likes my friend, and i don't even know if he thinks of me at all. It really hurts. I know I shouldn't be so crazy about a guy like this... but I guess i'm "stuck" over him. It's like he's the only thing that would make me truly happy. And I feel like if i try to tell him i'll look like a complete idiot. We already broke up once, I mean, he'd think I was crazy. I just... need him. Man...
I'm sooo stuck on this one. Please help.
Thank you.
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Hey there. Have you heard of the song "Inner Strength" by Hilary Duff? Well, one of the lines of that song say "...You don't need a man to make things fair, 'cause more than likely he won't be there...". If he made you sad, then why do you still think that he'll make you happy again? If he's the kinda guy who goes from girl to girl, then he's not worth your time. He's not worth anyone's time. It might be hard for you to get over the situation, but know that once he made you sad, he'll be there to do it again.
I hope this helps.
Kay.
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Don't woRRie about looking like an idiot - chances aRe all of youR life you will look like an idiot - most people do, and theRe's nothing wRong with that. ;)
WoRRie about doing what makes you HAPPY!! Honestly, I believe telling him how you feel.. won't make you look like an idiot, so don't woRRie about it. It's not silly, and you can't stop youR feelings anyhow.
OR think about it this way: wouldn't you RatheR Risk looking like an 'idiot' if it accomplishes, oR even stands a CHANCE at accomplishing, something you appaRently want IMMENSLY??? PeRsonally, if I weRe in youR shoes, I'd like to Relief myself, and tell what I'm feeling.
Honestly, this question Really touched me. I can tell you Really caRe foR this guy, so I think you should just flat out tell him how you feel. Just set aside youR feaRs, and go foR it! Also, I think that if you weRe to bReak the ice and tell him you like him fiRst... you'Re wayyy moRe likely to get an honest Response foR him. You can do this; I have complete faith in you, and I think you should as well. :)
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well girl i have the same problem i like this boy josh he is so hot i went through every thing you went through its hard to face the facts but you never know he might still like you he might be hangin out with your friend to find out more about you ask him if you guyz can hang out more
Good luck
Send me feed back bout what happend bye:-)
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He sounds like a man whore.
you don't need guys like this in your life.
I know it hurts but I don't think you should go back to him. Maybe flirt with his friend a little to make him jealous..or tell him you really like another guy and tell him all about it! those kind of things will probably drive him crazy! But what could happen if you go back with him is, he could pressure you into sex, and you could do it, and then he could break up with you again. then you'll feel 10 x more crushed! especially if you were a virgin. Well hope i helped out! you'll find a boy who appreciates you =D
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It seems that this guy likes the thrill of the chase. He gets a girl all loved up and then gets bored and moves on, but although he has moved on you haven't. You should think whether this guy is worth fretting over and meanwhile tell him how you feel and the two of you get your feelings' going. If he knows how you feel he might start giving you the answers you desire.
Hope this helped,
Mayhem
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