I love to watch scary movies. My question is, how do you go to sleep after watching one? I just finished watching a REALLY scary movie and I'm really scared! How do I go to sleep without thoughts of the movie?
Maybe try watching it in the daytime instead..
♥Dez
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how can i make myself seem shorter?
I think big baggy clothing makes people look a bit shorter && maybe the clothing bein dark colors..
Nothing really can make people appear shorter..
♥Dez
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So I don't usually get bad cramps, but yesterday and today I feel like someone it stabbing me in the uterus. Mydol doesn't work. Anything I can do? I already know the whole exersizing helps, I did last night and it didnt help. THANK YOU!
Continue to work out..
Heating pads,Hot baths [Which i don`t really suggest unless you haven`t started yet],Take something stronger like tylenol && if you feel okay with it take like three..
♥Dez
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i was just wondering how many times a day should you use proactiv? im not sure if its one or two. and please dont tell me that i should stop using proactiv cause i want to.
I would think twice a day..
Once in the morning && once before bed or at night..
Then when your skin cleard up you probably could go to once a day..♥Dez
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how do you put on eyeliner perfectly on the top?
You mean above the eyelashes on top??
Well it is difficult the first few times..
This is what i found to help me..I sharpen the eyeliner real thin or buy like thin eyeliner sticks..
Slant your eye over so its streched out [like asian eyes]&& then go along that real slow && gently..Take your time..
It will defiantly take time && practice
Hope i helped..♥Dez
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where can you get those cute sweatpants that say "pink" on the butt? like i heard you can get them at victorias secret but idk. thanks and i rate!
Yeah you`ve heard right..
You get them at Victoria`s Secret.. [Aren`t they cute]
♥Dez
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okay so everyone at school calls me a slut n even my friends. like i no there jsut kidding and all but it really bugs me and i want it to stop. ive had sex with 4 people.. is it THAT slutty? im 15. i dont no wat to do i just wish it never happend. i just want to earn respect from my friends and clear my bad reputation. ]
any ideas?? it would be greatly appreciated
Well having sex with four guys is your business && not my business or anybody else`s but if the guys talk or if you talk about it then you will probably get labeled a slut..
Maybe keep your business more down low && have more standards with guys sweetie..
Your very young still && you don`t want a bad rep forever..
♥Dez
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Ok to put it straightfoward.. my boyfriend won't make out with me. We've talked about. And I mean we've been going out for a few months so I think we should.
How can I just like getting it stated with him. I'm used to the guys starting it with me.
Help!!
Sounds like he is nervous which is normal especially for his first kiss with a new person or first kiss period..
i know you probably want him to make the move on doing it but how about you do it..
Make the move or discuss it some more && ask why he won`t make the move..maybe he needs more time && isn`t ready..
♥Dez
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me and my boyfriend have had sex and he cummed inside of me on accident...and i have missed my period it has been couple days later and still dont have it im scared i might be pregant but I CANNOT tell my parents so i have no clue if i am or not but since i have missed my period im scared i have...is it true you can have late periods just by having sex...because we are not forsure he really did cum but to me it felt like it but not for sure..so i dont kno what to do or how to tell i have no symptons except missed period and we are trying to get a pregnancy test but w are trying to get money so what can i do to tell if i am pregant...or can u juss get late periods by having sex?
Yes having sex can delay your period but not all the time..
You can go to planned parenthood for a free pregnancy test..&& they`ll also help you by giving you condoms && possibly some birth control..
You do not need a parent to go there..
Also if this happens again you can get the Day After Pill..Which pervents you from getting pregnant..
♥Dez
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how do you apply eyeliner (black) on the lower eyelid. like not overdoing it, but you know sexy enough. haha jk. but you know what i mean -- also what kind of eyeliner is best? thanks in advance
I personally think Avon`s eyeliner is some good stuff or Maybellie..
You just apply it to the white line above your eyelashes..Do it slowly && gently take your time..
Practicing is something alot of girls have to do and eventually you`ll get the hang of it..
♥Dez
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I think that I might be bi.. But I dont want to be! what do I do?
I am female by the way
thanks..
Well you didn`t mention your age..I`m sure if your young you are going to be confused about this..Alot of teenagers are confused about this and experiment with the same sex..But that doesn`t mean your bisexual..Since you don`t want to be bisexual then experimenting isn`t going to help you figure this out..So i suggest keep going with the oppisite sex and try to ignore the same sex..
You can try talking to lie a parent about this or possibly try therapy but your probably not comfortable doing that..
♥Dez
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5's all around
i love the way you look at me baby...
its like an R&B song and a girl and a boy sing it....ill rate 5's since i dont know alot
I think its the Ashanti and Ja Rule song Mesmerize..
If you have more lyrics then i`d be able to help more..
♥dez
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does size really matter to girls?
To some girls yes it can..But it really shouldn`t especially if they like/love this guy.. If all the female wants is sex then yes the size is most likely going to matter..But if she cares or loves the guy she most likely isn`t going to care what size the guys penis is..
♥Dez
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If a white person called a black person a "nigga" on the computer, is this some sort of discrimination, could that person get in any kind of trouble or anything like that?
Thank you.
No i don`t think you can get in trouble for it..
People call people bitches && stuff but don`t get in any kind of trouble for it..
I think that its wrong to use that word tho..
♥Dez
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Hey I need advice asap! 18 female. I am currently about 2-4 days late on my period. Also i usually start my period before my best friend and she is already started. So here is the deal. My boyfriend and i fooled around, with him inside me...but he didn't cum inside me and he was inside me for about 2 mins at themost. What are my chances of being pregnant . i am so worried and paranoid.
Please help
There still is a chance of getting pregnant even if he was inside of you for 2 mintues..
Guys pre-cum && there is a chance of there being semen in the pre-cum which means there is a chance of pregnancy..
Take a pregnancy test to make sure..
[Best of luck] ♥Dez
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I have a boyfriend who I have been with for about a month and a half. He's only a year younger than me but since my birthday is at the start of the month (JAN 06) and his is at the end (NOV 24)it sounds like a bigger age gap (I'm 17 and he's still 15) I really love him and I know he cares about me. But theres this voice in the back of my head telling me its all wrong. Please help me I don't know what to do.
PS I rate really high
Hey i have the same thing going on with age with my boyfriend..Not that big of a gap i guess..
I`m 17 [As of Feb] My boyfriend 15 [16 in april]
Alot of people say i go with a little boy and stuff..
I`ve never let it bother me because i do love him && what people say isn`t going to interfer with our relationship..
Ignore what people say && ignore what the back of your mid says because there is nothinr wrong with it..AGe is just a number && if you really like/Love him then keep the relationship strong..
I`ve kept mine strong for almost 2 years..♥Dez
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my boyfriend told me he has a
crush on another girl,
and i don't know what to do.
he says he loves me and wants to be with me,
and that he just wanted to be honest with me.
but now i feel as though i'm going
to be paranoid all the time.
i dont like feeling like this;
but i can't leave him.
i love him too much..
and today he spent all morning with me,
telling me how he doesnt want this to
interfear with our relationship.
he said it was weighing him down
and that he needed to get it off his chest;
but now that it's off of HIS.
it's not been put onto MINE.
what should i do?
-L
i can`t see how this had to hurt you in some way..
But honestly i do think he does want to be with you sweetie and does love you..
Sometimes things bother people and to mention it to the person they should makes them feel better..
I don`t think he ment to hurt you and put this on you..
I would just try to live day by day and try not think about it.. Think positive and defiantly don`t worry about something happening to you and him..
He said he doesn`t want this to intefer with you relationship so i think trust and believe in him..
♥Dez
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Okay i have got stetch marks all over my upper thighs, hips and bottom. i have been using palmers coco butter everyday since january and still have seen no change/improvement
so does it really work?
or is there anything else i could use to help fade them a little?
i know you cant get rid of them completely
Yes!! it does work..
It does take a bit of time tho..
I know it sucks but continue to do what your doing and if you don`t see a change before summer then i`d go to like walmart or something to look for something for stretch marks or you can do it now..
But i`ve always known it to work..
♥Dez
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16/f.im getting my braces off in a couple weeks. anything i should expect or be prepared for?
-It doesn`t hurt coming off..
-Expect to feel better about yourself
-Expect a B*E*A*U*T*I*F*U*L smile!!
♥Dez
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just gonna come out wit the question i wanna kno. when using a tampon do you use the first whole or 2nd whole? sorry im a moron :-( but im going to FL and i dont wanna wear pads the whole time im 15 so yah know i think im old enough haha.
but please answer..
i suggest reading the directions on the box to help you..
Theres only one hole the blood comes out of sweetie..
♥Dez
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