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Question Posted Friday March 10 2006, 4:50 pm

Ok to put it straightfoward.. my boyfriend won't make out with me. We've talked about. And I mean we've been going out for a few months so I think we should.

How can I just like getting it stated with him. I'm used to the guys starting it with me.

Help!!


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GirlOfEmotions answered Sunday March 12 2006, 2:58 am:
Yeah it's kind of awkward for him not to approach you first. but it may be because he hasn't kissed a girl before and he's not quite sure on how to do it. since you guys have talked about it before, he knows your experienced with the whole make out process and is expecting you to go for it. hope it works out (;

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MaNdASzHElP247 answered Friday March 10 2006, 7:32 pm:
is he like afraid to or something? Thats so crazy. Guys usually cant wait for any of that stuff to happen. But hes one of the few i guess whos nervous maybe. Has he ever made out with a girl at all? Hm well maybe you should make the first move i guess? Of you've kissed him just try to keep going. Good luck with that one (:

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Teza answered Friday March 10 2006, 6:12 pm:
Why won't he kiss you? Most guys are usually nervous and if it's his first kiss, then of course he is nervous. Guys don't like to admit that they never kissed someone before so just don't pressure him into it because it will make him feel bad. Anyways, give it some time and let him feel comftrable around you and then see if he will make the first move and if not then you should defenetly go for it.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday March 10 2006, 6:08 pm:
Sounds like he is nervous which is normal especially for his first kiss with a new person or first kiss period..

i know you probably want him to make the move on doing it but how about you do it..

Make the move or discuss it some more && ask why he won`t make the move..maybe he needs more time && isn`t ready..

♥Dez

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chris'sbabygurl answered Friday March 10 2006, 5:59 pm:
mabey he is just scared...like afraid to do something really embaresing like bite your lip or something!!! so i think you should take the first step and see wat he does...well i hope i helped atleast a little bit

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LoViNu2mOuCh answered Friday March 10 2006, 5:41 pm:
Well if he doesn't want to DON'T make him, because you should respect his decision.

But if he wants to and just won't make the first move, then one time when you are alone you start it. He is probably just nervous.

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here2help1143 answered Friday March 10 2006, 5:36 pm:
Ok,of course try not to prassure him,but when you 2 are alone,why not try making the first move,you never know,he may want to kiss you,but is too shy to make the first move,and once you start it,he'll realize that it's not so bad and than you can kiss him more,my friend's have tried this with their boyfriends,and it works,they'll get used to it than everything will be fine from there,^_^, hope this helps!

Jasmine,

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Alpha345 answered Friday March 10 2006, 5:30 pm:
How about you leave it be? He doesn't want to do it, so don't pressure him into it. Simple as that.

What you think you should do, and what he thinks you should do, are gonna be 2 different things, so you should realize that and just give it time.

-Ryan

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