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Question Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 8:31 pm

I think that I might be bi.. But I dont want to be! what do I do?

I am female by the way


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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday March 10 2006, 1:13 pm:
Well you didn`t mention your age..I`m sure if your young you are going to be confused about this..Alot of teenagers are confused about this and experiment with the same sex..But that doesn`t mean your bisexual..Since you don`t want to be bisexual then experimenting isn`t going to help you figure this out..So i suggest keep going with the oppisite sex and try to ignore the same sex..

You can try talking to lie a parent about this or possibly try therapy but your probably not comfortable doing that..


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alisonmarie answered Friday March 10 2006, 11:38 am:
You could be straight, gay, or bi if you are questioning your sexuality. At the end of the day, only you know who you are attracted to.

If you are bisexual, then you simply are. It's not something you can choose not to be, just as people can't change the colour of their skin of their blood type.

While it may be scary to realize you are bisexual, just focus on being who you are. As time goes by you may start to accept yourself more, and then choose to share your sexuality with close friends who will hopefully love and support you.

We're all different, and we're all okay.

Best of luck.

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lorawhat answered Friday March 10 2006, 1:06 am:
just don`t act on it. all girls look at other girls just to see their "competition." its normal to think "oh shes hot" or something like that. it doesn`t mean you`re bi. and even if you are bi, stick to guys. if you don`t let yourself be with a girl, then technically you`re not bi.

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Igotamonopoly answered Thursday March 9 2006, 11:25 pm:
Most people go through a phase when they aren't sure of their sexuality.

In a year, if you still feel this way, then you are probably bi, but even then it's not for sure.

Being bi isn't bad.

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Jake1822 answered Thursday March 9 2006, 11:00 pm:
Everyone expieriments. It could have been just a one time thing. You see, i've always known i liked if you just started to have these feelings then don't rush it. You don't have to put a label on yourself yet.
Do you feel sexually attracted to girls?
What is important is that you explore your sexuality in a way that makes you feel comfortable.
I mean if you don't want to be then do what makes you happy.
Being bi isn't a bad thing lol

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Solemnstar answered Thursday March 9 2006, 10:11 pm:
k, um is it bad to be bi?that has little to do with my awnser i was just wordring if thats what you thought.

now then, to refuse what yo are and are not is a weakness, you will become dependant on the lie you said to yourself, and will erode and become depressed. you need to be honest with yourself. as for you sexuality.umm does it matter NO
just accept what you may or may not be.

i dont know this person but i hate people who say they are soemthing and hate it....

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jj_u_i_c_y answered Thursday March 9 2006, 10:04 pm:
Answer these questions:

do you fantisize about girls?
do you like looking at girls in locker rooms, schoo, pictures, ect?
when and if you masterbate do you think of girls?

i got those off a site. if you dont want to be bi, bi means bisexual meaning you also like guys and girls so you can always be with a guy. you may like thinking of girls but not like being with a girl and doing things with girls, there is a difference.

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LoViNu2mOuCh answered Thursday March 9 2006, 9:24 pm:
I agree with the person below me. You are probably just curious, and trying to find yourself. I went throught that stage, I though wow..maybe I am bi, but then I realized it was just curiosity.

If you really are bi, then you do not have to tell anyone, because being bi means you like both sexes so you can just date guys.

But before you start saying you are bi, experiment a little, and just try and figure things out!

I hope everything goes well!

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Nallie answered Thursday March 9 2006, 9:15 pm:
I just want to say that some people think it is natural to be attracted to others of the same sex. It doesn't necessarily mean that you are bi. It just means that you are searching for your own identity and it happens to people who are straight. I might be bashed for saying this, but I don't believe someone who is gay really has a choice, but someone who is bi does.

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