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well theres this kid that liked me for a couple months, and i never really liked him back until he started liking this other girl and it got me real jealous, does this mean i like him or what. everytime i see them together i just don't know what to do.. its really upsetting me and i really don't know what i`m asking but do u have any advice...plz

your only jelous cause your not getting his attention anymore..that happend to me but i thought about it..and i was like "why am i getting mad i dont like him" so i just congradulated him and stuff! try looking for someone else it will take your mind off him..i really dont think you like him its just that his attention is gone and now your bummed! haha but yea..try wat i said cause that happend to me too!

michelle♥

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i need a summer job but im only 13 and u cant get hired without being 16 or older.does anyone have any idea of any place who will hire someone under 16?

you can babysit! or you need to get a work permit from your school then just go places to see who will higher a 13 year old for littler pay then normal..try a pizza place or something like that. make sure you dont forget the work permit though! good luck

michelle♥

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ok im going 2 a new school and i hav a new friend.. she and i both like the same guy... and unfortunately he won't tell ne 1 who he likes at the moment... and he never tells ne 1 if its the newest person i school.... and im not sure if he likes me... but my friend says he does.... she isn't mad at me... but i dont' want 2 her 2 no that i like him.... what should i do 2 find out if he likes me? should i ask him myself?

RATING!

Thanx, Hope (lil hil)

well you need to confess to your friend that you like him as soon as possible cause if everyone finds out he does like you and then you two go out your friend will think you just want to be with him cause he likes you. so tell her and confess that youve liked him for a while...she might already think that your just liking him cause he likes you since you waited to long to tell her but its ok! and also tell him you like him...then if he does like you..it will make it easyer for him to tell you he likes you knowing that you like him back! good luck hun

michelle♥

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my hair is naturally black and i want to dye it brown so what kind of product would be good to use for my hair thats permanent ?

get it profecionally done...when you do it out of the box it could turn your hair the wrong color...and a plus about getting it done...you dont have to go threw the hassle of dying it and getting color everywhere! have fun :o]

michelle♥

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ok so i like this boy, right? and he is really hot and sweet and i talk to him sometimes in spanish class. i really wish i could speed up the process of becoming pals...friends...and hopefully bf/gf. I dont want to seem to desperate or weird during this process. Do you have any tips to catch his eye or say to him?
thanks

aw your titles cute haha but uhm..just flirt ALOT like does he sit behind you in spanish? if he does..pretend to strech and reach your arms back towards him and kind of look back at him as you do this...uhm..take his pencil and use the eraser or something...ooor if hes wearing a hat take it and put it on your head..those are some ways to flirt with him..just keep flirting and talking..also ask him for his sweatshirt if you dont have one..say your cold!! good luck n have fun! ;o]

michelle♥

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i want to no were you get shirts that have the cookies monster on it,and on the butt it says yummy! Or something like, care bears but its totally hott! anyone no any places? [[ps--i dont have any mounds yet,so i need smaller sizes,]]

go to hottopic!! they have cookie monster shirts and care bear shirts!

http://www.hottopic.com is the site!

also otehr stores where you can find those things are:

mervins
target
wal-mart
ross
marshalls!!

try those places!! good luck!

michlle♥

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I have this friend and he is really nice and i'm not sure if i like him or not~well i really wanna know if he likes me becasue he said he wants to like hook up with me but i dont know if its because he likes me or just awnts to.... and my friends are telling me he's just a rebound boy of a relationship i've just been through and i'm not sure what to think... what should i do about him???? hook up? ask out? flirt?? please help!!!!

~alejandra~

i think you should listen to your friends..or ask one of his friends if he likes you...but i wouldnt do anything with him right away..see what happens after a while and if he still wants to hook up with you after like...a week..then i think he might like you..haha but just wait and see what happens! sorry i didnt really help...

michelle♥

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Just to give you the picture. I like this guy that is pretty much in shape and I think that he is funny and in general a really nice and polite gentleman. But I don't know if he likes me, at first I did, but now I'm doubting it. He used to stare at me like all the time, but now I think that it is just wierd. Because whenever one of us are looking around we almost always lock eyes. His sister is one of my good friends also and she invited me to go to church with her this weekend. I'm trying to get to know him more, but it is just hard for me. How can I work up the courage to talk to him? How can I find out if he likes me back? If he doesn't do you think he will one day? How do I become one of his good friends first? I've heard him talk to some people and we happend to have a lot of things in common. He's a sophmore and I'm a freshman and I've never had a BF, so I don't know what to do. This is the first time that I really liked someone that might like me back. I just don't want to be scared from this experience, I want it to be a happy one!! :)
Thanks in advance.

well going to church with them is a good opertunity to talk to him! so when you guys go smile at him and whenever you guys make eye contact smile or something..show him your interested..he most likly doesnt know you like them cause guys are cluless when it comes to that stuff..you have to actually tell them..trust me ive been in that type of situation with my friend and myself before haha..so just flirt a little..compliment him on something...a way to find out if he likes you is ask his sister!! thats perfect! haha so try what i said!! have fun! ;o]

michelle♥

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Okay well, when i woke up this morning, i went to brush my teeth and like the bottom part of the 4 front ones were all like whiteish and ugly and looked gross. Any ideas how this could have happend? How do you get rid of it in 20 minutes? HELP ASAP!!

its just plaque...brush your teeth really good it will come off...did you brush your teeth the night before? if not thats why its so bad..if you did you probibly didnt brush your teeth good enough! so just brush your teeth real good and it will come off..

michelle♥

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Okay my period has been going on for 1 month and i don't know what to do. It this normal or is something wrong? i don't feel comterbal to talk to my mom about this only advice colums and my friend. i need help FAST!!!!! Because me my friend won a trip to hawaii and we leave in 1 week. F/13 p.s. if it helps this is my second period.

you really need to go to the gynocologist...cause thats not normal at all...just tell your mom "mom ive been on my period for a week and i think i should go to the doctor cause its not normal" just say that..she has her period too so dont be embarresd to talk to her about it..but get into the doctor asap so you can go to hawaii!! good luck!

michelle♥

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Hi all I need help My wife and I have been married for 28 years have a good relationship but we have a few problems. one is when I play softball in the summer she does not like it when all the guys get together and drink beer or go back to the bar for a beer, I have to tell you that I am not that fond of beer but it is fun to get together after, I find myself just leaving after the game just to avoid a fight with her is it a major thing that I would like to stay for a quick beer and just hang around I personally do not see anything wrong but she hates it.. what should I do thanks...

ahh thats messed up..cause if she does it to thats not fair to you..so when she says you cant go out tell her she cant go out either..cause thats not fair..if you dont drink i dont see what the problem is? unless shes insecure and thinks your going to pick up some chick but i doubt that..it could happen though! but just tell her if you cant go out she cant either!! see what she says..sorry i didnt really help..

michelle♥

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SRY THIS IS LONG ILL RATE A 5 TO ANY1 WHO ANSWERS IT!!!

okay..im really confused and have no idea what to do...im stuck between 2 guys...the one guy i went out with for about 8 months and we recently broke up about a month and a half ago...well all of a sudden after a month of not talking to me he calls me and says he misses me and wants to get back together with me...the other guy i went out with about a year and a half ago...we have been good friends ever since we broke up...and he recently had a gf but broke up with her bc he liked me and wants to go out with me...i dont know what to do bc i like both of them sooo much and it's so hard...i thought it was going to b easy bc the one guy i thought we werent going to talk to again...SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!!

hmm..thats hard! well if the guy broke up with his g/f to be with you that means he REALLY likes you...i dont know about the other one..but what one do you have more feelings for? what one did you like being with more?? try listing what you like about each guy and see who has more..just follow your heart and who you think you should be with...or you could just stay friends! :o/ sorry i didnt really help..

michelle♥

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hi
i think i might have mild depression.
i have bn reading about it on the web and most of the symptons match up to wat im feeling so does this mean im depressed?
i just feel so lonely n isolated in my own little world and i cut my self sum times.. not so it bleeds though just enuf to make the pain disapear.
can some one please tell me wat to do because i dont want any one to know, especially my family because i dont exactly get on with them. my friends wont help either..
sorry its long.. i rate 5's

well you cant cure depression unless you talk to someone...dont cut your self please?? its the worst thing you can do..your going to start cutting deeper and deeper if you keep doing it and dont do something about your depression... you can go to the counciler at school and he/she will keep everything confidential..they wont tell your parents if you tell them not to...just go to the counciler!! but if you dont want to DONT CUT!! its baadd... sorry i didnt really help...

michelle♥

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Here in the past 2 months one of my friends mother died. And as you know. Sunday was mothers day. and it was just so bad. and she kept wanting to talk to me about it. and i wanted to talk to her about it. but i didn't know what to say! And she still talks about it every day. and she carries her mom's picture around. and i think this is just making it worse. but i want to talk to her about her mother. and i want to be able to comfort her. but i don't know what to do or say. I've told her that any time she needs a mother figure. that my mom is always avalible. but she just says it's not the same. and i somewhat understand. but i just don't know what to do. any suggestions?

well...everyone has their own way of mourning and her carrying her moms picture might be her way...so dont tell her its not good cause it is for her..and when she does talk to you just be there!! you cant really plan out what your going to say in this situation..and dont push her to talk to you..just wait untill she comes to you! good luck!!

michelle♥

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hello everyone i am a 13 year old girl. i want to start buying some clothes from aeropostle and hollister. but the problem is i am very small. i weigh only 85 pounds. the smalls are aeropostle and hollister are too big. is there is a smaller size at those two stores? if so please tell me what size

i rate high

0 is the smallest size at those stores!! Unless they make childrens sizes but i doubt it! Try a 0 if you already havnt! sorry i didnt really help hun :o/...

michelle♥

uhm then you shoulda said shirts..im not psychic at least i helped..dont ask questions without saying the full thing and then go rate someone a 1..it makes you sound stupid and bitchy..:o]

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hey all how will i know if my finger is broken likes what kind of signs should i chceck for.

if your finger is::

-swollen
-purple or discolerd like yellow, greenish, or blueish
-hurting when you move it
-not shaped normally

those are some signs!!

michelle♥

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Well i just got a new computer (sorta) and my homepage of my internet..www.msn.com..the words are really small...does anyone know how to make the words bigger? thanks ill rate a 5 to anyone who can help!

right click on your background on your computer...then click settings when the box pops up and the little bar that says "screen resolution" put it how you want it..less makes the screen & font of things bigger...or you could try what everyone else is saying but that didnt work for me..what i said works the best! hope i helped!

michelle♥

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There is this guy that I like and the only time I see him is either on the way to or from school. And on both trips he is always talking to his friends that I talk to somewhat. I am a freshman and he's a sophmore. If that really matters or anything. I don't want to be like interupting his conversation or anything. So how can I talk to him!! Plus whenever there is a chance to say something, I don't know what to say. Some of your advice is easier said than done, so please try to keep them easy for me!! lol. But seriously, I just want to get to know him and I want to become his friend. I also have some friends on the inside that know him. They want to get involved too so that he knows that I do exist and that I so want to talk to him. I just want him to see that I'm a nice person. So....
What should I do?!
Please help!

when he and your friends are talking..go up and talk to your friends and be like "hey guys!"! then like look at him smile and say hi to him too...trust me it worked for me! :o] i did that then started talking to my friends somemore and the next day me and him started talking!! just try what i said it should work! and take it slowly like the 2nd day go up to your friends again and start talkin again and get into their conversation...good luck babe!

michelle♥

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(16/f)
well, i recently broke up with my boyfriend. before we broke up, we told each other that even if we did brake up, we still wanted to be friends. it has been almost a week since we broke up and the jerk won't even talk to me. i have tried talking to him, being as nice as i possibly can under the circumstances. what is up with this? is he taking time and wasting away what we could have or does he not want anything to do with me? thanks in advance.

signed
confused & ready to kill the dude

hes probibly still hurt about what happend and cant face you cause it hurts to much...so just give it time..he'll talk to you sooner or later..if he doesnt try talking to him or call him..or ask one of his friends whats wrong...but i think hes just trying to get over the break up! good luck!!

michelle♥

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