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okay..im really confused and have no idea what to do...im stuck between 2 guys...the one guy i went out with for about 8 months and we recently broke up about a month and a half ago...well all of a sudden after a month of not talking to me he calls me and says he misses me and wants to get back together with me...the other guy i went out with about a year and a half ago...we have been good friends ever since we broke up...and he recently had a gf but broke up with her bc he liked me and wants to go out with me...i dont know what to do bc i like both of them sooo much and it's so hard...i thought it was going to b easy bc the one guy i thought we werent going to talk to again...SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!!
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Hey hunn, don't worry, everyone goes throught these type of love problems. :) Well i went out with a boy for 8 months and we broke up, and yeah we both ended up calling eachother back.. we missed eachother- but thats just what happens. You can't expect to go out with someone for so long and get so attched, and then just forget about them. And the other boy sounds like a really good friend. He also went out with anyother girl and when they break up, the boy usually goes back to the girl before.. because he misses her also. But i understand that you can't pick which one but all you need to do is play it smart- think about going out with them both, and kissing them and being close to him. Then hangout with them both at different times and see how you are with him. Go with your heart, but also mind too becuase you don't want to get hurt. When you pick one of them (if you do) then have a talk with the otehr one becuase tehre going to want to know what happened, and just be honest. Goodluck with everything, let me know what happens please! hope i helped
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i think that the guy who has been your friend for a really long time really cares about yuo if he cares to talk about you and if someone just suddenly comes to you and sys i like you theres probably some story behind it. you should ask the guy whats up what happened this past month? he probably wont have a good answer. the guy who has been talking to you seems loyal and you should talk to more maybe its tru love!!!!
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hmm..thats hard! well if the guy broke up with his g/f to be with you that means he REALLY likes you...i dont know about the other one..but what one do you have more feelings for? what one did you like being with more?? try listing what you like about each guy and see who has more..just follow your heart and who you think you should be with...or you could just stay friends! :o/ sorry i didnt really help..
michelle♥
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I think you should go out with the one that you dated a year and a half ago. I think it's weird that all of a sudden he's like oh come back to me, ya know? The other guy stayed friends with you AND broke up with his girlfriend for you. Hope this helps you.. :) <3
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I think the one guy who went out with you for about 8 months sounds a little fishy. I mean he didn't talk to you for about a month and a half, then all of a sudden comes running back? I personally would be a little miffed if some guy did that to me... it just sounds so out of the blue, you know... it makes me wonder exactly WHY he came back, after all this time.
If I had to choose, I'd go with the one you dated a year and a half ago, because he at least remained friends with you... but with me and my ex-boyfriend's experience backed behind me.....
... You can't find the future in the past.
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Well obviously you like both guys and i personally think that you should get with the one you went out with a yr and a half ago. This guy seems like he still likes you if he still wanted to be friends with you and didn't just drop you like cold turkey. lol. Thats wat I think you should do. The other guy just says that he wants you again, sure thats great and all but he hasn't even tried to reaquaint himself with you. Hope I helped!
~Linda
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hi there
well this is really confusing think about when you were going out who treated you more nicer, who would be there for you in the long run, you are you mostly connescted with on a heart level, and mental level , not paying attention to how they look on the outside , because true beauty comes from within, i am sure you'll make the right choice, i'm sure this is stressing you out, first thing you need to do is to relax, calm down and find out why they want you now when you all broken up,
to be on the safe side
good luck and God bless
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well i've been in those situations plenty of times and the most i can tell you is to first take a deep breath now the 2nd thing is that remain single as long as you're not "attached" to any of them then you are free to date whom ever you want. Go on a couple of dates with one and then the other write down what you liked about each after the date and who ever has more than fairly and obviously you like ;) good luck let me know how it goes..
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oh god im going threw the same exact thing its crazy. when i read this i was liek wtf lol.
its very complicate and hard to choose. and the 2 guys i like are also very good friends. i have desided to just be friends with both guys and once in awhile i mess around with them lol.
but i have know idea what to do.
sorry i couldnt help more
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Pause for a moment and ask yourself: what do I want in a man? These can be qualities, attitude, or any other thing that you find in your "dream guy" or a guy that you prefer . Have you thought about it. Think about it for a few seconds longer. Done. Okay. Now think: who has more in common with my "dream guy" ? When you are thinking about this, you need to think which one am I the most comfortable with . Who do I feel safe around? WHICH ONE WOULDN'T USE ME AS A REBOUND WHEN THEY'RE THROUGH WITH ME? Which one can I trust ? Think about questions like this and whatever question or issue that comes to your mind afterwards, try to the best of your abilities to answer them. Once you've done that, then maybe you'll have a better clue to WHAT YOU WANT AND WHO CAN GIVE THAT TO YOU. Just think about it. And don't stress yourself. You aren't getting married honey. Hope I was some help. Have a lovely day.
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well all you need to do is to be true to yourself this about and maybe right down all the things you like about each guy and which one treats you better if that doesnt work then i think you should tel them both that you just need some time to make up you mind if you want to be with either of them again ask yourself why did you break up before and how do you no they still aint like that you might think you like both you could end up likin niether or just likin one i no its a hard decision to make and it will make you very confused and torn between the two maybe there is some things you like about one and hate about one but there are also so somethings you like about the other one and hate about him to i just think you need to think which one treats you beter and with more respect and which one you think you will be better of with...
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make a list, for each. about what you like about them and what you don't like about them. or does let your heart pick for you...<33. the other guy had a gf, and the other guiy didnt so obviously he was thinking azbout you, and for the othr guy with the gf wasnt he was ready to move on.
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eve
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