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Ok, I think we have all been here, but I've been really thinking about my past lately. Mostly my love life. My problem is this: my first girlfriend really had a vicelock on my life. We went out for a little over a year. We nearly got back together last summer, but someone I thought was a friend severly knocked that for a tailspin. Me and "C" ended on very bad terms. A nuclear bomb coulda done less damage. But I look back, and I realize, I cant escape the fact that I am NOT over her. I can't tell if I just feel guilty, cause it IS my fault, Im big enough to admit that, or if I do still care about her. I want to write her a letter to apoligize, but I wonder if it will fall on deaf ears. What should I do? (link)
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Okay I'll call you "J" :). Since I know the situation very well, I unlike everyone else that responded to this think that it would be best for you to NOT write "C". I think the only reason is just right now miss having some one to be in a relationship with so you have convinced and forced yourself to still think you have feelings for her. I really think that she has moved on and you need to also. You are now going to start a whole new adventure. So take advantage of that. I know this isn't what you want to here, but yah. Just move on. :)
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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time, and we decided that we are comfortable having sex. well, i really need help! i thot this would be an interesting experience, but he has such an odd sexuality. example: he like practically ripped off my blouse, then like snapped oppen my bra and IT REALLY HURT, then like he takes my panties off and start rubbing them on himself,then when he had enough of that, he got whipped cream and sprayed it on my pussy, then licked it off. now that whippe cream thing may turn some weird girls on, BUT NOT ME!!! i'm like what the heck???? so then i just get dressed and leave because this was ridiculous, but we're really close so we made up. but what can i do so that next time, (its proabably not going to be for awhile tho) he acts NORMAL!!! (link)
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Well, with sex, it's common for people to have their different preferences. I think that if you and your boyfriend are close and comfortable enough with each other to have sex, you should also feel okay with talking to him about what pleases you and how you want to go about doing things. I know it may be akward, but if he doesn't have a problem being with you intimately he shouldn't have a problem with this and neither should you. Just explain to him that you felt like he was going too rough and weird for your liking and since the first time y'all got to do things his way, this next time you want to do things your way. So you take charge. Show him what you like. Comprimise, in other words. In time, you'll learn what the each of you likes better and come to a happy medium. Good luck. :)
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Last night I slept over one of my best friend Maries house and we were just talking and stuff, but then we didnt even ask we just started to do sexual stuff and saying dirty stuff, kind of, like half laughing it off. Im a girl. And so we fingered eachother and rubbed eachothers boobs. It felt really good. But, I wanted a guy to be there with us more than anything. Im confused. What was last night? Am I a lesbian? Or bi? Or straight ?? Im confused. And is last night normal for 14 year old girls to do? (link)
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Hey well, you're not a freak or anything. But I wouldn't say that it is completelu normal for most 14 year old girls to do that. I mean, it happens, just not that frequently. I think more than anything last night could be considered a "curious experienment with a friend". What I mean by that is that you and your friend both probably want to do stuff with a guy but because there was no guy there and because the two of you are probably so comfortable around each other, you did it on each other instead. I don't think this necessarily means that you are bi, or lesbian. I think you were just curious. I think the reason things 'felt good' was because it's a sexual experience. I think if it's really bothering you just try talking to your friend about it and maybe mention to her some of the things I have said here. Don't let things become akward between the two of you now. And in the future, whether you find that you are bi, lesbian, or straight-it doesn't matter. You're still you! :)
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I'm a 19 year old female and If 2 people clearly love each other and want to be together, is it possible to continue a relationship if one of us is an hour away at another college? I know it's not that far, but for the lat 18 months we've never spent more than a week apart. Is it normal for one to have doubts, but the other one have some much hope for the future? (link)
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Hmm, in short, yes it is normal to have doubts. And also, yes it is very very possible to make it work. No you probably are already aware of this, but it may be very difficult for the two of you. An hour is not bad at all. I think the best thing for the two of you to do would be to sit down before you both have to go your seperate ways and tlak about the fact that this is going to be the first time the to of you were apart for so long. Also, talk about the fact that you are going to need to have complete trust and faith in each other. Promise to discuss things with another. You may even want to set aside a time for the two of you to talk to each other every night via email, IM, or phone. Also, you should each try to trade off coming to visit one another. Like I said, it won't be easy but it's very possible to do. In time the doubts will fade, you just need trust and faith. Honesty and trust will get you through this. Just communicate and everything will work out the way they need to be. :)
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yeah so im working at this soccer camp. and i was talking to one of the little campers. and she goes i just got back from vacation in houston and katy texas. i was like whoa nelly i know someone there.
your twin (link)
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OMG! Twin! That's so CRAZY! That's like a sign!! I leave for PA on the 11th! What was the little girls name, I doubt that I know her, but maybe!! -Your twin too :)
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this guy found me on myspace and said i was really cute. hes really cute too and he said he just moved to my city. and he told me where he lived by and its really close to me. well he was like can i do a mapquest? cause im not sure how close u live. i wasnt thinking and i gave him my address and stuff for mapquest. now hes always like we should hangout and stuff. and hes like just turned 18. and he always talks about how much he drinks..and smokes...and i dont know im worried. what if he like comes to my house or something?..... (link)
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Well, this kind of a dangerous situation because you really don't know who this guy is at all. Even though you may think you have seen a picture of him, he could have even lied about that. I think the best thing for you to do would be to first sever all ties with the guy. I know that on My Space you can put people on a block list. Right? So try doing that. MAYBE just this suttle adjustment will give him the hint. Also, before you do this you may want to send him a note and say something along the lines of I really don't meet people from off the internet, and my parents wouldn't like that very much either. This way you might scare him because you mentioned your parents and you told him you aren't interested. Also, if you have been talking to him on any other Instant Messaging service, block him. And lastly, if you really feel you safety is at stake, or he makes contact with you again by creating new sns and such, tell your parents. They may be angry with you for giving out that information, they may even ground you from the net, but in a worse case senario, giving them that information could save your life. :)
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Is it possible to not be able to kiss someone because their nose is "too big"? I haven't kissed anyone yet but I've heard stories of girls that's noses were "in the way" when they were trying to make out with their boyfriends. So0rry if this sounds stupid it's just, my boyfriend made a comment about mine && now I'm kind of self-counsious (sp??) about it.
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Noses come in all different shapes nad sizes; that's true. But, I seriously doubt that it can be "too big" to kiss. Yes, a nose could be a little large for someones face and be in the way slightly, but when you kiss someone you sometimes tilt your head so it wouldn't really be in the way. Even if you rammed your face straight ahead with your boyfriends and you had the biggest nose imaginable, it still wouldn't be completely disabling for the two of you to be able to kiss. I mean if that were true, what would all the people with big noses do? Another thing, the art of the kiss has more to do with lips and toungues..not noses. And also, don't let ANYONE bring you down about who you or how you look. I am sure yo are beautiful. If you want, try talking to your boyfriend and tell him that you are sure he didn't intentionly mean to, but his comment hurt your feelings. Anyways, good luck! :)
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whats a prude? is it a bad thing? (link)
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Prude is a term that usually teens give to girls and sometimes even guys who won't "put out". Or in other words, they choose not to do anything sexual. For instance, a guy may try to kiss you or do even more and you may say no and stop him. After that he might call you prude. It's not a bad thing in my opinion. I'd rather be called prude than a slut. I think a lot of people (that just want sex or sexual encounters) think it's bad because they are not getting what they want. I think if someone calls you that, it should you have good morals and stick to them. Whatever the case, it's just another label for people to put on you. Live your life how you want to. :)
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does anyone know how to get a babysitting job.
need a babysitting job.
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There are a few things you could do. You could make flyers nad post them on community/church bulleteins. You could post them on street signs..etc. Also, you could deliver them to people's mailboxes or their doors or whatever. Another thing to consider, a lot of times neighborhoods have community magazines that for free you can mail them your name/ages/services. So check in to that. If you really want to get into it, you could built your own domain and advertise it there. Just be vocal about it. Neighbors,parents friends, whatever. Take what you can get! Good luck! :)
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Ok..i was wondering..how can you make your jeans like..all ripped..instead of buying them for like 80 bucks..how can you rip them and make them look good you know.? like on the knee areas you have the white things going across and near your pocket you have a little rip..if anyone knows what to do and knows what im talking about...PLZZZZZ answer this..
oh yea..and dont tell me to go wear the jeans and jus keep on sliding on the cement with them on..
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Hey! There's a really good website that tells you step by step how to do it and everything. The site mentions that you should use a sharp pointed knife, but I also like to use a seam ripper. (You can find them in the sewing section or a fabric store) for the pockets like you are describing. You just get a part of the string and fabric and run it over it over nad over and if rips it up. But as for the whole ripped/worn look here's the website: http://wiki.ehow.com/Rip-Your-Own-Jeans
Good luck and have fun! :)
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does anyone know any cute summer quotes for my aim profile..? (link)
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Well, this one in my favorite:
-The tans will fade, but the memories will last forever
Then here are some others for you:
-I have waited all year for summer so I'm not going to waste it on the computer
-Flip flops
Belly tops
Bathing suits
Good friends
Summers here... Can you handle it?
-Tank Tops * Flip Flops
Ice Cream * Sweet Dreams
Late Nights * Water Fights
A Suntan * A Game Plan
Sleeping In * Sneaking Out
Feet in Sand * Drink in Hand
...all I want is... *Summer*
If you want some more let me know or if there's something specific you are looking for abotu summer let me know! :)
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sometimes i can not tell the difference between capital and lowercase letters,and sometime i look at words and they are backwards or flipped,also i get confused with the letters "d" and "b" or "y" and "g" or "m" and "w"
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Well, from the information given it sounds like you have something called Dyslexia. There are tons and tons of people that have this, so don't feel alone. There are some people who even read from right to left instead of left to right. The best thing for you to do is to tell your parents about this as soon as possible so they can get you tested for it for sure, and then that the necessary actions to improve your reading/writing/and comprehending skills. Dyslexia does not make you any dumber or smarter. One of my really good friends has it and she is in all AP classes. Another thing to keep in mind is that sometimes if you have been doing homework or readijng or something of that nature for a long time you get more tired which causes the dyslexia to flare up more. Now with all that said, if you tell your parents, and get tested, then there is a very slim chance that this problem may be due to an eye condition. But I really think it's Dyslexia. Best of luck. :)
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Can you fall in love with someone even though you hardly know them?? I've liked this kid for like 4 years..and i hardly know him.
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Hey, well in my opnion I personally do not think that you can love someone you hardly know because when you love a person, you love all of them and all their characteristics that you KNOW about them. I do however think that you are infatuated with this guy and liking him. Four years is a long time to like the same person and not have a real relationship with them, so there's got to be some kind of reason you've liked them for so long. I think you should try to get to know the guy better so you can really seeif you like everything you thought you did about him. This could later turn in to love maybe but the best way to find out would to be to get to know him! Don't be shy, you have nothing to lose! :)
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I masturbate sometimes...ok alot...am i considered a whore for that?? 13/f (link)
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No, in short, you are for sure not considered a whore because of that. Like 90% of people would be considered one if that were the case. I think right now you are just going through a phase because you have probably just recently started to really discover your body. At least you're not out on the streets selling yourself or going after every guy in sight. THAT would make you a whore. In time, you'll masterbate a little less. Just don't get addicted. Mmmk. :)
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i need a new screen name i like soccer but i don't want to sound to obsessed as i use it in everything else, i love adidas (same as top tho) and american eagle,my name is MAYA if that helpes at all thanks so much!!
i rate high (link)
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Here are few for you took look at:
-Sockit2u
-AEheart22
-iloveadidas
-adidasjunkee
-mayaohmy
-soccergrl26
-greenthumb
-mayaness89
-AmericanEagle11
-AEobsessed
-Soccitup
-youknowyouwanna
-ohmaya56
Those are just a few for you, if you don't like those or are looking for something different, just give me a few more specifics and I'll see what I can do. :)
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Heya,
I've looked through some of the questions for a while and finally i get to ask you one. When is eveything enough with a guy. Me and my boyfriend fight and fight but with every fight i love him even more. I grow tired of fighting with him but i can't imagine me without him! Please help me, this is driving me crazy.
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Well, it is normal for couples to fight. But to fight and fight and get nowhere with each other is very wearing on the two of you and very unhealthy. I think that after a certain point, there is an "enough" point. I def. can say I have reached that point and it's not agood thing. You don't want to end up there. I think the two of you need to learn to agree to disagree. You also need to make sure that the two of you stay in constant communication. You need to work out your fights and talk about them maturely and civily. If you feel like you love him even more after the fights I would say that it's a personal preference. Like, you get a high off fighting with him and it works for you. It may not be the same for him though. So keep that in mind. Try to talk about this and you both need to make an attempt to change for the better. :)
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me n my bofyriend want to have sex..im not exactly sure how to though..what exactly goes on? how long should we do it for? sorry this is a weird question..this is akward n i dunt want to ask my parents thanks` (link)
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Well, I've never had sex so I'm not the best person to ask for help on this but I'll try my best! But first, I want to say that you should ONLY have sex when you and your partner are both 150% sure that is what you want to do adn that you are both aware of the all the repurcussions of having sex. (Ie: Std's, Aids, Prenancy,Rumors, etc) I can't sit here and give you a step by step of how to have sex. Bascially in a nutshell, intercourse is when the guy sticks his penis into a girl's vagina. Everyone has their own stle. Some people do some foreplay first. Some like the lights off. Some like to do it in a bed. Some like to be completely naked, some don't. Sex is all a preference. Time is to each their own. Usually, there's a lot of kissing and foreplay before the actual sex takes place. Sex then ;asts for however long it takes the guy to "cum", or release his sperm. Yes, it was kind of an akward question, but I know you don't want to ask your parents. If you'd like to know more about how to actually have sex try a website like: www.babeland.com/how-to-have-sex.html This will tell you some basics about sexual things for girls and guys. If you don't like that site, just search some up on google. I hope this helped, and make sure if you actually have sex, you stay protected, know what you are getting into, and that you are both ready and willing and that is it special. You'll never get another first time after this and sex changes a relationship completely..please keep that in mind, and again, please be safe. :)
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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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Okay before I get to my advice for you, I just want to make it cleasr that it's TOTALLY okay to be 13 and never have a boyfriend. You are very young and you have your whole life ahead of you. Some people don't date until like college so don't feel like you're a late bloomer or anything. But, I also think it's great that you may have found someone that likes you. But first, with that said, don't just like him back because you may think or he does like you. Girls often do that and it's not fair to either of you. As for this case, I think the guy might like you, or at least be interested in getting to know you a little better. That was really nice of him to have "saved" you. Some guy would have totally just let you rammed yourself into the wall and laugh afterward.I also think that the fact that you catch him or his friend looking at you sometimes is a good indication that he may like you. To figure out if someone likes you without directly talking to him, is kind of tough. You just have to really pay close attentions to their actions when it comes to you or when you are around. Nice things, smiles, starring,etc are all good signs. But you really should try talking to him! Or, you could write him a lil' note to show him you know what's going on. But you should just try talking to him, you have othing to lose. But in short, he does like you I think or at least wants to get to know you better to like you more. :)
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i was wondering if you could help me come up with a new sn! im 14, i play softball and basketball, my fav number is 13, and im not a big girly girl! if that helps! if you need to no anything else about me i can tell ya! (link)
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Hey there! I'd be more than happy to hlelp you. I looked at your page to get some more info also so here are a few ideas for you:
-MississippiGrl13
-S0ftbaLLcHck13
-MsSofty13
-Sarahlovesyou
-hardc0resofty
-SoftballGrl13
-MissSarah13
-ForeverYours14
-NoTjuStaGirl
-Mississippi4lyfe
If you don't like any of those, feel free to let me know. You won't hurt my feelings. Just try to give me a more specific type or genre of sns you like. :)
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Does anyone have any good ideas for a book, for a young teen girl to read on the beach. I need a good summer read. (link)
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Here are a few suggestions for you:
-Cold Sassy Tree
-To Kill a Mockingbird
-Life in the Fat Lane
-Crazy in Love
-Hide and Seek
-Fearless
-The Face on the Milk Carton
If you'd like some more, let me know, if if there is a more specific genre you like, tell me. :)
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