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Just go up to him. But make sure you have somthing in your head of what to say. Even if its just "hey!" or something. Smile and maybe wave to show that your interested.
h.i.h

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does having sex in a pool lessen your chances or getting pregnant?

um... ok i dono why you would wanna do it in the pool but it can actually increase your risk of getting pregnant and you can also get infections from the pools clorine and all that so good luck with it... h.i.h.

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is it weird if someone ((a guy)) rights a song for you ((he likes me ALOT)) and sings it to you on the phone? it seems weird to me

i dont think thats weird at all. i would actually think thats cute. i would love if a guy did that because it means he cares. and it probably took alot of guts to sing it to you too. but no theres nothing weird about that.
hope i helped :)
simone

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Ok I have this very disgusting habit of chewing on things. It started out innocently by chewing on my hair, pencils but now it has progressed to almost everthing. I chew on the strings on my clothes. Drinking straws, Ive chewed through a few pencils and exploded a few pens. I'm not a druggie or anything but idk why i do it. Its like a nervous habit but it is really gross..any ideas on how to stop?

well maybe you should try chewing on gum just so you dont get poisoned by the ink and stuff. How to stop? well... destract yourself with something else... but chewing gum i say would help. so try that for a while.
good luck

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people always say i am outta style and im worried because i really want to fit in what should i do!

don't worry about what other people think of you style and if its in or not. Just be yourself and if they don't like it then its their problem. h.i.h.

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its about spring...and summer is about to come....i want 2 start wearing halter tops and tube tops...the thing is my back and my chest!!....i have real back acne scars mostly on my back....n its starting 2 get worse on my chest!...does anyone know anything that i can help cure this??....is there anything that can clear up scars...or is there just stuff to help frum preventing them...

Theres a cream that helps prevent acne if that helps.
I use it and i luv the results it leaves me with.
Its called homopathic fragrance-free acne cream.
it should also work with scars disapearing so you can try that. its only about 7$ and it lasts for a long time and well its just amaizing.

It helps heal and prevent acne and related skin irritations. so that should help
good luck!

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ok... I've been having this dream about a girl I used 2 like... & I think I'm over her... but were still friends & I've heard she likes me now... but back to what my dream is...

~I just lie away & can't sleep & I'm thinking about that girl & how she died & all... & so I just lie there & think about her... & then I decide to commit suicide... & in my suicide not, I left it to her best friend, says the lyrics from Gloomy Sunday (a song) & then durring my dream I kill myself~

& what I realised is that this dream & whats going on is exactly what goes on in that song "Gloomy Sunday" & ironically enough, when I 1st had this dream it was on a Sunday... & its now Friday & I've had it 3 times since last Sunday... & i'm just wondering whats going on! & I'm really freaked out! or is it that, that song is just playing in my head & I just have that dream thing like playing the story through my head only with people in my life? & I'm really lost & confused...

& a little bit more about the dream, it takes place afew years in the future like its GOING to happen or something

& I'm just really freaked out... so can someone tell me what this is about?

-Lost & Scared

Dreams are usually problems that your mind is solving. So maybe this girl you like... ment somthing to you and then when you realized that she left you you wanted to follow.
IT could actually mean alot of different things.
If you've been having it repediantly and its been going further that means that its being solved.
theres not much i can really say because i have strange dreams too sometimes.
But yea it could also mean that that song relates to your life somehow and its trying to fix it. So i'd say just wait until it comes and then you'll know what to do when it hits you.
good luck and hope i helped. :)

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I currently attend a small private school and am going to a huge public school for high school. I'm really shy, and worried that I won't make any friends. Does anyone have any specific tips for friend-making without being annoyingly outgoing? Thanks!

don't worry you'll make friends. when i first came to a new public school i was really shy, but people just came up to me and showed me around. we were friends for the year but then i found my true friends and its awesome! so just be yourself and it will come to you in a second without trying. :) h.i.h.

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Whenever I try to put a pic on advicenators or myspace it doesnt work.. On advicenators it says it has to be less than 15k how do i make it less? and why doesnt it work on myspace? thx!!

well apperantly the pics too big so you could try to shrink it a little or get a different pic thats naturally smaller.
h.i.h. ;)

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When should girls start to wear tampons?

when your period starts. you dont need to use them right away unless you are comfterble with it.

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ok well my dad is an alcholic and he drinks like every night and like a month ago he got pulled over for drunk driving he is in jail now and gets out in a few monthes! but before he went in he would always hit me and my family (not my mom tho)!! it gets me upset and dont no what to do!! and he only hits us when he isnt drunk so its either hes drunk or really mean does ne one no n e thing i can do w/o my mom knowing cuz she would freak if she found out that i tell ppl!! ~kel

Well you have to tell someone because that to me sounds like abusing.. and no it's not fun. I would tell your mom to tell the police or you tell them because he could go to jail for that... i'm sure you don't really want him in jail again.. but maybe you do. i dont know.
But you should tell someone. It's not good to keep that stuff locked up becuase worse could happen...
good luck! and hope i helped :)
simone

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ok so thers a gurl i like and she kinda likes me so i could probably go out with her but i already told another girl that i would go to the dance with her as friends and i dont know what to do so help me out

Peace

well.. you could go to the dance as a group so that you could go with that grl you like and your friend. You could also just go to the dance with you friend and then ask that girl out later.. but it really depends on your decision.
h.i.h.

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Hi, well my names Jen and im 15 and a freshman. In gym class i noticed this boy Matt and he went to my middle school but we never actually talked. But today in gym he said "Hey Jen!" and i dont know i was kind of happy about it. I saw him alot that day and i tried to say hi and smile alot but i know he is extremely shy and everything but he kind of smiled but looked down saying hi. Hes sort of geeky, but i dont think i really care about that but im not sure what to do? Thank you so muchhhh

well i would definatly try to talk to him or at least say hi, even at the most random moments. He might have a crush on you or he wants to be friends. Smile at him and maybe act shy too so he knows that hes not the only one. Umm... flirt a little if you want and just be your self. He'll come to you eventually lol.
h.i.h :)

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i am 13 122pounds and five foot three is that overweight? also can someone tell me the average range of my weight? i am also a boy.

no your weight is normal! dont worry.

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Is it better to wash your hair in cold water or in hot water? Is it less damaging?

hot water wares your hair out and ruines it faster with split ends and such. Cold water makes your hair all tangly and not so clean. Warm water is the best. And it cleans it better too. So i would wash it with warm. :)
h.i.h.

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Im gonna buy my boyfriend some stuff for his birthday, but then i also want to make him something creative. I have no idea what to do! Can someone please help me???!?!

You could buy him a CD or give him a gift certificat to places he goes to. Take him out for some food. Maybe make him a card or something cute that you think he might like. Try to make a clay figure of him if your good at that lol. Im not sure if i could.. :P
Um.. if he likes cars maybe give him a kool kit where he can build a modeling car.

theres probably WAY more but those are a few i know of lol.
good luck and hope i helped! :)

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OK, so theres this guy that i REALLY REALLY love. he likes this other girl, but he has no chance with her. someone told me that they were tlaking to him, and he said he might ask me out or that other girl. i REALLY like him and i might have a chance with him, but the thing is i dont know how to get him over the other girl and start to have more feelings for me. in the hall when i walked past him i saw him blush. what should i do?!?!?!?

you could always try asking him out first? or just start haning around him more.. he'll start realizing you more than the other girl and feelings could grow from that.
h.i.h.

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is it possible to get pregnant the very first time u have sex, and don't wear a condom?

you can become pregnant anytime you have sex condom or no condom.. even if it is your first time. thats why im waiting.. lol

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Hello all~
Thank you for taking the time to read and answer this. I wanted to know if there are any cool websites that can give me cool poems, away messages, random facts, or anything worthwhile. I am on the computer a lot and would like to find sites that are new to explore. Thank You Very MucH!!! 15/f

http://www.iconator.com/ has som away messages and icons. Im not sure where you can get the rest but im sure somthing will com up if you search on google.
h.i.h.

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its my day off from school. i dont really feel like going to hang out eith friends i just wanna chill home. can anyone give me some funn sites.
ill rate

um...
http://www.neopets.com/
http://www.funnyjunk.com/
http://www.bored.com/
http://www.neohogwarts.com/
http://xanga.com/
http://www.adictinggames.com/
http://www.google.com/ lol

thats all i got at the moment.
h.i.h.

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