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my dad is outta control!!
ok well my dad is an alcholic and he drinks like every night and like a month ago he got pulled over for drunk driving he is in jail now and gets out in a few monthes! but before he went in he would always hit me and my family (not my mom tho)!! it gets me upset and dont no what to do!! and he only hits us when he isnt drunk so its either hes drunk or really mean does ne one no n e thing i can do w/o my mom knowing cuz she would freak if she found out that i tell ppl!! ~kel
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9i kno all people love their dad but he is abusing you talk to a parent or tacher someone older you can trust your mom might want to leave him my mother always said if your bf or husband ever hits you you should leave him cause its gonna usally keep on happen and you dont want to live with someone who hits you contantly
i kno its hard but trust me
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My dad drinks alot too. But I really think that you should talk to your mom and see about getting your dad help with his drinking problem and with hitting you and you family. Or you could sit down with your dad when he gets out and talk to him about his problems
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school guidance counselor...tell them...they will think of a good reason on why they came to the conclusion and call the cops...i know it sounds hard but if your own health is at stake do what you have to do
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well your moms stupid for not wanting to help you out about your father hitting you.
second, who cares what your mother thinks? this is for the benefit of YOU! YOU are the only one that matter in this kind of situation. Go to the police, or call them next time he starts to hit you.
It's never health to have that kind of relationship with anyone and if you dont break the cycle now, chances are it's gonig to effect you later on in life in major ways.
Tell a guidance counselr at school, ask them not to contact your mother, but rather ways you can go around her if it really means that much to you to defy your mother like that.
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I know what you're going through. When I lived with my father he used to be drunk all the time and he would constantly hit me. My mom wanted to keep it all a big secret but eventually I realized that isn't a good thing. If your father is hitting you then it needs to stop you need to get some help. He has no right to hit you. If he doesn't hit your mom then she probably doesn't fully understand what you're going through. The first thing you should do is talk to her and tell her how you feel about your dad. If you don't get him to stop hitting you then it could get really serious and you could end up in the hospital. My little sister died because my dad hit her too much and too hard. You don't want that to happen to you. If your mom won't do anything about it and he keeps hitting you then you need to tell someone whether it be a school counselor, an adult that you trust or even the police it's dangerous for him to keep acting this way and you need to get out of that situation as soon as possible.
I hope that I helped you and good luck
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Lokk up alateen on the web. Tell her you found it and want to go to a meeting. It is for kids of alcoholics and is a good program. They have an alanon group that maybe she could benefit from too. Look them up. :)
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Well you have to tell someone because that to me sounds like abusing.. and no it's not fun. I would tell your mom to tell the police or you tell them because he could go to jail for that... i'm sure you don't really want him in jail again.. but maybe you do. i dont know.
But you should tell someone. It's not good to keep that stuff locked up becuase worse could happen...
good luck! and hope i helped :)
simone<3
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can you say restraining order? how about rehab? no? what about getting to plan your own funeral?
maybe this appeals the most: can you plead self defense?
waste this fucker or get him some help for his addiction. go to your local church and try to find some AA folks who'll do an intervention.
this is not a problem to screw around with, one of these days he is going to hurt somebody so bad they'll die. maybe himself, maybe you, who knows?
get him a copy of the big book(alcoholics anonymous) and try to get some form of help in doing this.
i guess that organization is one of the reasons i'm still alive today, if it wasn't for them, I'd be dead somewhere in a massachusetts cemetery. then who would save the world from the chinese?
good luck kid
-hitler
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