ok so thers a gurl i like and she kinda likes me so i could probably go out with her but i already told another girl that i would go to the dance with her as friends and i dont know what to do so help me out
Mackenzie answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 6:25 am: I believe if you've made a commitment to alReady go to the dance with someone, it would be extRemely unfaiR and huRtful to cancel on heR just because you changed youR mind when someone else came along. [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Daisy answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 5:41 am: I don't think you should tell the girl you are already taking to the dance that you can't. I think you should explain to the girl that you like that you have already asked a girl to the dance but just as friends and that was way before you decided you liked her. Tell her you would much prefer to take her but feel you can't let this other girl down. Can the girl you like take a guy that the girl you are taking likes?? That way, they can get together and then you'll be left with the girl you like!
Good Luck1 [ Daisy's advice column | Ask Daisy A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 1:35 am: You go with the one that you invited first. I think it's okay to tell the other girl that you like her though. Tell her you are already commited to take the friend to the dance but that you hope she will be there so you might have a few dances with her. If you are going to the dance as just friends though, it is possible that the friend you are taking may let the girl who likes you come along...If you're good enough friends you could ask. If she doesn't want to though, you are obligated to take the friend. Will make you look good...you are a man of your word. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
soccer1386 answered Tuesday April 26 2005, 10:52 pm: Well im kinda goin through the same thing. And i have a boyfriend and hes soo jealous if i wanna go or do somthing with my best friend and he just happens to be a boy. And he better understand or its just not worth it even though i care for him soo much. But with girls its different i woudlt probly get jealous but i would understand its your freind, just like dance with the girl you like and talk to her and tell her that you like her but you wanna go with your friend. And tell your friend that you wanna dance with the girl you like and just tell your friend that your just friends.. im sure everything will work out .. xo <3 [ soccer1386's advice column | Ask soccer1386 A Question ]
ShYbl0nD3 answered Tuesday April 26 2005, 10:23 pm: well.. you could go to the dance as a group so that you could go with that grl you like and your friend. You could also just go to the dance with you friend and then ask that girl out later.. but it really depends on your decision.
h.i.h. [ ShYbl0nD3's advice column | Ask ShYbl0nD3 A Question ]
x3_advice_x3 answered Tuesday April 26 2005, 9:23 pm: Well...i think you should tell the girl you like that you like her.. then you should tell your friend and she'll probly understand that you would rather go with your girlfriend.. but if she doesnt then tell the girl that you like that you already told a friend you'd go with them.. dont worry they'll understand.. good luck [ x3_advice_x3's advice column | Ask x3_advice_x3 A Question ]
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