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i have a feeling that my husband is still fooling around with other girls what should i do to know and find it and to stop him

If He has a Cell Phone you could get a print out like have a guy sibbling to get it. Get one of his bills and use it for refrence!- Thats What My Mom Did!

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yeah okay. so i went out with this guy and he dumped me and he was but anyway i was really upset about it. and now he likes me again and i like him soo much and i loved what we had but like my best friend hates him and thinks that he a complete @$$! and like she's always like oh please dont go back out with him please dont. i mean what do i do? do i go out with him? oh and another thing lol um its like i really wanna be with him again, but then again i dont wanna go back to my past, but theres no one else out there and i really like him. lol sorry if its confusing and long but i really need the help

Omg. I can TOTALLY relate to that. The guy that broke up with me likes me again and my friend hates him. Shes always like "Look how gay he acts" and I am like "Uh Thats NOT gay" But my advice: GO 4 It GIRL!!!!!!! ♥

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I've recently swithced types of music from gheotto to rock/emo/ skater. I'm a girl and I was wondering how I could dress skater. And what kind of make-up to use maybe some pictures. I dont want to look goth just ummmmm... punk I quess.
So how can I dress and wear punk make-up? Also what kind of skater shoes should I buy?
xo - ox

2 words. CONVERSE SHOES

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Exacally what did I do wrong. I wasn't being a smartass like most people on here and why did you give me a 2 anyway. I provided an answer and it was helpful cause CONVERSE is a type of punk/emo shoes. Their basically 'sneakerz'. Duh. If you were going to give me a 2 then you should have given a reason.

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here is the background knowledge you need to know. I have a lil bro . I am in 11grade. he is in 9th. I am the smart one. top of the class, honour roll and all sorts of crap. My lil bro is on the point of dropping out. for midsemester he got like 5 Fs (out of 10). My mom depends on me to ve the good example to him.
OK
now, today after class, I was on the bench outside od my class. My friend showed me a copy of the Chemistry test we are supposed to get tomorrow. So all of us on the bench (my freinds only) start to work it out and copy the answers for ourselves. NOW, my lil bro just comes out of nowhere and sees me copying down the answers. He was in a hurry and did not say anything but I think he saw me. what to do ?
and if he asks me when he gets home, what should I say?
i don't want him to think copying is the way to go.

hi! Just be like. ____ I wasnt copying I was helping my friends with their work. But don't ever copy cause you will be in 9th grade till your 30 and mom will kill you! Hope that works cause I don't even have a brother or sister. Just a Big sis.

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ok i'm really sorry but this is really long and i need your help so please read this! xoxo

Ok, well there's this boy (lets call him Bob) and Bob likes a girl (well call her Kate) and Kate had a boyfriend at another school. Bob really REALLY likes Kate he'd always flirt with her and talk to her and stuff. BUT Bob would also flirt with me so i started liking him. But he like Kate more and I was there for "comfort" cause Kate had a boyfriend well Kate and her boyfriend broke up so Bob asked Kate out and now their going out and I'm really sad. But I kept telling my self don't fall for him he likes Kate and plus why would he like me I'm not pretty or anything. So yea basically my question is how can i like get over him and tell my self i have no change or how do i break them up well... atcually i don't know what to do all i know is I really like Bob and i think he likes me too a lil like very very VERY little cause he flirt with me too but anyways ways and i want him to be mine or not to have feeling for him. PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME! THANKS XOXOX

Awww. Thats sweet of you liking him that much. The same thing almost happend to me. See I went out with this guy Kody and he liked this girl in 9th grade (he is in 8th grade) and he broke up with ME! Because he liked her. But she has a BF I think and me and him are still good friends. Don't make them brake up cause in the end he will end hating you (been there before). And its not worth it. But maybe when they brake up you will have your chance! Good Luk with everything!

-Neika

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Ok so i asked a question a few weeks ago about doing something with a rose for Xmas for my girlfriend and i got alot of positive feedback about it.. you might of read it.. had to do with a glass rose? well if not i decided to change it up a bit, tell me how you(a girl) would feel if your boyfriend did something like this for Xmas::
Along with your other presents, brough over a vace we 11 roses in it, and one glass rose, making a dozen roses total. And put a card in there that says, "I will stop loving you when the last rose dies." (for all the not-so-smart girls out there, 'a glass rose wont ever die') Sooo how would you like it? yes? no? maybe?

Hey! Omg That would be soo nice! I would fall over dead if a guy did that for me!

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ok..this is gonna sound "dorky"..but anywho...does anyone know any good country songs that are slow...rate high...thanks hunns!

Its not 'dorky' to like country. My self I kinda like it. but anyway what about that song by Allison Crouse (sp?) and Brad Pasley (sp again?. unmmm its called... Whiskey Lullaby. That might work!
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Oh I didnt steal that from xoxLoVexox . Sorry. I never even read hers until I already posted! :p

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Her name is Allison, and she is AMAZING. I would ask her out, but I have one problem. I'm shy. What do I do to get over it?

Hey!

My ex is the same way (i still like him lol) and he is very shy but all it took was some talking to and now he is completely open. What you could do is practice in front of a mirror like I did. Cause I was shy to. hehe

Bye!

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okay,well..this summer i got really..hard nipples and if you poke them they hurt.They pop out,there like darts! i havent had my period and no boobs yet so why are they popped out like that? 13/f does this mean when i get my period i will get boobs fast or something? pleasse help! rate 5s

haha/ You know when I read that I was drinking milk and I almpst spit it out! hahaha. But anyway its normal. Your going through puberty. (eww I know loL)

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Hey,
I have real problems with my hands at the moment, my thumbs especially. They keep 'jarring' (i.e. getting kind of stuck) and clicking when I try and bend them. It doesn't hurt a lot, but it is uncomfortable. I've heard that cracking your fingers (on purpose, I know, but still...) a lot can lead to arthritis, and my mother and grandmother both have this (my mother has rheumatoid arthritis if that helps) and they both got the joint clicking thing. This started about a month ago and has been getting progressively worse. Is arthritis heriditary? Is there anything I can do to try and prevent this or slow it down, IF it is arthritis?
I want to work with children; this would be extremely debilitating for me. My mother is only 40 and can barely do anything for herself. I don't want to end up like that!

It is in fact hereditary. My grannie had it my mom has it and I will probably have it. You should have this check out immedeatly be for it gets worse! :)

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ok i'm 15, and i'm gay.

I have a friend, who's also a lesbian, that I have a crush on. The problem is that I think she's a bit peeved at me... and I don't know why. She doesn't know i'm interested, either.

Hey.

Send her a email. Are you A guy/girl?

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I was reading a bit on dumping in a book called "the teen survivle guide for guys" and it said that if you dump a girl then beg to get back in the relationship, she will hate your guts and it will be nearly impossible to get back in the relationship. I am asking if there is any safe way to brake up. Like telling her we should be just friends for a while.

My Advice: Dont Go For The "I Just Wana Be Friends" Thing Because that brakes a girls heart more than anything. Just tell her its over. and forget it.

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Hey guys,
Me and my older sis just got our noses pierced today, and we were wondering how the hell we're supposed to blow our noses. Wouldn't stuff get stuck on our nose rings? We both have nose screws in right now, their really little diamonds. My sister's is clear and mine is a really light blue. We're wondering when it would be okay to blow our noses. If anyone has their nose pierced, can you please let me know what you did when you first got it done? That'd be great. Thank you so much! I'm going back to the place in about a week or two with my sis to get our nose rings tightened. Thanks in advance!

You know whats odd? I have wondered the same thing! Although I have never had it done. I guess it depends on what type of ring you have. :) Good Luk!! :)

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I just started a new job. The store is new, it's only been open about a week and a half. I've had about 7 shifts so far.

Well I had today(saturday) off. I knew I didnt have to work again until Sunday. The problem was that my boss left a message at 10 in the morning today saying that she needed me to cover someones shift at 5 today. I didnt actually get the message until after 5 pm because my answering maching wasnt working. So by the time I phoned the store the manager said my supervisor was gone for the day. I know that I wasnt scheduled to work today but could I get fired for not atleast phoning her? I talked to my friends and they told me I am worried for nothing and that I am allowed to have a life, but I just wanted to check here first.

Hey There.

Just Tell your Boss what was going on and that you would have came in if your answerring machine wasnt tore up. If your boss REALLY REALLY needed you they would have probably came to your house of if they could get a hold of you they could have gotten someone else! :)

See Ya!

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My dad has blood cancer and has been in the hospital for the past 6 months. His whole family is basically just waiting for him to die so they can get his money. None of them have even visited him in the hospital in the whole 6 months. Actually, his brother did--on his birthday. It's my mom's family that has been there for us and my dad. They don't want anything from my dad.


Everyone has been telling my mom to not even give them the chance at my dad's money if, god forbid, anything should happen to him. But we don't know if there is any legal way we can keep them from getting anything. Does anyone have any knowledge of this or any ideas?

OMG! That sounds like my grandma. When she was about to die they all wanted the money. They didnt care. I have to greedy uncles. And when she did die we had to split EVERYTHING! What you need to do is tell them that they aint gettin no money and have your dad to make out a contract to what he wants you guys to have!

GL Sorry about your dad! :(

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ok this is kinda weird and i didnt kno it could happen...my friend told me he got little bumps on his penis, like pimples and he said he could pop them. there is kinda a lot but only some he can pop....it isnt herpes or warts bc u can only see them when he gets an erection....he is sexually active and is concered so he asked me....i told him i would find out but i have no idea...can someone help please!!!

Hi There!

You should tell your friend to go to the doctor immeadiantly. It COULD be warts because you can have the virus and not be able to tell.

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okay me and my boyfriend matt have been going out for almost three months.. i really think just making out is getting boring for him but since hes sucha gentleman hes not gonna say anything, if i want to give him a handjob, what should i do? just put my hand down his pants? it seems like there should be more to it? i dont know its my first one! and when he fingers me.. does he like go inside my pants or is it like.. over my jeans? im really confused on all of the second base junk. HELP? please!

Hey There!

All you need to do is ask him if he is ok with it. If not tell him you can wait. Because if you wait that shows that you really do love him and your not just using him! Just ask em! :)

Green Day

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I'm 13, and there's this guy that I REALLY like. I told him, he doesn't like me back, but we're still friends. There's a dance in 3 hours, and I'm not sure whether I should ask him to slow dance. I mean, we slow danced last dance, and I'm afraid that I'll look like I'm desperately trying to "win" him when I'm not, especially considering the fact that he knows that I like him and that he does not like me back. Do you think I should, or would I just look like a loon? If not, could you give a good reason?

Hey There!

I think you should ask him to dance. Like when A song gets ready to come on be like " Hey! Do you wana dance!?" And be all happy about it! That way you wont look desperate. I had the SAME problem!

Byebye ♥

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I want to raise enough money to buy a nano iPod but many places you have to be 16 to work at. My friend told me that to work at McDonalds you can be 14(my current age) Does anyone know if this is true?

P.S-I know there food is the worst for you but I'm working there for the money.

JollyRancher Your retarted.

Hey!

I am sure if you go and ask the manager they will tell you. I Live in the US and you have to be 15 to have a 8 hour job. Hope that helped a little! Byebye

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My guy friend and I have been friends since frosh year. We talk a lot on AIM and in person.
Recently, we've been chatting more and sometimes I get vibes that maybe he likes me more than a close friend.
Our first home football game was a few weeks ago and I got him to come to it cause another friend of ours was moving that weekend to Maryland. He came after his play practice and we hung out after the halftime show(yeah marching band!).We walked towards our homes together. Across the street from his house, we chatted for a few and then hugged. I think he might have kissed me on my forehead. When I hugged him, everything felt right in the world. Then I told him I'd wait for him to cross(cause its a main road and it was 10 at night). He said "So you'd know if I die, right?" and I said "Yeah, but I don't want you to die cause I love you." He smiled and crossed then we met up on AIM when we got home.
On days that I have my private flute lesson, sometimes I see him and he comes over and sits by me. We usually chat about random things.
We usually say hey to each other in school. Online lately we have been chatting a little bit more on the sexual side. We had a conversation about balls. He says he trusts me a lot and that I'm his close friend(he doesnt believe in best friends). We have pretty much the same personality and music tastes.
The other day, we walked to the music wing together(I have band the same period he has choir). We were chatting and we were both late by 2 minutes to class.
Usually he doesn't say anything to me when he can't chat, but now all of a sudden he says "can't talk now, going to eat dinner/do a project. sorry!"
He's also started holding the door for me and making me smile more.

any ideas. Sorry this is so long.

Uh jollyrancher Your Retarted because you DID answer this question!!! (*sigh* Retards)

Ok to the question. He likes you. You should go 4 it!! I Hope things go good 4 you guys unlike me.:/

Bye!!!

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