My guy friend and I have been friends since frosh year. We talk a lot on AIM and in person.
Recently, we've been chatting more and sometimes I get vibes that maybe he likes me more than a close friend.
Our first home football game was a few weeks ago and I got him to come to it cause another friend of ours was moving that weekend to Maryland. He came after his play practice and we hung out after the halftime show(yeah marching band!).We walked towards our homes together. Across the street from his house, we chatted for a few and then hugged. I think he might have kissed me on my forehead. When I hugged him, everything felt right in the world. Then I told him I'd wait for him to cross(cause its a main road and it was 10 at night). He said "So you'd know if I die, right?" and I said "Yeah, but I don't want you to die cause I love you." He smiled and crossed then we met up on AIM when we got home.
On days that I have my private flute lesson, sometimes I see him and he comes over and sits by me. We usually chat about random things.
We usually say hey to each other in school. Online lately we have been chatting a little bit more on the sexual side. We had a conversation about balls. He says he trusts me a lot and that I'm his close friend(he doesnt believe in best friends). We have pretty much the same personality and music tastes.
The other day, we walked to the music wing together(I have band the same period he has choir). We were chatting and we were both late by 2 minutes to class.
Usually he doesn't say anything to me when he can't chat, but now all of a sudden he says "can't talk now, going to eat dinner/do a project. sorry!"
He's also started holding the door for me and making me smile more.
Pathetic_Californian answered Friday November 11 2005, 7:35 pm: Go for it. Tell him how you feel, hun. Say something cute like, "Hey... How awkward would it be if I told you I liked you? You know, more than just as a friend"
He sounds like he is either wanting to be really good friends, or more.
See which one-- find out if your wasting your time fanticizing. If you are, then at least you will know.
Might sound cliche, but it's just the truth!
Oh and don't take the situation seriously, either. It's just one relationship. Chances are you will have many more. No need to be nervous-- You have to realize that. It's just a waste of energy. If he's not into you, you can't help that. [ Pathetic_Californian's advice column | Ask Pathetic_Californian A Question ]
DeadMemories answered Friday November 11 2005, 6:38 pm: Uh jollyrancher Your Retarted because you DID answer this question!!! (*sigh* Retards)
Ok to the question. He likes you. You should go 4 it!! I Hope things go good 4 you guys unlike me.:/
happy-helper answered Friday November 11 2005, 5:44 pm: Wow..sounds like this guy likes you...A LOT! Keep flirting, smiling, waving and maybe that close friendship could develop into something more...if you want it to of course!
Best of luck!!!
x Steph x [ happy-helper's advice column | Ask happy-helper A Question ]
Teza answered Friday November 11 2005, 4:06 pm: Wow, I really do think he likes you. It's eater that, or he just loves you because you're one of his closest friends. Those are signs of being friendly and caring for someone. The only way you could ever know if he likes you more than a friend is if you ask him. I know you don't want to and you might feel a little uncomftrable, but when you guys are on the subject just ask him. You guys are close enough to talk about anything. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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