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I dunno what to do bout him....
ok i'm really sorry but this is really long and i need your help so please read this! xoxo
Ok, well there's this boy (lets call him Bob) and Bob likes a girl (well call her Kate) and Kate had a boyfriend at another school. Bob really REALLY likes Kate he'd always flirt with her and talk to her and stuff. BUT Bob would also flirt with me so i started liking him. But he like Kate more and I was there for "comfort" cause Kate had a boyfriend well Kate and her boyfriend broke up so Bob asked Kate out and now their going out and I'm really sad. But I kept telling my self don't fall for him he likes Kate and plus why would he like me I'm not pretty or anything. So yea basically my question is how can i like get over him and tell my self i have no change or how do i break them up well... atcually i don't know what to do all i know is I really like Bob and i think he likes me too a lil like very very VERY little cause he flirt with me too but anyways ways and i want him to be mine or not to have feeling for him. PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME! THANKS XOXOX
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well first dont ever put down you self down and i think you should find another guy to aim for this will get your mind of him
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dont' put yourself down for not getting asked out. you should really talk to your friend if you think that it's going to hurt your friendship. don't forget that you are going to meet many boys in your life, so dont' give up your hopes because you failed with one. try to be happy with your friend for getting the boyfriend. but remember, if it's something that is really hard on you, talk to your friend and she'll probobly do the right thing, as i hoep you well. good luck!
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Awww. Thats sweet of you liking him that much. The same thing almost happend to me. See I went out with this guy Kody and he liked this girl in 9th grade (he is in 8th grade) and he broke up with ME! Because he liked her. But she has a BF I think and me and him are still good friends. Don't make them brake up cause in the end he will end hating you (been there before). And its not worth it. But maybe when they brake up you will have your chance! Good Luk with everything!
-Neika
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Well first of all I'm sure that you are beautiful, secondly a guy will like you more if you start to see that you are and believe it. He will see that you have confidence and you know that you are beautiful. I've been in this situation before and I broke up 2 couples because I like the guy that much. That was a misstake you'd think I would have learned the first time but luckily I learned even if it was the second time. Both of the girls I did it too were my really good friends, and luckily they forgave me.So don't make my mistake and do that. I guess you can wait it out and if he likes you enough to go out with you he'll dump you'r friend. Just make sure you talk to your friend first! You should probably talk to your friend now about it just so she knows and hears it from you and not someone else.:) Hope I helped a bit and good luck! :)
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This is hard...Did Bob have a girlfriend while he flirted with you and Kate? If he did, then he is a jerk because he flirts with girls when he's already "taken." If he did this while he was going out with another girl, he will do it when he's going out with Kate, or if he goes out with you. If this is true, then tell yourself: "He's hot, WHATEVER. He doesn't treat his girlfriends right, and I deserve better." If he didn't have a girlfriend, and he seems to be a nice person, just try to get over him! Make yourself as busy as you can for a week or two, filling up your time with friends and after-school activities. It's going to be hard, but try not to think about him. You don't have to hate Bob, but you're going to get depressed if you like a guy with a girlfriend. However it works out, try not to be mean to Bob. He's only a person, and he's probably happy now with Kate. If you break them up, it will make him unhappy, and if Bob ever finds out he'll NEVER go out with you! Be pleasant to Bob, and if he flirts with you, show him that you're not turned off, but don't flirt back. Try to be friends with Bob, and maybe when he breaks up with Kate you'll be the first one he goes to! Good luck :)
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