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Q: i really really have a problem with kissing my boyfriend. we've been going out for quite a while now and we've only reached a hug. i really do wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me but we're both so nervous. everyone says it will come naturally but we're both too nervous for it ever to come.
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Well take your time and if you want to enough do so and it wont shock either of you to completely because you knew both of you wanted to. it usually does come naturally though. -trix
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Q: i dont no what to do anymore my best friend she seems like shes not my best friend anymore.i am in 7th grade, but anyway it seems like she never wants to do anything wit me any more. HELP ME PLEASE.
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Talk to her make plans for ahead of time and if she ditches be like o so now your ditching me.. its okay i have new plans anyways thats what i did with my best friend well old best friend but i've opened my horizons and now have tonz but just talk to her let her know how you feel. maybe something is wrong maybe something happaned in her family or something.. talk to her about it but not when there are tons of friends around you 2 but when its just like a sleepover or something with just u 2 cuz if u pull her away to talk then others may think your hiding something from them-trix ()please rate me()
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Q: ok im 14 and going to be a freshman. i really like this guy still that i went out w/ for 4 months (which is a loooong time for me) at the beging of last year. i broke up w/ him cause i found this other guy who i thought i loved he ended up screwing me over, but anyway i hurt this guy a lot when i broke up w/ him. we couldnt even talk to each other for like 3 months. now we r really close friends and we have recently admitted we like each other still. but i dont know if i should go out w/ him because... well... im afraid im going to hurt him again. i have a problem w/ comitment i guess.
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Well give it you a shot if he means a awful lot to you cuz this could be something weather your going to be a freshman or not and just point out that one of you could get hurt in the end but u both are going to try as hard as you possibly can try without hurting eachother. and if you guys are close friends then that makes things even easier to go through a relationship. good luck on you to-trix (please rate me)
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Q: How do I help a runaway whose parents are verbally abusive, and I thing are overall crazy! Her parents are longtime friends of mine but their style of discipline seems crazy. The child in question ("SUE"), is 17 and is basically a great kid. She's mannerable and has just started to show interest in boys. She was adopted by my friends when she was around 5 years old after being abandoned by her natural mom in a homeless shelter. She has adjusted well overall but I can understand that she has to deal with the past in her mind as well as deal with the problems of growing up. They have changed the locks and told the other kids in the house not to let her in but they tell me she was not put out! What do you call that? THey refuse to let her get any clothes and went to her job and got her last paycheck so she relies solely on me (which I don't mind). I took her home because they tricked me into thinking I could get some items and they blocked the door and took her! I could hear them shouting, calling her names, and now I fear that they have taken her to a receiving home. I am DEVASTATED!!! I hate that they are doing this to her and feel helpless. I also feel guilty that I actually believed them only to be tricked and now she is suffering. What should I do or could I do?
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I know its hard to see a good friends get hurt exspecially by another friend of yours so what i would do is quickly call somebody asap and get her out of that home and into a new safe one. before things really start to get bad unless they already are then worse. cuz i know you or noone would want that-trix
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Q: Okay, my room has been essentially the same way since 6th grade, and I'm gonna be a senior in the fall. I can't paint or wallpaper my room because my mom's allergic to all the paints and all the wallpaper glues. I also have a bit of a budget problem. My dad's unemployed and my mom can't work because of her allergies. I just can't seem to get a job because there's nothing around here that's hiring.
Anyone have any ideas as to what I could do to this place? My bed has to be against an outer wall...if it isn't, my dad's snoring, like, shakes the bed.
(Laugh if you want; it's funny, but it's also true. It sucks.)
Help me out?
-Siren ^_^
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What i dont understand is why your mom cant get something for all her allergies and why she cant work and why your dad is unemployed.. how do you afford anything? and for you working wash cars babysit help plants gardens mow rake shovel you can think of anything for all yr round-trix (please rate me)
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Q: ok there is this boy that i really like and he has been gettin into some trouble in the last couple of months not like big trouble by the police just by his mom and he told me befor that his mom said that if he didnt straighten up he will be heading to boot camp!! i just found out today in like 2 weeks he is gonna be goin and he is like a big part of my life and i really liek him and he is gonna be gone for a year!! what should i do ??? if u can give me some advice i would really appreciate it !!!! thanks!!
~*~*~*katie*~*~*~
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Ask him if he knows what he is in for and tell him to prove to her that he can change and tell him to do chores around the house help him out a bit and tell him to think before he does something stupid and to think before he says something stupid and to think before he does pretty anything stupid. let him know that he is a big part of your life and you can not afford to lose him and you dont want him going off and he will relize how much better it is at home (i relized that after i went to boot camp) and tell him it sucks you are up at 4 am and running forever and doing pushups and situps in the gravel with your knuckles dug into the ground weather its pouring rain or not and everything you are in is a tent and thats what you have for a inside really and you are off to bed at 10 they do the 13:00 and 23:00 thing like 13:00 is 1 pm 23:59 is 11:59 but anyways they always yell in your face and you are yes mam no mam yes sir no sir-ing them under all circumstances-trix (please rate me)
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Q: ok what is the in color for hair? blonde or brown ? i am a blonde right now but it is a died blonde some ppl like it and some dont i think i look a little better as a blonde but i dont know cuz i did have brown hair with blonde highlights but i have blue eyes and i think the blonde brings them out more but i just want to know what is the in color for hair?
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Die it to brown maybe you could go aburn or something like a redish purplish brownish color cuz when the roots come in its not so bad my roots arent bad cuz im natural blond but it would b bad if i died them brown or something-trix (please rate me)
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Q: How do I get over a guy?!? I thought I didn't like him, so I pushed him away. Now everytime I talk to him, I think I want to be with him. idk what to do.
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Try to keep your distance from him and talk to him less as possible until you no for sure that you are over him and if you think you are over him and are not keep repeating what you did. but remember to keep your eyes peeled (not literally that could hurt) (haha) but just keep a watch out for other guys cuz mr.perfect4u could be to your left when you are always looking on your right lookin at the guy u like now and cant seem to get over. so dont stay clinged to him look for others also-trix ((RaTe Me PlEaSe))
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Q: My car keeps dying every once in a while. It happens usually when I brake to stop. I had the air filter changed, I got a new muffler, etc. What could be causing this and how do I stop it. It died when I was on a steep him, and I rolled into the middle of the intersection and almost got hit. I don't want to get into an accident, I can't afford it.
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So sell the car for the parts maybe somebody wants the parts of it and then save up and keep the money for a new car from the old car and have a garage sell and sell old things but make sure they are worth something and use that towards a new car-trix
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Q: I was dating a guy for 9 months and we had sex...we broke up yesturday and he allready has another g/f. Should I regret doing that? To me it seems as if he doesn't even care what had happened between us b/c he's allready dating another girl...I'm just confused.
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Well having sex was already a mistake if you are young and ect. and if you didnt love him then he wasnt obviusely the one and you dont have to be the one to regret it but i know i would. but then again im a virgin and waiting for the guy i love and make sure its something speacial. because it should be a speacial moment. trix
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Q: Ok. So my friend who is 14 like me, basically makes out with a different guy every night and gives head to a new guy every week. She recently lost her virginity at a party, and when we started talking about all the stuff she does she says she has fun but she looked really sad. Personally I think she's been doing way to much stuff with way too many random guys. I don't want to hurt her, and make her think I think she's a slut or anything, but I do want to talk to her because I'm concerned. What do I do?
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Tell her all the bad things about what could come out of the things and the names people could start to give her and if she found a guy she really liked he might only like her for what she is going around doing. tell her to stop and think about it really long and really hard and to get back to you with what she thought of and let her know that you are always there for her no matter what-trix (*rate me*)
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Q: i wanna get into saps at my school what do i do..
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What is saps.. sorry i dont know you would have to tell me more about it.. just try your hardest and good grades im sure help-trix
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Q: Alright, there's this guy who goes to my friends Church. His name is Collin. Anyway, I've thought Collin was cute for a while and I noticed him looking at me a few times during church and stuff. Well I told my guy friend, Aaron (who's friends with him) about it. Well a few weeks ago at a concert my friend Aaron went up to Collin and asked him what he thought about me (I didn't know what he was doing at the time... All I saw was Aaron talking to him and Collin smiling a lot.) Well Aaron told me that Collin smiled and nodded and said "Nice" (like he thought I looked good or something.) Aaron told me I'd have to start talking to him because he's shy or w/e. Well when I got home he was online and my friend Crystal (whom he barely knows by the way) IMed him...and asked him what he thought about me, again. And he told HER that he wasn't my type. So my friend kind've just left it at that. Well lately I've been noticing him looking at me more and stuff. Like one sunday he turned around and I didn't notice this but my friend Andrew told me Collin was checking me out. So what I want to know is do you think he likes me and... if he does why did he completely turn the tables like he did.. Why did he tell Crystal one thing and Aaron another??
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Maybe he barely knows crytal like you said and didnt know what to say or maybe he felt pressured from aaron because your good friends with him and he didnt want to say no he didnt like you that or something but why dont you IM him and ask him whats up?-trix
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Q: im 14 and i really want to have a baby. every where i look all i can see is babys. i no im to young but can ne 1 help me plz
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14?! are you nuts?! You wont be able to go to parties or prom w/o trying to find a baby sitter every 2 seconds you'll have no time on your hands for you friends you'll be so tired you'll have to put all your time towards you child.-trix
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Q: My neighbor offered her 1988 Honda Civic for 1000.00, It needed a battery, 4 tires, I could not test drive it, It had expired plates. I trusted her word. The car sat for 8 months, undriven. She is letting me make payments. I signed a paper saying so. When I got the title, her name was never on there. I only had the car 2 months and I already bought a battery, tires. Now it needs about 200.00 worth of work on it to run. She will not lower the price, and I no longer have a job. I offered the car back. She refuses. What else can I do. I am paying for a car that is only worth 600.00 the most. She took advantage of me. Also the car is in my husband's name. How can I get out of this situation. Please help!
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Q: ok say your in deep love but then you see another guy walk bye and say to ur friends oo hottie what does that mean? does it mean the guy you in love with ur not really in love with or is it just normal for ppl to do that?
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Normal.. when you think someone is hot doesnt mean your not in love i think there are tons of hotties around but i love my boyfriend nathan.-trix (please rate me)
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Q: my friend thinks that she is better than me at evrything and i got so pissed off one night and she pushed me and i pushed her back and then we startd makinout and we did *it* (lol) i dno how to tell my gf... should i?. I NEED HELP
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You should tell your gf, chances are you guys will break up.. but thats what comes out of making stupid things and you also learned something valuable but just let your gf no that you do love her but at that point i dont know much help that will do sorry dude-trix (please rate me)
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Q: i was wondering if anyone here has a theme for their room.. or has i theme in mind for me.. & if you do have any ideas on how i could apply it to my walls and with my furnaiture!
please help! :)
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right now its the tiger theme but i am going the hole princess theme big change from like forest green to like pinks and yellows but thats what i have.-trix(please rate me)
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Q: ok how do i lose 20 lbs in 3 weeks.. i was thinking of starving myself i know its not good but it should wokr.. i weigh 126 and i need to lose 20 lbs in 3 weeks but i actually need it gone in my stomch area thats my problme how do i lose 20 lbs in my stomach area and i onyl have 3 weeks help!!! by th way im 14 im too much over weight and just give me advice to lose it hurry iv only got 3 weeks!!
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Do the south beach diet and pushups and crunches and situps and ect. run/jog/walk -trix
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Q: female/13 ok ..... I have a friend who that when ever she needs me I am always there , but when it is put the other way around she doesn't do the same for me . I am sick of being in last place , whenever I ask can she go to the mall with me she ditches me to go with some other guy , but if she wants to go and I have am not able to she gets mad and gets an attitude , and when ever we fight it is always MY fault . Like last time she got mad cause I tld my other friend something that I was going through with my amily and I refused to tell her cause she wouldn't understand cause she has both of her parents. What should I do ?
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Sit her down and make her listen you shouldnt be having to tell her everything and you shouldnt have to go everywhere she wants you try not going with her for awhile and see whats up then-trix
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bio
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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.
I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.
I've been there done that im sure
ex. (with the number of expierences)
-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)
Like I said "been there done that"
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Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: June 3, 2004 Answers: 3661 Last Update: December 20, 2009 Visitors: 221898
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