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ALWAYS PUT LAST
female/13 ok ..... I have a friend who that when ever she needs me I am always there , but when it is put the other way around she doesn't do the same for me . I am sick of being in last place , whenever I ask can she go to the mall with me she ditches me to go with some other guy , but if she wants to go and I have am not able to she gets mad and gets an attitude , and when ever we fight it is always MY fault . Like last time she got mad cause I tld my other friend something that I was going through with my amily and I refused to tell her cause she wouldn't understand cause she has both of her parents. What should I do ?
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Try talking to her. Let her THINK what will she feel if she were in ur shoes. Don't scold her or anything, talk to her in a relaxed way. But be firm. If she still never change, then I got no idea!hehe.Good Luck! :D
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Tell her like it is...
tell her to stop bein' such a bia
Just tell her she wouldn't understand and tell her you are getting annoyed being faded all the time.. that you feel really used
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Sit her down and make her listen you shouldnt be having to tell her everything and you shouldnt have to go everywhere she wants you try not going with her for awhile and see whats up then-trix
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Just talk to her and let her know how you feel ! Stand up to her !
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It's time to put your foot down. She will continue to treat you this way (because she knows she can) until you do something about it. Don't take her attitude. If she ditches you, let her know that it upsets you and it's a crappy thing to do. And if she doesn't get things her way don't appoligise for it. You don't have to answer to her. Stop being her doormat!
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Your friend is probably going through a phase or otherwise she is just growing up and adapting to some new personality. Sometimes when friends grow older they grow farther aprt. This does suck, but there is really nothing you can do about it. I'm sure if you try to talk to her about her attitude, it would probably turn into a big argument. My advice is if you're friend is making you feel upset, down and in last place, you probably just need to leave her alone, and hopefully she will come back to her sences. Hope I helped. :)
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wow! am i sure i didnt right this? haha ..this sounds so much like my position with one of my friends right now..AND U HATE IT RIGHT!!! urr..whenever she needed boy advice i would give her all the advice..or when she wanted to tell me a story bout one of her dum boyfriends..i woule listen! and then when it came to the point that i wanted to tell HER a story she sed to me straight out *idun realli care* wow that got me mad! yea and she tells ppl all her secrets first and not u and ur best first..but n0 she gotta tell other pppl//but then if u tell sum1 sumthin first she FLIPS! right? shes the kinda person u dun trust..bc in the long run every tyme u do sumthin wrong..she goes out like a baby and tells ppl stuff about u..shes the one that..its all bout her all the tyme..its annnoyin..just tell her the truth..be like *why is it ok if u do this..but then when i do it u flip out?* then i kno what she will say.she would b like *no0o that never happens* and then she will b moody for like a couple of miunutes and then come bak bc thats the kinda person who always comes bak when they need a favor..or they need a tampon..lol..and then we are the kinda ppl who just keep on going bak..start to not give her things..not tell her stuff...and just kinda not tell her things bc as soon as u guys get in a flight she goes and tells ppl..and tats not nice..yikes..lol xOoOx
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Here is my advise for you....If she is truley your friend she will understand in those situations. I don't think she is being a good friend and I think you should have a talk with her and tell her how you really feel and don't hold anything back because if you don't tell her what you are thinking or feeling this situation won't get better at all
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You need to tell her exactly what you told us. Explain to her how you feel, but make sure it is without an attitude or she will never hear you out and she will get mad. If this doesn't work, take a good look at your friendship. List the good things and the bad and see which one has more. Try to imagine your life without her. If it wouldnt make that much of a difference then take a break, but if it would then talk to her and stick it out! Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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