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i really really have a problem with kissing my boyfriend. we've been going out for quite a while now and we've only reached a hug. i really do wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me but we're both so nervous. everyone says it will come naturally but we're both too nervous for it ever to come.
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well you dont want to rush into things...if you're so nervous than give it some time..maybe spend as much time as you can with him and be serious about your relationship..rely on him as much as you need..dont be so shy lol..well i hope i helped..:-D good luck!! bye bye
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it will come natural, if you are meant yo kiss each other it will just happen on its own
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well i say everyone gets nervous,but i think that u should tell ur boyfriend to go ahead & get it over with & just close ur eyes & let it happen.....
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ok im gonna make this short. If you want it, then u gotta make it happen. KISS HIM! he might like that u took charge ;)
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try going to the movies its dark in there so you really cant see each other then maybe you can try to kiss him there. I am sure the first kiss is very nervous for the both of you. I hope everything goes ok and when it happens it happens!! good luck
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It'll come natrully. just don't worry about it.
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jsut go for it!! take a risk!! just try on the cheek for now then when u guys are more comfortable go to the lips!! good luck!!
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Ok wow - flashback! I was in a relationship for 4 months and it took a hell of a lot for me to even hug him. And I nearly had a heart attack.
Its obvious that you'd like this relationship to last, otherwise you wouldn't be concerned about this. So I'll tell you what happened to that relationship, it of course ended. We each thought the other had stopped caring about the relationship because there was no gradual progression in maturity and whatnot. So it ended.
If this is important to you, which it is, then make the effort. Or, you can do something that will attempt to FORCE him to kiss you. And that method is to grab his hand and hold it and then just stare into his eyes until he kisses you.
If you really care about him, your fear wont be strong enough to keep you two from kissing ever. Don't let an otherwise great opportunity for a long term relationship slip away because of fear.
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oh dont worry hun. it WILL come naturally when the time is right. there was this one guy i dated that i wanted to kiss but am glad i didnt cuz we split up and i am so glad i didnt get to far invovled. just think abotu that...but maybe you could juss do it and get it over with. good luck!
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while the first time may be a bit awkward just go for it
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One of your options, is to muster up some courage and actually confront him about it verbally. And if he feels the same way and wants to kiss you, then go for it!
Another approach to it could be to go to a movie with him, sort of cuddle alot with him, and when he drops you off at home, just lean over and give him a nice smack on the lips.
Once you get past this barrier once, it will be easier to do it as time goes on.
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hey girl i`ve totally been there before, if you can tell he wants to kiss you but hes too shy, gather up all the courage you can and just kiss him, its hard to do but its worth it.my last b/f we when out 4 2years he wuz shy and i didn`t kiss him for a year but when i did we got closer & me & him started kissing all the time!Don`t be scared, just go 4 it!
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alright...i see what your saying...and yes i know ur nervous and all...maybe if it was somwhere that u and him were just there...movies,someones house...your friends mean well and they only wanna see u happy, and maybe if u want it bad enough girls can make the first move...or just talk about how u guys feel...maybe aafter u got ur feelings out on the table it'll feel better! good luck! IM me at Breathless4u3784 or e-mail me at iluvyou3784@yahoo.com and tell me how it works out!
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Well take your time and if you want to enough do so and it wont shock either of you to completely because you knew both of you wanted to. it usually does come naturally though. -trix
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try going up one level into kiss cheeking and move up as it gets less nervous for the both of you, soon enough it'll come that day when you "kiss kiss" :] hope that helps.
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