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What do i do??
ok im 14 and going to be a freshman. i really like this guy still that i went out w/ for 4 months (which is a loooong time for me) at the beging of last year. i broke up w/ him cause i found this other guy who i thought i loved he ended up screwing me over, but anyway i hurt this guy a lot when i broke up w/ him. we couldnt even talk to each other for like 3 months. now we r really close friends and we have recently admitted we like each other still. but i dont know if i should go out w/ him because... well... im afraid im going to hurt him again. i have a problem w/ comitment i guess.
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I say go for it, even if you do end up hurting him, do your best not to. but if you do hurt him, your young, you got 4 yrs to go and if anything, going out with him may give you more experience in dealing with relationships, so that you can do better in the future. same thing goes for him.
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hey i feel you, but keep this in mind "its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all"
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I have the same problem..i dont like comitment and my longest boyfriend was 4 1/2 months...i think you should go for it, there is a chance that u will hurt him and that he will hurt u but u cant hide foreva...even if somthing dose happend and theres something u can learn from it...im me breathless4u3784 or e-mail me at iluvyou3784@yahoo.com and tell me how it goes best of luck!!
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I say just go for it. If your afraid of comitment, all the more reason to challenge yourself. You can't live every minute in fear because what you have done in the past. If you still like this guy, then don't hold back. Hope I've helped some.
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Well give it you a shot if he means a awful lot to you cuz this could be something weather your going to be a freshman or not and just point out that one of you could get hurt in the end but u both are going to try as hard as you possibly can try without hurting eachother. and if you guys are close friends then that makes things even easier to go through a relationship. good luck on you to-trix (please rate me)
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Honey I am 18 and I have the same problem. COMMITMENT!!! Guys just seem to demand answers from us all the time. If you like him tell him how you are feeling, but let him know the situation at hand. Tell him that you are afraid of commitment. If he is really into you he will understand how you feel, and together you both can work through the problem. If he doesn't understand and just wants to be persistant, then you don't need that. You are only 14 years old. There are plenty of guys in the world. Some will break your heart, others will stick around until you break their heart. Love is blind. It hurts but at the same time it feels good because you have someone there with you who cares and holds you. If this guy wants to be with you he will wait until the time is right. If you guys aren't meant to be together, the power of love will break you apart. Take it slow. Things will work out okay for you and your friend.
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If you have commitment issues, I wouldn't date him. It took him 3 months to recover last time, who knows how long, or if he'll recover this time. If you do decide to date him, make sure it's going to last, it sounds like you don't want to lose him as a friend.
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Well you should go out wit him....i mean what could be the worst thing that happens???? But just for the record you should tell him that if you do for some reason break up say that you guys will still be friends okkk???? now go ask him out girl!!!!
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