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How do I get over a guy?!? I thought I didn't like him, so I pushed him away. Now everytime I talk to him, I think I want to be with him. idk what to do.
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well,i think if he still like u then go back with him.....
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i totally know how this is. if this guy is a friend it could just be that u r really close and like spending time w/ him. but its also very possible that u do like this kid but maybe ur scared to like him. one thing... dont ever be scared to like a guy! that will just make u regret. it sounds like ur not gonna be able to push this guy away... so dont!
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You must take some time, and consider what has happened. And now you must think of some other things. DO you think that if u told him that you had a change of heart, that it can be restarted? Is it the fact that there is no one else, or is it an out of face, and its out of mind, but when you talk to him, you do like him? if you think that there is no way to fix it, then maybe you should move on. If you dont want to get him back, then make sure you don't lead him on. Try and see if you are sending mixed signals, when u do talk. Maybe spend some time with some friends, and do stuff to keep your mind off of it, like try and meet some new guys, or do something different. If it is meant to be, then it will, if you don't want to, then that's just fine too. YOu don't have to do anyhting you don't want to
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I am going through EXACTLY what your going through right now. I just broke up with my boyfriend and I can't get over him!!!!! WEll it pretty much seems like you do like him no matter how much you deny it....so go for it follow your heart....
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Try to keep your distance from him and talk to him less as possible until you no for sure that you are over him and if you think you are over him and are not keep repeating what you did. but remember to keep your eyes peeled (not literally that could hurt) (haha) but just keep a watch out for other guys cuz mr.perfect4u could be to your left when you are always looking on your right lookin at the guy u like now and cant seem to get over. so dont stay clinged to him look for others also-trix ((RaTe Me PlEaSe))
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Well, I know how the guy feels. It would be helpful if you told him how you felt. I've been in his shoes before, and I would have wanted nothing more than for the girl to tell me how she really felt instead of making me guess. Even if he doesn't feel the same way, or is in a relationship, at least then you can start to get ovewr him.
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alright! i know the feeling! oh trust me i do...same feeling same everything...but mine had a happy ending and i hope urs dose too...i talked to him like frineds/flirty! all that..see if hes interested... can maybe still get something ya know...unless u dont even wanna see anything like that...if not then i kinda got bad news for ya!...u cant fastly get over a guy that u had hidden or deep feelings for..u gotta let it run its path...one day ur just find out that hes not worth it...hes just not for u...and all that...wait it out...just because ur getting over someone dosent mean u cant have fun! remember that! best of luck!
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Well... my best advice would be to tell him how you feel. Tell him you were wrong about your feelings and that you want to be with him. If you dont want to do that do something else like a sport to get your mind off of him and keep you busy... maybe you'll meet someone while your doing that.
-Holly-
Hope I helped
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Try talking to him. Your probably like this because you are scared of commitment. If things go well in the future as friends, then maybe you should think about going furthur in your relationship. Whatever you do, take it slow. Hope I helped some.
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