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what should i do
ok there is this boy that i really like and he has been gettin into some trouble in the last couple of months not like big trouble by the police just by his mom and he told me befor that his mom said that if he didnt straighten up he will be heading to boot camp!! i just found out today in like 2 weeks he is gonna be goin and he is like a big part of my life and i really liek him and he is gonna be gone for a year!! what should i do ??? if u can give me some advice i would really appreciate it !!!! thanks!!
~*~*~*katie*~*~*~
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uhuh. well, it may seem harsh, but if this boy seems to be getting in alot of trouble then maybe hes not worth it. that or his mom is psyco, at any rate boot camp doesnt last forever.
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do what your ready for and what you think is right
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Hi, Katie. First off, i bet its the fact that he's bad which draws you to him. A lot of girls, and women are attracted to those bad boys, and it don't have to be the ones that are realyl bad, its because its different than whta they do. I know that it may be hard, but what he has to do is acknowledge authority. I think that you can keep in touch with him, and write to him. Don't abandon him. How do your parents feel about it? i would have liked to know how old you are because the age depends on the behavior. In what ways is he a big part of your life? does he know you like him? how does he feel about it? i think u should keep in touch, but you will see that as he's gone, and you are going to change, maybe your feelings will too. I think that it may be wise to realize that you are a great girl, and that he has messed up. He don't have a choice, but you have to move on, or see how things change when he comes back
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I agree w/ the first two grls. But if it doesnt work move on you cant keep yourself hung on 1 guy!
Bianca
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Ask him if he knows what he is in for and tell him to prove to her that he can change and tell him to do chores around the house help him out a bit and tell him to think before he does something stupid and to think before he says something stupid and to think before he does pretty anything stupid. let him know that he is a big part of your life and you can not afford to lose him and you dont want him going off and he will relize how much better it is at home (i relized that after i went to boot camp) and tell him it sucks you are up at 4 am and running forever and doing pushups and situps in the gravel with your knuckles dug into the ground weather its pouring rain or not and everything you are in is a tent and thats what you have for a inside really and you are off to bed at 10 they do the 13:00 and 23:00 thing like 13:00 is 1 pm 23:59 is 11:59 but anyways they always yell in your face and you are yes mam no mam yes sir no sir-ing them under all circumstances-trix (please rate me)
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i agree with the first advice givin prove to his mom that he has to stay
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Tell him to tell his mom that he can make a difference. And then prove it to her by not getting into trouble. That way his mom may change her mind! Good luck! :D
Hope it works out! :)
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